Afleveringen
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We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kidsāour own and others in our churchāabout sex.
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From the Bible
I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. John 17:14ā18
So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5ā9
Resources
Karissa Curtis's website, Freedom Counseling Talking to Your Kids about Sex: No More One & Done - Hot, Holy & Humorous Healing the Wounded Heart: The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation by Dan B. Allender Authentic Intimacy - Juli Slattery's site Teach Your Kids the Correct Words for Body Parts - Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Talk to a Teen about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Top 10 Things To Teach Teens About Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 181: Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley Creating an Intimacy Timeline - Hot, Holy & Humorous Before The Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors by Linda Noble and Linda Stewart 5 Times You Teach Holy and Healthy Sex to Your Kids - Hot, Holy & Humorous Parent Resources Recommended by Karissa Curtis (downloadable PDF)Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him.
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From the Bible
You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
and knit me together in my motherās womb.
Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
Your workmanship is marvelousāhow well I know it.
Psalm 139:13ā14 (NLT)Resources
Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (includes two above + foreplay) 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (all of our current webinars) Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous āThe Female Sexual Response: A Different Model,ā Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Rosemary Basson Rosemary Basson's circular response cycle diagram Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) Webinars - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com) High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots - Hot, Holy & HumorousThanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
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This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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Let's talk about the five sensesātouch, sight, hearing, smell, and tasteāand how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience.
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From the Bible
For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my motherās womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
Psalm 139:13ā14My dove in the clefts of the rock,
in the hiding places on the mountainside,
show me your face,
let me hear your voice;
for your voice is sweet,
and your face is lovely.
Song of Songs 2:14Resources
Episode 179: Light Hearts & Lingerie Introduction to Sensate Focus Dona Massage Lotion - Married Dance Intimate Organics Energizing Massage Oil - Married Dance Fuzu Massage Candle - Married Dance Red Lightbulbs - Amazon Episode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your Body Episode 111: Accepting Your Body Experience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife (eye contact) Sensual Music Archives ā¢ Bonny's Oysterbed7 Copulatory Vocalization (aka, Sex Sounds) | The Forgiven Wife Scented Aromatherapy Candles - Amazon Episode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie) Bergamot Linen Spray - Amazon Let Me Touch You Scented Massage Oil Gift Set - Married Dance Scented Lotion - Amazon Use Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | The Forgiven Wife Essential Oils for Sex and Intimacy - 5 Things to Know (calmhealthysexy.com) Lip Smacker flavored lip gloss - Amazon Food and Sex | The Forgiven Wife Episode 34: Food and Sex JO H2O Flavored Lubricant - Married DanceDonate to the Ministry by clicking HERE.
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This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to remember when making sexual changes. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns.
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From the Bible
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28
āFor I hate divorce,ā says the Lord, the God of Israel, āand him who covers his garment with violence,ā says the Lord of armies. āSo be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.ā Malachi 2:16 (NASB)
I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Jeremiah 3:8a
Johnās disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus. When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Matthew 14:12-13a
Resources
Strong Wives - Bonny's ministry Hope for Wives podcast: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal Betrayal Trauma (healthline.com) The Sarah Society Hope Redefined A Partner's Dilemma (apsats.org) Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Episode 189: Myth-busting What Youāve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus! - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature by Peter Scazzero The Search For Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God's Eyes by Robert McGeeBonny's Heading to Australia & New Zealand!
9/6ā9/7 - https://www.crossview.com.au/ 9/14, 9/19 - https://www.prbc.org.au/ 9/17 - https://www.newheartbaptist.com/ 9/20ā9/21 - https://genesisgc.com.au/Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the power of words to foster friendship and overflow into your bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead.
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From the Bible
I slept but my heart was awake.
Listen! My beloved is knocking:
āOpen to me, my sister, my darling,
my dove, my flawless one.
My head is drenched with dew,
my hair with the dampness of the night.ā
I have taken off my robeā
must I put it on again?
I have washed my feetā
must I soil them again?
Song of Songs 5:2ā3My beloved thrust his hand through the latch-opening;
my heart began to pound for him.
I arose to open for my beloved,
and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with flowing myrrh,
on the handles of the bolt.
I opened for my beloved,
but my beloved had left; he was gone.
My heart sank at his departure.
I looked for him but did not find him.
I called him but he did not answer.
Song of Songs 5:4ā6
For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Psalm 103:11-12Then He said, āGo out, and stand on the mountain before the Lord.ā And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
1 Kings 19:11-12 (NKJV)Resources
CalmHealthySexy - Gaye's site Healthy Life Toolbox - Gaye's other site! Where Purity Culture Got It Wrong, Let's Get It Right - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 118: Sex Is for You Too How to Read a Marriage Book - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade Episode 185: Womenās Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie) Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex Embrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & Humorous Our Webinars!Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor and is specifically for wives who have been sexually reluctant and are ready to work on improving their sexual engagement with their husbands.
Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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In this episode, we tackle listener questionsāspecifically how to feel more confident in the bedroom by choosing something positive to wear, how to find a therapist in your area or online, and how to mentally shift from seeing oral sex as ādirtyā to something married couples can (if they both want) do.
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From the Bible
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Song of Songs 2:3
Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. Song of Songs 4:16
Resources
Honoring Intimates Mentionables āGetting Ready for Sex,ā Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by Godās Design (Signed) by J. Parker Episode 179: Light Hearts & Lingerie Better Help Online Therapy Psychology Today ā Find a Therapist, Psychologist, Counselor Therapist Directory ā IITAP (CSAT & more) Find a Specialist ā APSATS Trained Specialists Sexual Wholeness Inc ā Find a Christian Sex Therapist Strong Wives ā Bonny Burns Aldrich Ministries Coaching āOral Sex,ā Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by Godās Design (Signed) by J. Parker Take a Step Toward Oral Sex | The Forgiven Wife The Back Door (my take on anal sex) ā¢ Bonnyās Oysterbed7 5 Things You Should Know about Oral Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Oral Sex Webinar ā Sex Chat for Christian WivesSome resources may be affiliate links, meaning we receive a commission for purchases made through these links at no additional cost to you.
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of speaking up about what you need to experience sexual pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka
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From the Bible
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1
I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people, and I will be their God. Ezekiel 11:19ā20
The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me,
because the Lord has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim freedom for the captives
and release from darkness for the prisoners,
to proclaim the year of the Lordās favor
and the day of vengeance of our God,
to comfort all who mourn,
and provide for those who grieve in Zionā
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
instead of ashes,
the oil of joy
instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise
instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
a planting of the Lord
for the display of his splendor.
Isaiah 61:1ā3Resources
Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy by Dr. Juli Slattery & Dr. Joy Skarka Joy Skarka ā Creating Spaces to Set Christian Women Free from Porn and Sexual Shame Authentic Intimacy - Juli Slattery Fight the New Drug The First Time I Saw Porn - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 3: 50 Shades of Here-We-Go-Again Episode 154: Why Weāre Against Porn and Erotica Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy, and the Longings of a Woman's Heart by Dannah Gresh & Dr. Juli Slattery Why Do Women Pose for Porn? - Hot, Holy & Humorous What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Supernatural Sex: Spiritual Dimension of Libido for Low-Drive Wives ā¢ Bonny's Oysterbed7 (about yada') Episode 183: What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life Sex and the Single Girl by Dr. Juli Slattery, Abby Ludvigson & Chelsea Nugteren Talking to Your Kids about Sex: No More One & Done - Hot, Holy & Humorous Start Talking to Your Kids about Sex by Julia Sandusky Who I Am in Christ by Neil T. AndersonThanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, guest Julie Sibert talks about the benefits of showering. Yes, showering! Stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage.
Resources Episode 69: Shower Power Intimacy In Marriage Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage by Jeff Murphy & Julie Sibert -
For many Christians, it can be difficult to think about God and sex at the same time. How present is God in our bedrooms? And how does knowing that He knows make us feel? We dive deep into what God has to do with our sex lives and how to think about and embrace His involvement.
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From the Bible
So God created mankind in his own image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morningāthe sixth day.
Genesis 1:27, 31
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17I belong to my beloved,
and his desire is for me.
Song of Songs 7:10Resources
Has Christianity Hurt Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Why Doesn't the Church Talk about Song of Songs? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Augustine's Sex-Life Change: From Profligate to Celibate | Christianity Today Praying to Your Heavenly Father: Do You Have Daddy Issues? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Theology of the Body for Beginners by Christopher West The Names of God: 52 Bible Studies for Individuals and Groups by Ann Spangler Sex Addiction Recovery - Willow Tree Counseling (runs support groups for mental health professionals and other professionals that want another level of anonymity) The Sarah Society (has a group for pastors wives; start with the regular newcomer meeting) Christian Recovery, Counseling & Coaching | Prodigals International (runs both pastors and pastors wives group, both are free) Intimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in Marriage by J. ParkerThanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Bonny Burns talks about praying for your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholeness as God intended.
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From the Bible
John 4:1-42 (Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well)
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23
Resources
Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Carol Tanksley, MD, DMin Your Sexpectations Dr Carol Ministries The Chosen Scene: Jesus and the Outcast Woman at the Well Who's in Your Story of Sexual Intimacy? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. ParkerThanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, J Parker talks about the bad messages we hear about sex.
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Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject.
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From the Bible
Song of Songs - the whole book!
A cheerful heart is good medicine,
but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22Resources
Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 25: Sex Is Funny - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Faithful Counseling by Better Help - online therapy Does He Make You Laugh? - Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com) 3 Benefits to Playing a Bedroom Game - Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie | The Forgiven WifeThanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, weād appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker -
This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.
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