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Before bidding you adieu until season 2, I have a surprise for you ;)
Today, we're welcoming friend-of-the-podcast Ruan Willow to share a steamy excerpt from her Decadent Erotica Anthology.
Audio erotica is a powerful form of fantasy fuel. If you’ve never tried it before, I invite you to get curious about whether audio erotica might provide you with a new pathway to pleasure.
And, if you start listening and it’s not your cup of tea? That’s ok, too!
Ruan Willow is an erotic author and creator of the Oh F*ck Yeah! podcast, where she seamlessley blends readings of her erotic writing with interviews with sexuality and pleasure experts.
If you enjoy this excerpt, you can listen to many more for free on the Oh Fuck Yeah podcast, available wherever fine podcasts are found!
Learn more about Ruan and follow her here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
Listen to Oh F*ck Yeah: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/
Buy the Decadent Erotica Anthology
On this bonus mini-season of the Slutty Activism podcast, we’ve explored the theme of Uncommon Pleasure. We’ve also been going deeper into opening up new pathways to pleasure in the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge.
You can join this challenge at any time in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community Facebook group and clicking on the Guides section. Join today by going to sluttyactivism.group.
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Have you ever noticed how hard it is to slow down? Have you ever struggled to rest, or felt like down time was something you needed to earn and that you only deserved after hard work? Living under capitalism, society discourages rest and valorizes productivity.
But what if slowing the fuck down is just the thing you need to unlock entirely new experiences of pleasure?
Today, we're joined by Lucy Rowett on this special bonus episode of Slutty Activism to talk about the uncommon pleasure you can experience when you slow down.
Lucy Rowett is a certified sexologist and sex coach who helps women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and create passionate, pleasurable relationships.
We covered A LOT together, from what slowing down means, why it can be so hard to do, how powerful slowing down is for neurodivergence, highly sensitive people, and people with chronic health conditions, why you have to do your due diligence in the world of spiritual sexuality, and how you can get started.
Lucy also generously leads us through a guided meditation you can listen to again and again as you cultivate mindfulness and rest as pathways to greater pleasure.
In this episode you will learn:
1) How slowing down can help reduce stress and promote pleasure
2) How activation (sympathetic nervous system response) can be positive or negative
3) A guided meditation you can use to tap into presence and pleasure in your body
Want More Uncommon Pleasure?
Join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group for the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge. Get involved by going to SluttyActivism.group
About Today's Guest:
Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for womxn to explore their full erotic potential.
Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again.
She is a resident on UK contraception platform, The Lowdown, and she is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including Men's Health, GQ, Kinkly, The O Diaries, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour.
Here's where you can learn more about Lucy online:
Website: https://lucyrowett.com/
Free video class on authentic sexual confidence: https://bit.ly/moreconfidentinbed
Free audio course on empowered sexual communication: https://bit.ly/MoreofWhatYouWant
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucyrowett
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lucyrowettcsc
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucy-rowett-csc-cs-acs-9a301351/
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to
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A lot of the discourse in the world around porn is binary. Either someone is anti-porn or pro-porn. What gets lost in the shuffle is that a lot of people still choose to engage with porn. What might a pro-choice approach to porn look like, and how can we critically evaluate our relationship with porn in service of pleasure?
Today, we're joined by Cam Fraser on this special bonus episode of Slutty Activism to talk about the uncommon pleasure you can experience while using porn consciously, if you choose to do so.
Cam is is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist who brings together the academic and the esoteric into powerful coaching and support for men.
Together, we drilled into the two conversations we need to have as consumers of porn, looking at porn as a tool to amplify arousal and explore sexual fantasies, and ways to bring embodiment and fully-body pleasure to experiences of porn. There is so much richness here, and Cam offers so many practical tips, you’ll be set for a while when it comes to new ways to experiment.
In this episode you will learn:
1) How the way we use porn affects our relationship to porn and to our own pleasure
2) The ethical implications of different types of pornography and how to make conscious choices
3) How to bring our whole bodies into our experiences with porn, if we choose to use porn
Want More Uncommon Pleasure?
Join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group for the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge. Get involved by going to SluttyActivism.group
About Today's Guest:
Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions.
As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.
Here's where you can learn more about Cam online:
Instagram: www.instagram.com/thecamfraser
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@thecamfraser2.0
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKn_mdnURk5OeFf9vUAtClQ
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
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In the wake of increasing legalization of recreational cannabis, have you been at least a little bit curious about how cannabis could be used as a pathway to new pleasure experiences?
Today, we're joined by Dr. Norelyn Parker on this special bonus episode of Slutty Activism to talk about the uncommon pleasure opened up by working with your endocannabinoid system.
Dr. Norelyn Parker is a Cannabis Health & Pleasure Coach who has blended sexology, sex coaching, sexological body work, and cannabis education into this extraordinary practical alchemy of canna-infused pleasure.
