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If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.
When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain. Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people.
Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, someone who will create in us the familiar feelings of loss or longing that we've known throughout our lives.
Unconsciously, we associate these feelings with love and when we meet someone who doesn't create these feelings in us, the resulting experience is a lack of attraction or interest.
In this episode, I'm explaining the subconscious dynamics of how this operates and sharing practical steps you can take to heal this.
Thanks for listening, lots of love,
Shane
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If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you.
Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there.
While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule.
Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life.
In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that.
I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.
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Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways.
The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses.
I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships.
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Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world. Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities. Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners. This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women. This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to embody more of their feminine power and men to heal in the presence of it.
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Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it! Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs.
In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners.
We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love most, by the people we need to be most connected to.
This episode will give you clear guidance on how to bridge the gap and make deeper connections in the dating world and beyond.
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Struggling with anxious attachment? We've got you covered.
I had the pleasure of interviewing one of our amazing graduates, Laura as she shares her journey of healing anxious attachment and attracting secure love with a wonderful man who is all in!
From a life of compromising boundaries, people pleasing, and worrying about being chosen by someone, to maintaining high standards, clear communication, firm boundaries and calling forth secure love.
She is a real example of what happens when we develop a secure attachment style and start honoring our worth in relationships. I hope you are as touched by her story as I was.
Happy listening!
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What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?
Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges!
In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today. The good, the bad and the ugly!
Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now! There is never a time when you are not creating it and this episode is going to give you the clearest representation of that journey that I've ever recorded.
I had a lot of fun putting this one together and I hope you can share some laughs and some feels as you hear the story.
Much Love <3
Shane
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Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go! When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us. Whether you're getting to know someone new or with your partner of many years, if you're not practicing clear, direct, and powerful communication with them, you're inviting resentment, disconnection, and a lack of intimacy to grow between you. By using simple communication tools we can open up a new world of connection in the relationships that mean the most to us or the new relationships we're building and in this episode, I'm sharing how to approach these conversations in a way that leads to the results we all crave from our love lives. This is a powerful conversation about creating true depth and intimacy with those we love or those we hope to love in the near future. Enjoy :)
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Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward? Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often? Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop? If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the answer. Whether you’re wanting more urgency for people to get off the apps and meet in person, you want to get approached more ”in the wild” or you want the person you’re with to be more invested in planning and executing exciting things for you to do together, this episode is sharing all the secrets to what makes a man take action and have him be excited about doing so.
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What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex? This episode is all about that.
I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives.
Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples often experience a dwindling of their sex lives the longer they are together, ranging from non-existent, to boring and unfulfilling.
In this episode, I'm sharing the secrets to a deeply fulfilling sex life that fulfills your deepest fantasies and meets your most heartfelt emotional needs.
I hope you enjoy it and thanks for listening!
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Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Every so often I like to include a magical story of transformation and conscious love on the show, this is one of those episodes. In this week's episode, I interview Stephanie Menezes, a friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares her journey to the conscious partnership she's created with her incredible man, Patrick. Speaking into all of the ups and downs along the way, she highlights important lessons she learned, steps she took, and changes she made in her life to prepare for and attract the conscious love she's always wanted. She shares about how the program influenced her journey and everything she needed to bring herself into alignment and have the love she now enjoys today. I hope you enjoy her heartwarming story as much as I enjoyed the interview and if you're looking for some insight that you can apply in your own life, I think you'll find it here.
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So many of us feel stuck in a perpetual cycle of casual relationships, temporarily getting excited when something real seems to show up only to be let down when we realize it's yet another short term thing that wasn't built to last. Others of us have gone so long without being excited about anything that we doubt the reality that we could ever find what we're looking for.
If you feel stuck, exhausted, defeated or hopeless and feel that the occasional casual fling is the most you can expect, this episode is for you. I'm breaking down the journey to long term love and showing you how to bridge the gap in ways you may not have considered, so you can get back you passion and inspiration and feel that you are truly on your way to the love you've always wanted.
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Trying to find out someone's true feelings for you can be one of the most frustrating and anxiety inducing experiences you'll ever go through. And I know men can often be particularly mysterious in terms of sharing how they feel.
But it doesn't have to be so hard!
With just a little courage and creativity, you can actually get really clear answers to all of your questions in a very short amount of time and in this episode, I'm sharing exactly how to do that.
I'm walking you through the exact questions and conversations you need to have within the first few dates together that will give you clarity on where you stand, what real potential there is, and how to move forward.
If you're wondering, "Is it time to walk?" This episode has the answer!
