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Feel like your dreams are stuck in a âloading⊠please waitâ loop? ADHD might be the reasonâand the hidden key. In this episode, I break down 5 sneaky ADHD barriers blocking your progress and walk you through a powerful coaching exercise to outsmart overwhelm and build real momentumâADHD-style.
Thereâs a reason your dreams keep getting delayedâand itâs not laziness.
Youâve got ideas. Youâve got ambition. But somehow, your follow-through is on a permanent coffee break. ADHD much?
Sure, ADHD comes with its fair share of barriersâbut it also hides some powerful levers that can help you achieve your dreams. Problem is, those levers donât come with a user manual. Until you figure out how your brain ticks, they stay locked away like treasures in a video game. All you need is to crack the code on your brilliant brain.
In this episode, weâre diving into 5 sneaky ADHD barriers that can quietly sabotage your dream-chasing mojo. But donât worryâweâre not just naming the culpritsâyouâll also learn:
đ„ How executive function messes with your momentum
đ„ What to do when your brain ghosts your own goals
đ„ Why the âboring middleâ makes you want to peace out (and how to stick with it by making it fun)
Plus, I walk you through a powerful coaching exercise to help you name whatâs really getting in your way, outsmart the overwhelm, and build real momentum toward your dream.
Youâre not lazy and you donât need to work harder. Youâre just stuck in ADHD quicksand. This episodeâs your ropeâgrab it and letâs climb out so those dreams find their way out of the âsomedayâ zone.
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When we talk about the ADHD tax, producing your income tax declaration is definitely something that figures on the list of what ADHD is costing you as it is not uncommon for people with ADHD to be late or even a few years behind in their declarations.
The ADHD tax amounts to thousands of dollars every year. In the US, adults with ADHD earn about $15 to $20 thousand dollars LESS annually than our neurotypical peers with the same education? Here in Canada, itâs approximately $10 to $15K less per year.
The estimated lifetime economic impact in the United States, ranges between $400,000-to half a million dollars per individual in lost wages, fees, and treatment costs. In Canada, it ranges from $350,000-$450,000 per person in lost wages, healthcare costs, and productivity losses.
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In this episode, ADHD coach Zarina Boily reveals how the words you use in your inner dialogue literally rewire your brain. Discover the powerful science behind self-talkâfrom neuroplasticity and mirror neurons to your brain's default mode networkâand learn actionable strategies to transform âI canâtâ into âwatch me.â This is your blueprint for flipping the narrative, boosting creativity, and unlocking the hidden genius within.
What Youâll Learn:
The Impact of Self-Talk:
Understand how the language you use shapes your self-perception, stress response, and overall mindset.The Neuroscience Behind Your Inner Dialogue:
Dive into the science of neuroplasticity, mirror neurons, and the default mode network, and discover how your words create lasting neural pathways.Actionable Reframes:
Learn practical techniques to replace negative self-talk with empowering, positive language that drives success.Boosting Problem-Solving & Creativity:
See how a simple shift in your inner dialogue can enhance your ability to tackle challenges and come up with innovative solutions.Building Resilience & Motivation:
Discover how changing your narrative can improve your mental health, increase resilience, and unlock your full potential.Key Takeaways:
Your self-talk is a powerful tool: It directly influences your brain's wiring and your overall mindset.Science backs transformation: Research shows that positive language can reduce stress hormones, boost dopamine, and improve cognitive function.Small shifts lead to big changes: Even minor tweaks in your self-talk can set off a domino effect, enhancing creativity and problem-solving abilities.Empowerment is within reach: Reframing your internal narrative is a practical, actionable way to overcome limiting beliefs.Your brain is adaptable: With neuroplasticity on your side, every effort you make to shift your language rewires your brain for success.Reasons to Listen:
Practical Strategies: Learn actionable reframes and tools you can use immediately to transform negative self-talk into a powerhouse of creativity and resilience.Empowerment & Motivation: Empower yourself by understanding and harnessing the impact of your inner dialogue on your overall well-being.Relatable & Engaging: Enjoy a blend of solid science, practical advice, and a touch of humor that makes complex concepts easy to understand and apply.Tune in to transform your inner narrative and unlock the extraordinary potential of your ADHD brilliance!