I was a total newb before this conversation, and what we cover totally blew my mind.
Norelyn walks us through what’s important to know about how cannabis can support pleasure, factors that affect your cannabis sexperiences, and the elements of conscious cannabis use.
There are so many practical takeaways, this is a great episode if you, like me, have been curious about cannabis and pleasure but had no clue where to begin!
In this episode you will learn about:
1) The endocannabinoid system and its role in regulating disease and maintaining homeostasis in the body
2) The goldilocks ratio of CBD to THC for optimal efficacy
3) The importance of diet, environment, and companionship when engaging in cannabis use
Want More Uncommon Pleasure?
Join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group for the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge. Get involved by going to SluttyActivism.group
About Today's Guest:
Dr. Norelyn Parker is a graduate of Sex Coach U and is currently based out of Sacramento, California. She holds her PhD from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and completed her Sexological Bodywork training at the European Academy of Somatic Education under the instruction of Joseph Kramer.
Her academic studies have focused on intimacy within military relationships, which has expanded to include long distance relationships in general. Her most recent work has been focused on Cannabis and sex after completing her training to become a Certified Cannabis Coach and Educator. Her previous experience as a patient care advocate at a TMJ disorder clinic influences her interest in exploring the overlap between orofacial pain and vulvar pain disorders.
Originally from Cordelia, California, Norelyn now lives in Sacramento. In her free time, you can find her often reading at poetry open mic nights, on a blues fusion dance floor, or playing the Ukulele.
You can find more about her work at http://cannainfusedpleasure.coach/
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
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Open wide, friend, and let’s take a deep throat… I mean, a deep dive on oral sex!
Today, we're joined by Carla Crivaro on this special bonus episode of Slutty Activism to talk about the uncommon pleasure you can experience while giving oral sex.
Carla is a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach who works with men and women from around the world. When we got together, we went DEEP on oral.
We talked about how oral sex is a taboo and what society says about people who do it, how this conditioning impacts our ability to actually enjoy giving and receiving oral sex, and how curiosity is the key to accessing pleasure while giving.
I loved this conversation with Carla and did not want it to end!
In this episode you will learn:
1) The role of shame in preventing people from experiencing pleasure while giving oral sex
2) The importance of being present and curious to experience pleasure while giving
3) The difference between giving oral sex for pleasure and giving it for performance
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Dr. Betty Martin's Waking Up Your Hands exercise as a way to prepare yourself to hone in on pleasureSarah's guide to Dirty Talk 101, which includes giving genuine compliments as a course of pleasureWant More Uncommon Pleasure?
Join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group for the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge. Get involved by going to SluttyActivism.group
About Today's Guest:
Carla Crivaro is a certified and trauma-informed Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. She works internationally with men and women to help them understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom.
Here's where you can learn more about Carla online:
Website: https://www.carlacrivaro.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlacrivarocoaching/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.sexuality.sanctuary/
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Have you ever thought about practices of pleasure that expand beyond the human? What opportunties for pleasure exist in sensual connection to the More-Than-Human world?
Today, we're joined by Jess Lieu on this special bonus episode of Slutty Activism to talk about the uncommon pleasure you can experience by developing a practice of ecosensuality.
Jess is a Somatic Pleasure Educator who focuses on body based practices of pleasure, desire and consent.
We explore what ecosensuality is, Jess’s journey with ecosensuality, and practical ways you can explore ecosensuality for the first time, including an example practice you can try out today.
I really enjoyed this conversation and am so grateful to Jess for generously sharing this wisdom and for indulging all of my curious questions, as ecosensuality was pretty new to me!
In this episode you will learn:
1) What ecosensuality is
2) Practical ways to explore ecosensuality
3) How queer ecology challenges the systems of oppression that we live under
Want More Uncommon Pleasure?
Join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group for the 5 Day Pleasure Diary Challenge. Get involved by going to SluttyActivism.group
About Today's Guest:
Jess is a Somatic Pleasure Educator who focuses on body based practices of pleasure, desire and consent. The intention of her practice is to hold space and guide people within safe enough containers to trust, value and express their body’s desires. She believes there's a galaxy of ways to express and experience our erotic nature and that through the altar of our bodies we are able to access our innate wisdom, integrity and ecological belonging.
Here's where you can learn more about Jess online:
Website: https://sensingsoma.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensingsoma/
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Did you know that your sexuality can be a site of resistance against oppression? Listen to this episode to learn more and join the slutty activist movement to change the world with pleasure!
"What do you want to do? If the answer is that you want to experience more pleasure, more connection, more joy, more honesty, more confidence... if the answer is you want to be a slutty activist and change this world with pleasure, then fucking come along and join me!"
