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Easing Conflict with Words
In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Hidden Danger in Gossip
Lashon Hara about a person’s midos is especially dangerous—it’s harder to refute and more readily accepted. Since no one can "prove" character traits wrong, they spread easily and cause harm.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Would You Want It Said About You?
Lashon Hara damages self-esteem and causes unnecessary anxiety. Before speaking about others, ask yourself: Would I want people saying this about me? If not, remain silent.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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One Word Can Destroy a Life
A single negative remark about a person’s intelligence can ruin shidduchim, business deals, or even a rav’s parnassah. We often underestimate the damage our words can cause.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Speaking About Personality Traits
Comments about someone’s personality—whether they are too quiet, too loud, or lacking intelligence—can easily turn into Lashon Hara or even Motzi Shem Ra. Choose words carefully.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Danger of Judging Intelligence
Lashon Hara isn't just about actions—it includes speaking negatively about someone’s intelligence, skills, or social status. Every person has strengths and weaknesses; who are we to judge?
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Hearing vs. Seeing the Truth
Even if you saw someone sin, Lashon Hara is forbidden without proper justification. How much more so if you only heard about it! Avoid spreading rumors and assumptions.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Hidden Revenge in Speech
Even if one follows all conditions of toeles, speaking Lashon Hara out of personal satisfaction or revenge remains forbidden. We must examine our intentions before discussing others.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Lashon Hara and Personal Grudges
Speaking Lashon Hara is even worse when it stems from personal revenge. Holding a grudge or spreading negativity about someone who wronged you violates multiple issurim.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Judging Others Favorably
Speaking Lashon Hara about someone who fails in bein adam l’chaveiro is still forbidden, even if it’s true. Unless there’s a toeles, we must give the benefit of the doubt and refrain from gossip.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Power of Ben Adam L’Chaveiro
The Chafetz Chaim emphasizes that mitzvos bein adam l’chaveiro are of utmost importance—sometimes even more than bein adam l’Makom. Lashon Hara weakens our connection to others and must be avoided.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Cost of Speaking
Lashon Hara can destroy lives and futures. True Teshuva requires admitting fault to the harmed party, no matter the difficulty.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Teshuva for Words Unheard
When Lashon Hara doesn’t cause harm, Teshuva focuses on Hashem. But when it does, the stakes—and requirements—are much higher.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Nostalgia or Lashon Hara?
Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Easing Conflict with Words
In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Matching Expectations in Shidduchim
Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions
Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm?
When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Teaching Children About Middos
Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement
Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism.
Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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