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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Have you ever wondered why or noticed how some words feel like they're secretly running the show in your brain? Like those unexpected plot twists in your favorite series that suddenly make you see everything differently?
Words have incredible power - they can either light up our neural pathways like a Christmas tree or dim our whole perspective without us even noticing!
In this episode, ADHD coach Zarina Boily explores how the words we use shape our ADHD experience and how certain words might be playing a bigger role in your story than you realize. In fact, some words could be influencing how you experience your uniquely wired brain right now.
Get ready for some serious aha moments!
âš What You'll Discover:
The 10 words I've removed from my ADHD vocabularyWhy saying "my ADHD" might be more limiting than we thinkHow to transform "because of ADHD" explanations into empowering perspectivesPractical alternatives that celebrate our unique brain wiringđ Key Takeaways:
Different isn't disordered - it's just different!How to describe our experiences without limiting labelsSimple word swaps that can transform your ADHD narrativeBy the end of this episode, you'll never look at these 10 words the same way again because once you notice these words, you can't un-notice them. And that awareness? It's about to change everything! đ«
Remember: Our brains aren't broken - they're uniquely wired for brilliance!
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Ever blurt out way too much and then spend the next hour replaying that conversation in your head? If youâre an ADHDer whoâs all about genuine connection (but sometimes forgets to hit the pause button), youâre in the right place!
Oversharing isnât just about being an open book that might make others feel awkward or overwhelmedâitâs about uncovering the hidden dynamics behind our ADHD tendencies. Itâs a deep dive into how impulsivity and intense emotions can sometimes transform our strengths into vulnerabilities, even turning our genuine desire to connect against us.
In this episode, ADHD coach Zarina Boily dives deep into the artâand occasional misadventureâof oversharing. With empathy, practical insights, and a sprinkle of humour, she unpacks why our fast-paced brains sometimes turn us into an open book, and more importantly, how to decide what to share, when, and with whom.
What Youâll Learn:
The Why Behind the Spill: Understand the impulsivity, intense emotions, and need for connection that can lead to oversharing.The Three Filters: Adapt Socratesâ wisdom by asking: Is it true? Is it good? Is it useful?The Concentric Circles: Learn to sort your relationshipsâfrom your ride-or-die BFFs to mere acquaintancesâand tailor your sharing accordingly.Actionable Strategies: From pausing before speaking to assessing trust levels and tuning into your emotional state, discover tangible steps to reclaim control over your conversations.Personal Stories & Theta Healing: Hear real-life examples (including that unforgettable work moment) and discover techniques like Theta Healing to reset those automatic responses.Why You Should Listen:
If youâre ready to harness your ADHD brilliance without the cringe afterwards, this episode is your go-to guide for turning impulsivity into insight. Whether youâre looking for practical strategies or just need to know that youâre not alone in your âovershare moments,â Zarinaâs warm, relatable style (with a dash of cheeky humour) will leave you feeling empowered and understood.Because oversharing goes far beyond being an open book and making someone feel awkward and uncomfortable because you revealed too much, too soon. Itâs about knowing what goes on behind the scenes of this ADHD-type behavior that can literally end up turning against yourself.
Hit Play & Listen Till the End: You wonât want to miss the simple yet powerful tools that can change how you connect with others.Leave a Comment: Share your own oversharing story or tipâletâs build a community where we learn from each other!Share the Episode: Know someone who struggles with oversharing? Pass this on so they too can embrace a more balanced, brilliant approach to conversation.Book Your Free Brilliance Call: Curious about coaching to harness your unique wiring? Check out this link for a free brilliance session with Zarina.Remember, being an ADHDer means youâre naturally bold, genuine, and brilliantânow, letâs channel that brilliance in every conversation. Enjoy the show!