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How sexuality can become a site of resistance against oppression
2. The importance of community in the journey of sexual liberation
3. The potential for immense personal growth by exploring your sexuality
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
If you're looking for a way to explore your sexuality and learn how to create pleasure for yourself and others, then you need to check out this episode. We look at how to live a Pleasure-Focused life so that you can get the sexual liberation you deserve. You will learn how to become an extraordinary lover by dating yourself, priming for pleasure and savoring your sensuality!
"In a world that wants you to be perpetually discontent, that says you aren't deserving, that seeks to keep you down and strip you of your power, pleasure is a radical act of resistance."
Planet Earth is a paradise of sensual experience. We are the living inheritors of this place of immense splendor, each one of us miracles, living stardust, the universe experiencing itself.
And within that experience of itself, the universe is clearly having quite a sexual time!
The capacity we have for sexual pleasure, for erotic imagination, for fantasy and all sorts of sexual creativity, is tremendous.
Given these facts, you have to stop and ask yourself, what the fuck is going on that so many people are so discontent? Why is there so much unpleasurable sex in the world? What can we do about it?
In this episode, you will learn:
1. Why there is so much unpleasurable sex in the world (hint: it's a systemic issue)
2. How to take back your power to generate pleasure for yourself independent of your so called desirability
3. The secret to becoming a highly adaptable, confident lover
4. How your sensuality holds the key to being able to experience limitless pleasure
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Are you dealing with any of this? You have a hard time asking for what you want. You feel overwhelmed and exhausted from trying to please everyone all the time. You resent the people in your life who you feel are taking advantage of you. You have a hard time saying no to people.
Then this episode is for you!
"When you become someone that's easy to say no to, it becomes much easier for others to say yes."
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What it means to prioritize sex
2. The importance of communication in sexual relationships
3. The importance of setting boundaries in sexual relationships
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Do you want to feel more connected to your desire? Do you want to learn how to define your desires? Do you want to shift your thinking around sex, relationships, and pleasure?
In this episode, I'm sharing the solution so that you can experience personal fulfillment. Why not start living the life you really want by learning to listen to your desires?
"Remember, desire is the truth. It's your truth."
Are you struggling to figure out what you want in life and how to get it? Are you always worried about what other people think of you and whether or not you're "normal."
Often, this happens when you're struggling to with your authentic self and what your true desires are.
It's not your fault that your relationship with desire is screwed up - that just means the system is working. Now you have the chance to repair it.
The way to strengthen your connection with desire is through a process of resetting your expectations, defining your desires, and shifting your thinking. This work is challenging, but so worth it.
With desire, you finally have a compass to guide you in life. The best part is that when you start living your truth, your relationships are far less work!
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How reconnecting with your authentic desires leads to a more fulfilling life
2. How understanding and aligning your values, attitudes, and beliefs leads to more satisfying relationships
3. The benefits of a more desire-led life... and a more desire-led world
Resources:
You can learn more about the extraordinary coach Natalie Miller on her website and by listening to her podcast Mind Witchery.
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Could Dignified Hedonism be the answer to dating frustrations and relationship discontent? In this episode, let's take a stand to change the bleak dating landscape by focusing on pleasure and connection.
"Connection is our collective salvation."
Have you noticed how bleak the dating scene can be, and how it often feels like we're just missing each other? It can be so frustrating. It's almost like we're being cheated out of something that we know on some level we deserve.
It was within this modern dating hellscape that the Dignified Hedonist framework was born. It's all about creating pleasure and connection in a way that is caring and honors autonomy. Dignified Hedonism includes mindset and skills work and is an alternative to things like pickup artistry, female dating strategy, or other seduction strategies.
When we start making pleasure and connection the priority, we will change the world.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How you can use Dignified hedonism to create more satisfying relationships and sexual experiences
2. The benefits of being a desire-led, sex-forward, and pleasure-focused individual
3. How connection with others can be an antidote to isolation and loneliness
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
In this episode, we explore how the common relationship strategies of people pleasing and domination actually wind up facilitating fascism.
"The answer to escaping the self sacrifice - dominance paradigm is to stop playing this game entirely and to focus inward on what you actually want."
I've been in private practice since 2016, and in that time, I've observed a pattern of two common approaches people take to relationships. Most of my clients are people who are trying to please others in order to get what they want.
They might be single and frustrated because they're not finding the right relationships, or they might be in relationships where they're being treated poorly.
Then there's another group of clients who are trying to dominate others in order to get what they want. They might be successful in getting into relationships, but they're anxious and doubtful about their partner's attraction to them.
Both of these groups of people are actually quite similar in that they're both trying to control others to get what they want, and in the process, they're both missing on the opportunity for authentic connection.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. What people pleasing and domineering approaches to relationships look like
2. How people pleasing and domineering behaviors can facilitate fascism
3. How shifting to a strategy of collaboration, based on sharing and hearing true desires, can change your life and the world for the better
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
If you're looking for more fulfilling and satisfying relationships, then this episode is for you! In this episode, we explore how to come to your relationships as a whole human being and what you stand to gain from relationships created without any expectation that your partner will fill a void.
