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Master Coach Mindset (MCM) is a podcast that’s devoted to the “Art of Coaching” giving you more confidence, influence, and impact with your clients, your team, and your family.
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Risk is the reason we coach. Risk is the path to changing lives. Risk is at the heart of all movement forward as well as the key to the compassion that makes for powerful decisions.
Do you know how to stretch your comfort zone? Do you know that each risk comes with a bundle of emotional attachments and those ties must be broken to carve a new path and a new way of being?
Without risk, we stay stuck. Without risk, there is no true growth. Without risk, there is no call for compassion. Without risk, being fearless is impossible.
What You Will Discover:
- How to acknowledge risk so it sticks and build confidence
- How to talk “risk” during the opening and closing of a Coaching Session
- What is incremental positive empowerment?
- Understanding how you process feelings, thoughts, etc. is what coaching it all about
- The difference between how well it’s done versus whether it’s done at all
- How to build momentum in your Clients life to change their life
- Roleplays to build confidence with weight-loss and complaining
- Question of the Day: “Do you make any specific suggestions to clients with kids for a better and faster chance at success and implementing your suggestions?"
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Rhonda Britten - Founder of Fearless Living Institute, Emmy Award-winner for the daytime reality show, Starting Over, author of FOUR BESTSELLERS, including her seminal work “Fearless Living,” and star of 600 episodes of reality television. #MasterCoachMindsetRhondaBrittenFearlessLiving
"Rhonda Britten has risen from the ashes of genuine catastrophe...What she has accomplished within herself, and now helps others to accomplish as well, is nothing short of miraculous." - Marianne Williamson
Website: https://FearlessLiving.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhondabritten
Twitter: https://twitter.com/rhondabritten
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondabritten/
Here's how to study Fearless Living:
***Fearless Living Training Program: ONLINE Program
https://FearlessLiving.org/fltp
***Fearless Foundation Workshop: IN-PERSON WORKSHOP
https://fearlessliving.org/event/fearless-foundation-workshop/ -
Master Coach Mindset (MCM) is a podcast that’s devoted to the “Art of Coaching” giving you more confidence, influence, and impact with your clients, your team, and your family.
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Ever freeze in the middle of a Coaching Session? Ever get tongue-tied and not sure what to say? Feel like a beginner?
These questions and more are answered in this weeks’ episode!
Plus, we’re diving deep into Part 2 of a key component necessary for permanent change: the ability to take risks.
Because if you don’t know where the “choice points” are, or how to coach your Client to recreate the skills necessary to take risks at will…you are not being the most effective Coach you could be.
What You Will Discover:
- The secret power behind acknowledging risks for long-term permanent change
- Memorize these five questions and your confidence will increase
- How to overcome mid-session brain freeze in your Coaching Session
- Distracted Client? The key questions to shift them back to now
- The critical factor of how to listen and practice the “Art of Coaching”
- Question of the Day: “Do you have any tips I can use to get past my blocks quickly if they come up mid-session?”
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Rhonda Britten - Founder of Fearless Living Institute, Emmy Award-winner for the daytime reality show, Starting Over, author of FOUR BESTSELLERS, including her seminal work “Fearless Living,” and star of 600 episodes of reality television. #MasterCoachMindsetRhondaBrittenFearlessLiving
"Rhonda Britten has risen from the ashes of genuine catastrophe...What she has accomplished within herself, and now helps others to accomplish as well, is nothing short of miraculous." - Marianne Williamson
Website: https://FearlessLiving.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhondabritten
Twitter: https://twitter.com/rhondabritten
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondabritten/
Here's how to study Fearless Living:
***Fearless Living Training Program: ONLINE Program
https://FearlessLiving.org/fltp
***Fearless Foundation Workshop: IN-PERSON WORKSHOP
https://fearlessliving.org/event/fearless-foundation-workshop/ -
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Master Coach Mindset (MCM) is a podcast that’s devoted to the “Art of Coaching” giving you more confidence, influence, and impact with your clients, your team, and your family.
I’m going to show you how to empower someone who has an impossible dream. A dream that seems so far-fetched it would be easy to discourage, disempower and dissuade them from taking a step forward.
Instead, your Client with the impossible dream will be on fire with hope and possibilities. You’ll soon learn how dreams are fluid and alive just waiting to be seen for their real purpose.
What You Will Discover:
- Reality is not negative; it’s the starting gate to greatness
- The unspoken stumbling block of “positive thinking”
- Why “pretending” stifles and facts motivate
- How to effectively role-play and brainstorm with your Client
- What does it mean to “research a dream”
- Working in the now makes the future happen faster
- Dreams are better achieved with a solid foundation
- Question of the Day: “I've heard you use the term 'pretty problem.' How would we identify pretty problem a and get the client to go deeper when they don't seem to think they need to?”