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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If planning doesnât come easy in your ADHD world, you can believe itâs never going to change because itâs always been that way or, you can shift your thoughts to create your new normal.
Holding on to a belief only hardwires it deeper, shutting the door to any possibility for anything to improve.
In this episode, Zarina explains why planning can be so hard for the ADHD brain and how any challenge, including this one, is far from being set in stone.
Through the Symphony Conductor Metaphor that makes it easier to understand what executive functions do, youâll better understand how the ADHD brain works.
Among the three of her favorite planning tools she shares, youâll discover one that can actually help enhance executive function such as working memory, impulsivity and organization.
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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LINKS TO THE ONLINE PLANNING RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Airtable
Xmind AI
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When ADHD has us caught up in the daily ups and downs that challenges create, the thought of a different reality doesn't even cross our minds. Leaning to quiet the noise in our head doesn't seem even possible, let alone imagining anything else then what we've been dealing with for so long.
In this episode, Zarina explains what it takes to create a new ADHD reality, because why should you settle for the struggles and just "cope". She walks you through the process that you can try to create a life with ADHD where you thrive more and appreciate your weirdness more.
At the end of this episode, not only will you feel understood, but your inspiration container will overflow, and you will see things in a whole new perspective!
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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One of the greatest gift one with ADHD can give its uniquely wired brain is a set of habits to take care of it and ensure that challenges remain as less impactful as possible and prevent it from shutting down.
ADHD paralysis is when you canât find it in you to accomplish normal activities. Itâs temporary, but when it happens, you may be wondering whatâs happening or if there is something wrong with you.
When your brain reaches the point of no return, the challenges you you experience on a daily basis intensify: paying attention, task initiation, planning, organizing etc...have gone haywire.
Hit play to discover how ADHD shutdown show up, recognize the signs and care for your brain with easy to implement exercises.
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Ever feel like youâre constantly playing a role, hiding parts of yourself just to âfit inâ? This episode dives into the experience of masking for women with ADHDâwhen we cover up or downplay our ADHD traits to meet the worldâs expectations.
From early school days when we first learn to mask to the pressures of juggling adult roles, masking becomes second nature for many of us. But the emotional toll is real.
In this episode, weâll explore why girls and women with ADHD often feel compelled to hide their symptoms, how masking shows up in different stages of life, and the specific challenges faced by women.
Weâll talk about the exhaustion and loss of identity that come with years of masking and, most importantly, how awareness can be the first step to unmasking and embracing your true self.
Hit play to discover what masking really is, how it impacts you, and how to start letting go of that mask. You deserve to live fully as the real, phenomenal you!
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Weâve all heard themâthe frustrating comments that make us feel misunderstood, judged, or even doubting ourselves because of our ADHD.
Whether itâs âYou donât look like you have ADHDâ or âWhy canât you just be more organized,â these comments donât just irritate us, they can actually fuel our ADHD struggles and impact our self-esteem.
In todayâs episode, weâre diving into the five things people with ADHD canât stand hearing about their differences and, more importantly, how to reframe those comments to better advocate for yourself and show others what ADHD really looks like.
Weâll talk about why these comments sting, how they exacerbate common ADHD symptoms like emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity, and explore how they can affect self-worth.
But hereâs the twist: instead of letting these words drag you down, weâll be flipping the script and turning those criticisms into moments of self-empowerment and clarity. Youâll walk away with actionable strategies to reframe these frustrating situations and advocate for your ADHD needs with confidence.
So tune in to this episode if youâre ready to feel understood, stand tall in your ADHD brilliance, and say goodbye to the myths and misconceptions people throw your way!