"Shifting your self expectation to one of wholeness means you come to expect wholeness in your partners too. You no longer put pressure on yourself to complete them, or vice versa. Only partners who come together in wholeness are able to experience true collaboration."
In this episode, you will learn:
1. The idea that we remain somehow incomplete without finding our one and only destined partner is everywhere
2. Why many people yearn to find the One
3. The importance of wholeness to radically transforming your relationships... and the world
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Does any of this sound familiar?
You don't feel connected to your body, which makes it difficult to enjoy sexual experiences.
Your disconnection from your body leaves you feeling disconnected from others, which makes it difficult to share intimacy and connection during sex.
Our relationship with our bodies impacts our sexual experiences, but that's not all. It's not just an individual thing. Our relationship with our bodies and the state of perpetual disconnect many of us find ourselves in have significant implications for our world.
"The ability to focus on what you feel when you focus on pleasurable sensations opens the door to ecstasy."
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How disconnection from the body contributes to loneliness and dissatisfaction
2. How fascism benefits from our corporal disconnection
3. How sensuality and presence can be used to fight back against fascism
Mentioned in this Episode:
Michael Samsel's article A Mind-Body Look at the Concept of Asperger's Syndrome
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
What's one simple, essential step required to experience more connection and intimacy in your relationships?
For people to be able to connect with you, they have to be able to find you.
"Your courage and allowing yourself to be seen as you truly are will give permission to others to begin to do the same."
I'm always curious about who people are and what they want. It's one of the first things I ask about when I meet someone. I've found that a lot of people have spent years hiding who they are and what they want. They've learned that it's safer to be someone else.
But that comes at a cost.
When you're hidden, you're also disconnected from the things you want most. You're invisible, and that can be lonely and frustrating. I work with people to help them slowly reveal more of themselves. It's a process of taking small steps and seeing how it feels. As they become more visible, they also become more attractive to the people they want to connect with. And as they become more visible, they also help others around them to do the same
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How staying hidden impacts your ability to connect with others
2. Some of the ways we stay hidden, even unconsciously
3. How revealing more of yourself has a positive impact on those around you and on the world at large
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
How does society's view of gender affect dating and sex? Is your dating life affected by society's view of gender?
"When you finally start to find the others, the slutty activists in your midst, approach them with kindness and curiosity, whether they go on to become your partners or not."
Think about all of the gender stereotypes you've heard about men and women. There's a lot of them, right?
The good news is that gender stereotypes are not prescriptive - human beings are not destined to a specific fate because of their sex.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How gender is framed as a power struggle between men and women, where sex is becomes a transaction
2. A controversial reason why there are so many stereotypes related to gender that so many people seem to believe in
3. Proof that gender stereotypes are not fate
4. What you can do differently in dating, sex, and relationships to experience more connection and pleasure
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
When you've been conditioned to believe you're unworthy of love and connection, it's time to commit to changing your mindset and reclaiming your power.
"You need to decide if you really want to experience sexual freedom and to discover who you are as a sexual being."
Have you ever been really down on yourself about your sexual prospects? Maybe you've felt like you were never going to find someone who wanted you.
A lot of people throw themselves pity parties by sharing their laments on anonymous forums or privately beating themselves up in their own minds.
If that resonates, you're not the only one. I've been there. A lot of my clients have been there. It's easy to wind up getting really down about your sexual prospects.
But here's the thing - pity isn't benign. In fact, pity does the internal work of fascism for the fascists... for free! The good news is that there is another way.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. The dangers of pity parties and self-loathing
2. The toxicity of mainstream approaches to dating, sex, and relationships
3. The importance of commitment to self-liberation
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Slutty Activism isn't about only being interested in sex, only being interested in your own pleasure, or being selfish and only caring about your own needs.
Find out what it IS about in this episode
"The more connected we are to each other, the more powerful we become."
Slutty Activists are role models who demonstrate for their friends and lovers what bold communication, caring connection, and sex for pleasure look like. They are lights in the darkness.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How you can use your sexuality as a force for good in the world (i.e. "slutty activism").
2. How poor sex education and toxic messages about sex can lead to disastrous consequences in people's lives.
3. How embracing sexuality and pursuing pleasure can be a path to happiness and a better future.
Connect with me:
If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today!
And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group
Credits:
Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin
Cover Art by Nik Gothic
Music by eFly Production
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy -
Welcome to Slutty Activism, the podcast that’s building a new, pleasure-based movement against fascism where you can learn to create more connections, experience more pleasure, and make the world suck less by being an extraordinary lover. No experience necessary! All aspiring sluts, regardless of gender, orientation, or relationship style preferences are welcome here.
This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:
Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy