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P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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#rhondabritten
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#lifecoach
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Rhonda Britten - Founder of Fearless Living Institute, Emmy Award-winner for the daytime reality show, Starting Over, author of FOUR BESTSELLERS, including her seminal work “Fearless Living,” and star of 600 episodes of reality television. #MasterCoachMindsetRhondaBrittenFearlessLiving
"Rhonda Britten has risen from the ashes of genuine catastrophe...What she has accomplished within herself, and now helps others to accomplish as well, is nothing short of miraculous." - Marianne Williamson
Website: https://FearlessLiving.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhondabritten
Twitter: https://twitter.com/rhondabritten
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondabritten/
Here's how to study Fearless Living:
***Fearless Living Training Program: ONLINE Program
https://FearlessLiving.org/fltp
***Fearless Foundation Workshop: IN-PERSON WORKSHOP
https://fearlessliving.org/event/fearless-foundation-workshop/ -
What’s the difference between a fantasy and a dream?
How do you ground your Client to take action?
What are the five reasons you’d interrupt your Client?
Welcome to Season 2, Episode 14 of Master Coach Mindset™ with Rhonda Britten. Today’s episode is Speak to Actions Versus Stories (Part 2)
What You Will Discover:
- How do you align your Client with their dream
- The five reasons you would interrupt your Client
- Techniques to shift the story with grace
- How to handle your Clients conflicting goals
- Question of the Day: "How do you work with Clients who live in fantasy and others who don't know how to dream?”
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P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Have you ever listened to a Client’s story adnaseum not really knowing when or how to interrupt it? Have you ever glossed over a story because it felt “too big” or “over your head?” Maybe you’ve thought, “I’m not a therapist!”
I get it. Yet, interrupting is a skill you must matter if you want to move your Client’s from story into action. Listen to this episode to learn how!
What You Will Discover:
- How to validate your Client's story without indulging it
- What is a “bridge sentence” and how to use it
- Uncover the best questions to get to the heart of your Client's story
- How to interrupt your Client with intention and grace
- Detangle your Client from the “why” of any story and into action
- Discover which stories to listen to and which stories to interrupt
- The questions to ask to move your Client from their head to their heart
- Question of the Day: "I have Clients who often have actions, thoughts, and words that are not at all aligned. How do you navigate that?”
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P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Giving up preconceived notions takes effort because the brain is wired to judge in order to preserve our internal energy. But there is another way.
What You Will Discover:
- Having no preconceived notions means stepping away from judging
- Practicing no assumptions will be exhausting at first but is necessary to show you what’s possible
- How to get your Client and yourself out of that "box" of right and wrong
- Discover how your brain is wired to judge and how to shift those thought patterns
- Question of the Day: "Is it possible to run a coaching business when you have kids and a family?"
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Today’s episode - “Speak as if they can do it” - is about fertilizing the soul for building a solid foundation of faith, confidence, and peace so your clients can make powerful, authentic and brave decisions.
What You Will Discover:
- "Speak As If They Can Do It" is not cheerleading
- Essential characteristics of a good coaching program
- How to stand for your Clients until they can stand for themselves
- The power of failing is a lesson that must be embodied for success
- What does resilience have to do with peace of mind?
- Question of the Day: "Why do so many Coaches take a training and don't end up actually coaching?”
- Bonus Question of the Day: "How can we keep Clients on track when they insist they want something that's clearly not the right thing for them to do?" -
Have you been told the phrase, “You can do it” and didn’t actually believe you could? Me too. Telling your Clients that they can accomplish their goals without a firm footing in reality only creates a false sense of confidence and eventually, more self-loathing and frustration.Welcome to Season 2, Episode 10 of Master Coach Mindset™ with Rhonda Britten. As a Coach, one of your number one jobs (and number one honors) is you have the distinct privilege of (through your questioning) to build a strong foundation of self-belief for each Client so they can “go anywhere, do anything and meet anyone.™”
If you aren’t sure how to ground your support in reality or find yourself caught in fake cheerleading, this episode is for you.
What You Will Discover:
- How to help your Client believe they can achieve their dream
- Processing the past will create new opportunities for the present and future
- Coaches never buy into your Clients fears and doubts
- Grounding your Client in reality is essential for trust and support
- Taking away specific words from your Clients vocabulary will force them to think differently
- How to move your client out of black and white thinking
- Learn to write impactful acknowledgements that shift the brain effortlessly from doubt to confidence
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Clarity. There’s never enough of the stuff. It’s so easy to get confused when you’re trying so hard to do the right thing. And it’s so easy to get off track when all the parts of you aren’t aligned. Asking clarifying questions is the key to finding out if all the elements of you are in sync and that leads to clarity, which leads to trusting yourself.
Welcome to Season 2, Episode 9 of Master Coach Mindset™ with Rhonda Britten. Today’s episode focuses on “Speak to Clarity.”
What You Will Discover: (JA)
- The keys to trusting yourself as a Coach
- Getting back into the Session if you’re lost
- How to discover if your Clients are aligned and how to get them back on track
- Clarifying questions allows the Client to find the wisdom within
- Silence heals
- Question of the Day: "Should a new Coach focus on one-on-one coaching or group coaching or both at the same time?"
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Welcome to Season Two. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach practices and masters.
In today’s episode, I’ll show you which Coaching Tool to use to help a confused client narrow down their beliefs, desires, or choices as well as how to support a Client feel the feelings that are unresolved. Plus, do you know when to interrupt a difficult, highly charged conversation and how to do so gracefully? And what about when to let a Client talk and talk and talk and talk?
When you want to make the biggest impact for your Client, you must use the correct Coaching Tool as well as apply the Coaching Skill of Clarifying.
What You Will Discover:
- When to clarify your Client’s authentic needs and wants using open and closed-ended questions
- Why you must not be afraid to ask your Client any question
- How to listen to your Client with your whole body
- Your Client’s language is key to unleashing the power of clarifying questions
- Here’s when to interrupt and do so skillfully and gracefully
- Question of the Day: "I have a tendency to say what's on my mind to try and fix my Clients. How can I learn to stop talking and listen until the end? Is it ever okay to interrupt?"
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Getting distracted during a Session is something we rarely want to admit; yet it happens all too frequently. When we get distracted, we aren’t present. If we aren’t present, it’s tough to speak inclusively.
And more importantly, when we’re not present in the Session, we can no longer call ourselves a Coach.
What You Will Discover:
- The difference between true and fake humility
- Why caring for the Client includes taking care of you
- How to make sure your Client is including their whole being
- Reasons behind mirroring the same language as your Client
- Question of the Day: "If I want to follow up on issues from a previous Session but don't want to interrupt or change the subject after a Client is in the flow, is it okay to leave it for the next Session?"
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Welcome to Season Two. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach practices and masters.
In today’s episode, we’re going to talk the trust-building skill: “Speak Inclusively.”
Here’s What You Will Discover:
- Using the "Art of Coaching" to be an effective Coach
- What it means to "Speak Inclusively"
- The critical key for momentum
- How to create “team” with your Client
- The disempowering aspect of aha’s and insights
- Are you teaching a class or are you coaching?
- Question of the Day: "What's the best thing to do as a Coach when you need time to think and find your words?”
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Welcome to Season Two. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills that is the foundation of all Master Coaching. Today’s episode we’ll be continuing our conversation about Skill #1: Speak as if they are Innocent.
Innocence changes everything. Listen to Episode 5 now.
What You Will Discover:
- Different ways judgment may be seeping in to your Sessions
- Disempowering questions and their effect on your Clients
- How to be present in your conversations
- The rate of listening versus speaking matters
- The power of eliminating "you" before a sentence
- Potential roadblocks to seeing your Client's innocence
- Question of the Day: "What's the best way to respond in a Session when a Client asks, ‘How are you?' or starts to chit-chat?"
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Have you ever wished you could be less judgmental? Well, hold on to your hat, because things are about to get serious.
Welcome to Season Two. Episode 4. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach learns in the Fearless Living “Life Coach Certification Program.”
In today’s episode, I share one of the most critical coaching skills and one of the most difficult to master. And… this skill is the foundation of everything. And I do mean E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G.
What’s the #1 Coaching Skill? Speak as if they are innocent
What You Will Discover:
- What does it mean to practice “innocence”
- How do you see your Clients innocence as well as your own (even when you disagree)
- The structure of your Session impacts your results
- Learn how to practice seeing your Clients innocence
- Question of the Day: "Occasionally I find myself reacting to my Client's story with expressions like, 'Oh man,' or, 'I'm so sorry.' Why is that such a bad thing? Is there a way to recover from it? When is it okay to do?" -
Welcome to Season Two. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach practices and masters. Today’s episode answers the question: What’s the difference between coaching and therapy?