What Youâll Learn:
The 5 most common comments people with ADHD canât stand hearingHow these comments affect self-esteem, self-confidence, and emotional regulationWhy they exacerbate symptoms like focus struggles and overwhelmHow to reframe these criticisms into positive, empowering momentsActionable strategies to advocate for yourself and educate others about ADHDRemember to Subscribe, Leave a Review, and share it with someone you love đ. It helps spread the message to other ADHDers who need to hear it and creates a new scenario for how we view ADHD.
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A heavy load of emotions can literally drain your energy and while you think you are tired, you may be emotionally exhausted. Too much stress and lack of self-care can lead to symptoms similar to burnout:
Feeling tired even after a good nights sleepCrying without even knowing whyLoosing interest in thing you live doingBeing barely able to get through the dayThese are only a few signs that emotions are draining you of your energy and in this episode, you will discover simple, yet powerful tools to release the emotional overload that you carry and gain back your energy back.
Visit https://www.zarinaboily.com/coaching to learn more about how ADHD coaching can benefit you đđ€©
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Maintaining a regular sleep routine is crucial for the ADHD brain and if you find yourself having more difficulty waking up in the morning when days start to shorten in the fall, that's because daylight affects serotonin production.
When winter comes, there's actually a dip in serotonin and in this episode, you will discover how to avoid accumulating sleep debt, what you can eat to boost serotonin and why you should prioritize having a sleep routine to help your ADHD brain function at it's absolute best.
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The word structure usually make ADHDers cringe and want nothing to do with it, even if you know that all hell brakes loose if you don't have it. Do you know why that is?
Because most structures are not created for the ADHD brain, but the neurotypical one.
That's one of the reasons doing things spontaneously is the way we prefer, but did you know that when you navigate a structure that fit your unique brain style, you:
Create or gain momentum and that increases productivityReduce overwhelm and that decreases procrastinationEnjoy more flow in your days and less chaos.If like me, you show any kind of resistance to using a structure, this episode is for you as it will help you figure out how to make it work for your brain, what the most important thing you need to consider when thinking about creating a structure is and words you can replace the words so that it generates expansion, not contraction.
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Are you a Gen-X woman who received a late diagnosis and are just beginning to see the impact it had on your life?
What about your professional life and career which ultimately, reflects on your financial situation due to how ADHD challenges hinder the ability to manage money?
Job hopping to avoid boredomMissed opportunities like promotions or career advancementBurnout from trying to meet expectations and demandsUnemployment or underemploymentThereâs a lot to advocate for with ADHD and even more so when it comes to women and, to a certain extent, gen-x women who fall short as they approach retirement and face many financial struggles.
Impulsive spending due to the difficulty of delaying gratificationLack of sufficient retirement savings because of irregular contributionsCarrying debt, including credit card balances, mortgages, or personal loans into retirement.Sign me up for the Conquer Money Chaos free training: https://www.zarinaboily.com/conquer-money-chaos
Despite the beliefs, baggage and habits you carry about money, lack of interest is probably whatâs at the top of the list when you live with ADHD.
This episode covers many aspects to help you become knowledgeable about ADHD, the way it shows up in women and what changes when you start paying attention to your money and finances, so you can see what gets in the way and see a beacon of hope pointing toward a brighter future as you enter your third act.
Sign me up for the Conquer Money Chaos free training: https://www.zarinaboily.com/conquer-money-chaos
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Have you ever thought of ADHD happening for you, not to you or against you?
People like us would graduate with honors if they could earn a degree for all weâve had to do to adapt to a world that wasnât designed with us in mind.
The biggest mistake a lot of ADHDers make, mainly because they donât know how their brain works, is using methods that are designed for the non ADHD brain.
Remember the good old days when Apple and PC operating systems couldnât have a civil conversation?
You'd send a Word document from your Mac to a PC, and, you know, it was like trying to get a cat and a dog to read Shakespeare together.
The PC would look at that document and say, âWhat is this gibberish?!â
Meanwhile, the Mac was off in its corner, being all artsy and misunderstood.
Well, thatâs pretty much how the ADHD brain operates. It's like having a Mac in a world full of PCs.
This episode is all about inspiring you to inspire and challenge you to look at ADHD with a different set of lenses and become the private investigator of what your brain needs more of to do things in respect to how our brain works.
Visit https://www.zarinaboily.com/coaching to learn more about how ADHD coaching can benefit you đđ€©
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Navigating the vast, unpredictable ocean in a small boat mirrors the journey of living with ADHD.
Storms and fog represent the challenges and uncertainties that come with it. Yet, self-awareness serves as a guiding lighthouse, its beam cutting through the confusion, making each challenge manageable.
Understanding yourself isn't just about avoiding obstacles; it's about empowering your voice to articulate your unique needs, paving the way to self-esteem, confidence, and respect.
In episode 9 - Navigating ADHD: Start with Self-Awareness - Part 1, you were able to get a better idea of why self-awareness is a crucial component of our journey with ADHD to making life easier. If you havenât had the chance to listen to it, I strongly suggest that you do as you will find out why metacognition makes it hard for ADHDers to self-reflect and what tactics you can try to make it easier.
In part 2 we dive into:
Clarifying the crucial difference between being aware of ADHD and having self-awareness.Helping you which element of self-awareness you need to focus onGiving you ways to train your self-awareness muscle the ADHD wayHighlighting the ripple effects of self-awareness Identifying the difference between mindfulness and self-awareness, and how they are closely related and often support each otherDive into this episode to transform your journey with ADHD from a daunting voyage into an enlightening adventure, where self-awareness lights the way to a brighter, more colorful horizon!Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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When you have ADHD, you might feel that becoming more self aware of your distractible brain is like fighting a losing battle.
ADHDers pretty much live in their head which means theyâre not paying attention to their bodies, patterns and behavior.
Fortunately, thereâs an explanation for that and it resides in those two words: executive functioning.
Self-awareness is one of the most important keys in making life with ADHD less challenging because no system or strategy will be effective if you are clueless about what works and what doesnât for your brain.
However, people with ADHD tend to have low self awareness and seem to fit the "absent-minded professor" description, which is someone who might seem a bit disconnected from their surroundings or what's happening around them.
Even if they appear to be absent or in their own world, unaware of what is happening around them, theyâre not. They're deeply immersed and feel present and in the moment. They are present to thoughts that others canât see.
This episode will help you shed some light on:
Why is being self-aware challenging for our brain?How can self-awareness be a game changer for ADHDers?What is self-awareness and why do we need it?How to develop your self-awareness muscle the ADHD way?And much much more!
Be ready to learn, understand and be empowered in making navigating ADHD-like challenges an enjoyable experience.
Visit https://www.zarinaboily.com/coaching to learn more about how ADHD coaching can benefit you đđ
Connect with me in a free 20 minute call: https://calendly.com/zarinaboily/brilliance-call
Stay connected
https://www.instagram.com/zarinaboilycoachtdah/
Download the first chapter of my book A-Bun-Dance 4 Your Finance: Growing Interest About Money Even if you Have ADHD: https://www.zarinaboily.com/a-bun-dance-4-your-finance
Order your signed copy:
https://www.zarinaboily.com/a-bun-dance-4-your-finance
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]Did you enjoy this episode? Please leave a review and share it with someone you love đ. It helps spread the message to other ADHDers who need to hear it and creates a new scenario for how we view ADHD.
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If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the simplest tasks or found yourself lost in the clutter, this episode is your beacon of hope and humor where we tackle the chaotic world of house chores through the unique lens of ADHD.
Join us as we dance through strategies, stories, and a sprinkle of ADHD magic to transform your approach to chores.
We kick off the episode by diving into why chores can feel like an insurmountable challenge for those with ADHD, setting the stage for our journey from chaos to clarity.
Get ready for actionable advice that addresses the root of the chore challenge, helping you to understand your brain's unique wiring and how to work with it, not against it.
Discover practical, ADHD-friendly strategies that move beyond traditional advice. Learn how to gamify your chores, and create a chore routine that's not only manageable but enjoyable.
From dealing with distraction to finding motivation, we tackle it all with honesty and empathy.
We love hearing from our listeners! Share your own chore conquering stories, strategies, or questions by reaching out through the comment section of this episode. Your insights could be featured in a future episode!
New episodes drop every other Sunday.
Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified and be in the loop. In the meantime, you can listen to episodes from previous seasons.
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
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Stay connected https://www.zarinaboily.com/ https://www.instagram.com/zarinaboilycoachtdah/
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The saddest thing about ADHD is the narrative that focuses more on the pain and struggles than the strengths and abilities. Of course, it's an undeniable fact that there is a long list of symptoms that create a heavy burden of challenges.
When everything that doesn't work gets all the attention, it's hard, if not impossible, to see what does.
As an ADHDer, you have the power to choose the lens through which you look at ADHD; the one that zooms in on everything you can't do or struggle with, or the one that zooms out and allows you to see what is actually going well.
Hereâs a few highlights from this episode:
Why what you pay attention to matters and how it affects the way you experience ADHD.How seeing ADHD as a difference came quite naturally to me and is at the heart of what I do.Why constant external validation of what isn't working can keep you in victim mode without you even knowing it, and how to break the cycle.New episodes drop every other Sunday. Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified and be in the loop. In the meantime, you can listen to episodes from previous seasons.
Any questions? Email me at [email protected]
Connect with me in a free 20 minute call: https://calendly.com/zarinaboily/brilliance-call
Stay connected https://www.zarinaboily.com/
https://www.instagram.com/zarinaboilycoachtdah/
Download the first chapter of my book A-Bun-Dance 4 Your Finance: Growing Interest About Money Even if you Have ADHD: https://www.zarinaboily.com/a-bun-dance-4-your-finance
Order your signed copy: https://www.zarinaboily.com/a-bun-dance-4-your-finance
Did you enjoy this episode? Please leave a review and/or share it with someone you love đ. It helps spread the message to other ADHDers who need to hear it and creates a new scenario for how we view ADHD.
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Do you find that living with ADHD feels like living life at high speed where fast is the only way to go?
Do you have a hard time knowing how to or what to say no to because you donât want to miss out on anything?
If youâre under the impression that youâre missing out on the fun when you can't attend an event or didn't get an invitation and you feel left out/rejected, it could be FOMO (fear of missing out).
One way to beat it is to know where your reaction comes from, how ADHD and FOMO are connected and begin practicing JOMO, which stands for joy of missing out.
Part one of this episode focuses on the joy of missing out or JOMO, an emotionally intelligent antidote to FOMO:
What is JOMO and why foster it to beat FOMOHow what you value can help in finding joy in missing out.What you can do to shift from FOMO to JOMO and create your own joy of missing out formulaPart two is all about:
What is FOMO and how FOMO shows upWays ADHD and FOMO are connectedWhat ADHD traits can actually make it worseI soooo appreciate you listening! New episodes drop every other Sunday. Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified and be in the loop. In the meantime, you can listen to episodes from previous seasons.
Questions? Email me at [email protected]
Connect with me in a free 20 minute call: https://calendly.com/zarinaboily/brilliance-call
Stay connected
https://www.zarinaboily.com/
https://www.instagram.com/zarinaboilycoachtdah/
Download the first chapter of my book A-Bun-Dance 4 Your Finance: Growing Interest About Money Even if you Have ADHD: https://www.zarinaboily.com/a-bun-dance-4-your-finance
Order your signed copy:
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Enjoyed this episode? Please leave a review and/or share it to someone you love đ.
It helps to spread the message to other ADHDers that need to hear it and create a new scenario on how we see ADHD.
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