Enjoy!
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Love addiction is extremely common and pervasive.
While addictions like drugs or alcohol are often clearly seen as destructive and people are encouraged to quit or not engage in the first place, the same cannot be said for love addiction. We are often encouraged to fuel our love addiction and societal pressure from friends and family can often exacerbate the issue.
Furthermore, because of how common it is and it's perceived normalcy, there's virtually no help in diagnosing it and very little support available for those who suffer from it.
Despite that, millions of us have such a destructive relationship with love and dating that it literally ruins our lives and at a minimum, it steals our peace and stresses us out while limiting the true connections we're able to make.
In this episode, Shane breaks down the phenomenon of love addiction in exquisite detail while showing you how to diagnose yourself and giving you practical steps to heal if you feel this is you.
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In this captivating episode of the Conscious Love Show, Shane Kohler shines a spotlight on the six pervasive lies that have ensnared our understanding of love.
With warmth and insight, he navigates through the misconceptions that often lead us astray in our pursuit of meaningful connections. One by one, Shane tackles the common myths that sabotage our love lives, fearlessly dismantling these illusions, inviting listeners to challenge their deeply ingrained beliefs about love.
Through intimate conversations and empowering revelations, Shane offers a roadmap for liberation from these cultural shackles, empowering us to embrace love in its truest, most authentic form.
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Delving into the complexities of love and attachment, Shane unpacks the underlying motivations behind the tendency to rush into relationships and offers practical strategies for cultivating mindful, intentional connections.
In this episode, Shane explores the deep-seated fears and desires that drive us to seek validation and security in romantic partnerships. From the fear of loneliness to the longing for companionship, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the emotional dynamics at play in the rush to love.
But beyond mere analysis, Shane also offers empowering tools and practices to help listeners break free from the cycle of rushing into relationships. By cultivating self-awareness, practicing self-love, and embracing the journey of self-discovery, Shane guides us toward a more conscious approach to love and dating.
Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating or seeking to break free from patterns of rushing into relationships, this episode provides invaluable guidance and inspiration to support your journey toward more mindful, fulfilling connections.
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Delving into the intricate world of hormones and neurochemistry, Shane unveils the fascinating factors that influence how men bond with women, shedding light on the mysteries of post-sex behavior.
Through captivating discussions and insightful revelations, Shane explores the hormonal blueprint that governs male attraction and connection. From the role of oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," to the impact of vasopressin, dopamine and testosterone, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how these chemicals shape men's emotional responses and desire for intimacy.
But beyond the science, Shane also delves into the emotional and psychological aspects that contribute to lasting connection. By examining the importance of communication, emotional vulnerability, and shared experiences, he offers practical insights on how to create a fulfilling and enduring bond with a partner.
Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating, seeking to understand male behavior, or looking to enhance intimacy in your relationship, this episode provides invaluable guidance to empower both men and women to cultivate meaningful connections based on mutual understanding and respect.
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Here is the link to the article mentioned in the episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-defines-beautiful-according-to-psychologists-5180378
Delving deep into the realms of human connection and attraction, Shane demystifies the complex interplay of biology, psychology, and personal preference that shape our perceptions of physical allure.
Through engaging discussions and insightful revelations, Shane sheds light on the evolutionary roots of physical attraction and its role in forming initial connections. From the influence of hormones to the power of symmetry and facial features, listeners will gain a newfound understanding of the science behind what draws us to others.
But beyond the surface level, Shane also delves into the deeper significance of physical attraction in the context of conscious love and meaningful relationships. Exploring how our perceptions of beauty are influenced by cultural norms and personal experiences, Shane offers a fresh perspective on how to navigate the complexities of attraction with mindfulness and authenticity.
Whether you're curious about the science behind physical attraction or seeking insights to enhance your own relationships, this episode promises to illuminate the mysteries of love and attraction in a way that resonates deeply with the heart and mind.
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In a world where vulnerability is often perceived as weakness, Shane invites listeners to embrace their insecure feelings with compassion and courage, transforming them into catalysts for growth and deeper connection.
Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful teachings, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to navigate feelings of insecurity with grace and resilience. From cultivating self-awareness and practicing self-love to fostering open communication and trust in relationships, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to transform insecurity into an opportunity for personal and relational growth.
Whether you're navigating the uncertainties of dating, struggling with self-doubt in a relationship, or seeking to deepen your connection with yourself and others, this episode provides the inspiration and tools you need to navigate the complexities of insecurity with wisdom and compassion.
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