One of the most important distinctions you must have as a Coach is understanding where coaching ends and therapy begins. When you understand this line, you will better serve your client. And it’s critical for your integrity and living true to the ethics of coaching.
What You Will Discover:
- When does your Client need therapy vs. coaching?
- How to coach Clients into therapy
- What's the Coaches lane vs the therapy lane
- Being attentive to your Client's needs
- Question of the Day: "Rhonda, what's the difference between a Coach and a therapist? How do we know when to refer a Client to a therapist while continuing to get coaching with us as their Coach? How do you approach a Client with a suggestion that they get therapy without being insulting?”
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Welcome to Season 2, Episode 2. This Season I share the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach uses as the foundation of their coaching practice and, how you can too!
In today’s episode, I share one of my favorite topics: Dirty Coaching™. Dirty Coaching™ is a phrase I created for coaching that does not serve the client, but instead, serves the coach. Find out if you’re unwittingly Dirty Coaching in your coaching sessions.
What You Will Discover:
- The five components of a Fearless Conversation™
- The difference between solution coaching and transformational coaching
- Detaching from your Clients results
- Fearless Conversation™ vs. Dirty Coaching™
- Dirty Coaching™ is seductive. Don’t get caught in the trap.
- Here’s how to help your clients figure out how they feel
- Question of the Day: "Are there telltale signs early on when a Client isn't the right one for the Coach?"
P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um
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Welcome to Season Two. This season I will be sharing the Eight Coaching Skills every Certified Fearless Living Coach practices and masters. Today’s episode answers the question: Why learn coaching skills? You may be surprised at the answer. Plus, Rhonda shares what those Eight Coaching Skills are and so much more.
What You Will Discover:
- Why learn coaching skills anyway?
- What you need besides insights and a-ha’s
- The importance of safety, trust and respect
- Miscommunication is at the heart of your heartbreak
- Dependency on your clients screws up your coaching
- The way coaching works is collaboration
- Who leads a coaching session?
- Question of the Day: "Do your coaching sessions often start off rocky and confusing with new Clients?
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The one way to quit shaming and blaming yourself is to embrace your humanity and give up labeling yourself and your clients with words like “resistant.” There’s no such thing.
That’s why today we are focusing on line thirteen of the Master Coach Manifesto: "A Master Coach embraces humanity and sees the miracle in every moment, never pushing away fear but devoted to ushering in freedom."
Highlights you don’t want to miss:
6:34 It’s never about “not” doing something, it’s about moving “toward”
7:16 Roleplay: Clients who complain
9:49 Your brain does not hear “not, no, stop”
13:44 The symptoms of fear
16:07 You have no “resistant” clients
21:37 Question of the Day: "What are good questions to ask to help a Client remember how far they've come?
26:07 Tip of the Day: Embrace your own humanity
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Our feelings override our best intentions. Our insights give us a false sense of awakening. Our coaching is a reflection of how masterfully we have embodied our own feelings, intentions, and insights.
Our head will not get us where we want to go. We must use our whole body, heart, spirit, and mind.
That’s why today we are focusing on line twelve of the Master Coach Manifesto:
"A Master Coach supports the client in staying centered in their heart because they know a visceral problem can only be solved by a visceral solution."
Highlights you don’t want to miss:
5:34 A problem isn't solved because they think better
7:43 Crying, silence, “what?!” are all powerful visceral cues
10:59 Question of the Day: "What should we look for in a coaching program to ensure the most confidence in our skills when it's over?"
11:42 Insights and ah-ha’s alone do not change lives
15:53 Coaching with peers is ineffective, here’s why
21:28 How did you give up resentment Rhonda?
24:33 Tip of the Day: "Are you willing to love yourself enough to have the courage to help yourself and your clients move into the visceral environment?"
25:04 Are you willing to experience all of your feelings to be a better Coach?
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Learning the art of layered questions is essential to move from a good Coach to a Great Coach to a Master Coach. Without understanding the purpose open-ended questions versus close-ended questions or knowing how to stay in the flow that exists in the moment or anchoring and expanding your client’s ah-ha’s into their entire life, your influence, impact and confidence will be thwarted.
That’s why today we are focusing on line eleven of the Master Coach Manifesto: "A Master Coach listens beyond words and asks layered upon layered questions to get to the heart of the matter, working within the flow of what's happening now."
Highlights you don’t want to miss:
8:24 Question of the Day: What’s the difference between an open-ended and closed ended question?
10:15 Roleplay: Open-ended questions examples
13:00 Roleplay: Close-ended questions examples
17:10 When to take ownership as a Coach in your client sessions
24:35 Tip of the Day: Record your client-coach sessions
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