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In this episode Ruth and Rebecca discuss why intimate relationships are so important to our growth, how they are shaped by early connections and they explore ideas about how to shift patterns that are not serving us. Rebecca and Ruth chat about some of the components of, and challenges to intimacy, and discuss how our relationship with self impacts our capacity for intimacy.
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Fear is a universal and important emotion, but sometimes it overwhelms and paralyses us. In this episode Rebecca and Ruth explore ideas around fear and its potential impact on mental health. They discuss why fears can be so powerful, how we might work to diminish them, and some of the reasons we can become stuck in fear. They also chat about some of the many benefits of facing our fears.
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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In this first episode of the second season of Soulful Insights, Rebecca and Ruth speculate on different aspects of self-care from physical pampering and taking breaks, to spending time with friends or seeking solitude. They explore the significance of self-care as a precursor to caring for others, and chat about the difference between self-care and habitual responses that might masquerade as care. They also discuss the importance of making choices that ultimately serve us, and explore how these might be determined.
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In their 22nd episode, Rebecca and Ruth chat about mindfulness. What is it? Why is it so important as a tool in managing our mental health? They discuss why it helps in being able to break automatic patterns of thought and reactivity, They also explore why noticing our responses, and shifting our focus can be so significant if we're wanting to respond in new ways to historic patterning.
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People make many choices daily, but some of us agonise over them - why? In this episode Ruth and Rebecca discuss the significance of choice in our lives, its relationship to change, and why people sometimes experience decision fatigue. They discuss the relationship between the beliefs we hold, and how this impacts the range of choices we might perceive, and why we sometimes don't recognise the choices available to us. Rebecca and Ruth also chat about some of the factors that influence or impede our choices, and our ability to choose authentically.
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Why is interrogating our beliefs so significant to our relationship with self and the world around us? In this episode Ruth and Rebecca discuss the importance of beliefs; how they arise, how they impact our attitudes, our feelings and thoughts. They chat about how to know when your beliefs aren't working for you, explore the relationship between beliefs and identity. Rebecca and Ruth discuss why having beliefs challenged can feel confronting, but why it's also integral to growth.
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Are science and spirituality diametrically opposed, or are their ways in which certain elements of science can be seen to support some spiritual principles. In this episode, Rebecca and Ruth explore this question, and chat about some of the ways in which spirituality is significant in their lives. They chat about trust, about congruence and some spiritual practices that can be helpful to increase knowledge of Self, and to reduce symptoms of anxiety and distress.
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In their 18th episode Ruth and Rebecca speak about their ideas of Spirituality, and why it's an important component of the synergy. They chat about their beliefs and the ways in which spirituality exists for them. Rebecca and Ruth explore various distinctions between Religion and Spirituality, and introduce the idea that many aspects of quantum physics seem to support the existence of spirituality ... and agree to chat more about that in a follow-up episode.
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In this episode Ruth and Rebecca examine the ego, and explore some of its defensive mechanisms. They chat about how a negative ego might develop, how it may present in the world, and what defensive strategies it might utilise when it feels under attack. Bec and Ruth explore the distinction between ego and the Self, and speak about some of the ways in which we might transform our negative ego into a positive ally.
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Sensitivity - a blessing or a curse? In this episode Rebecca and Ruth chat about the diversity with which we meet our respective worlds, and the difference between sensitivity and reactivity. They explore what it might be like to move through the world as a sensitive human, and pose some hypotheses about why we develop sensitively or conversely, why our responses may become dulled. Where do you sit on the continuum?
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Self-compassion - why is it important? In this episode Rebecca and Ruth discuss the components of self compassion and why its impact is significant. They explore how we might identify when it's not in play, and what some of the barriers to being self-compassionate are. Ruth and Rebecca also chat about why our focus is more often on kindness to others and how this can buy into feelings of unworthiness, and lead us to behaviours which distance us from ourselves and the lives we might want to be living.
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Compassion. What is it? What gets in the way? In this episode Ruth and Rebecca explore ideas around compassion: the defining of it, some of the barriers to feeling it, and how the world is impacted by the lack of it. They chat about how compassion might be impacted by systems, and how we may show up when we're treated with a lack of it. Compassion. Don't we always need more?
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In this episode, Rebecca and Ruth explore ideas around personal growth. What is it? Why do we do it? Their converrsation explores some of the components of growth, why some individuals might be more drawn to such exploration than others, and why transofrmation is often a conscious choice. They also chat about their own motivations for growth and some of the factors that can support us on the journey.
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What is it that determines if a behaviour or a pattern is an addiction or just habitual? In this episode, Ruth and Rebecca explore ideas around addiction. They chat about some of the defining features of addictive behaviour, some of the causes and its potential impact. They also speak about some of the shifts that need to occur to understand, and heal from an addiction and again, advocate strongly for the employment of self-compassion.
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Grief is a universal human emotion, but not an easy one to traverse. In this episode Rebecca and Ruth chat about the nature of grief and some of its theoretical stages, and they discuss factors which may impact how we move through a passage of grief. They share some of their personal experiences and subsequent insights, explore why different individuals might respond uniquely to loss, and speak about forgiveness.
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In this, the tenth Soulful Insights episode, Ruth and Rebecca investigate intimacy. They offer their take on what intimacy is, and discuss the idea that levels of intimacy exist upon a continuum. Rebecca and Ruth chat about the components they believe might need to be present for intimacy to develop, speak about the nature of intimacy that exists within a therapeutic relationship, and also explore what some of the barriers to intimacy might be.
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People pleasing - is it something you do? A pattern you're trying to shift? In this episode Rebecca and Ruth chat about people pleasing and how and why it may develop as a protective mechanism. They chat about what some of the behaviours look like, what happens when it persists and speak about some of the factors that can be involved in moving beyond it.
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In this second episode on the Family of Origin, Rebecca and Ruth chat about familial expectations, the assumption that we always feel a close bond with other family members, and the idea of 'chosen family'. They speak about conscious parenting, about their respective journeys toward being parents, and they explore how we might consciously establish new patterns of relating that are different from those we experienced growing up.
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Why is our Family of Origin so significant in shaping who we are and how we relate? In this episode Ruth and Bec chat about the ideal environment for the developing small person and how patterns of relating in our early years impact our future relationships. They touch briefly on Attachment Theory, and speak about the fact that despite patterns being often unconscious, they can be transformed.
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Love. Is it essential? Easy? How do we learn to love, and what can help us love more? In this eisode Rebecca and Ruth explore some of these questions, and chat about where we learn the ways in which we love and what some of the elements of loveing might be. Is love all we need?
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