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#084 Is it still dominance if it’s gentle?
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Turns out, soft domination isn’t weakness—it’s an intentional, emotionally intelligent way to lead and surrender. In this episode, we're exploring what gentle domination really looks like, why it’s trending in the BDSM community, and how soft Doms are rewriting the rules of control, discipline, and connection.
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#083 What if therapy isn't the only way to heal — and sometimes, it's not even the best way?
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In this episode, we're sharing why BDSM can offer healing in ways traditional therapy sometimes can't. We cover surprising insights even therapists are exploring, the hidden harm of for-profit therapy, and a powerful scene that cracked open years of trauma.
Ready to explore healing on your own terms?
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#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget?
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In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you can use tonight—no fancy gear or prep required. From voice-only command scenes and sensory deprivation with household items, to secret service rituals, playful punishment games, and emotional restraint with praise, you’ll find inspiration for any dynamic. Plus, don’t miss the 5-minute scene challenge! Ready to make your night unforgettable?
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#081 Poly and kinky? It’s not as easy as people think.
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We're sharing 5 essential rules for making BDSM and polyamory work—without the drama. Learn how to define power structures, avoid jealousy, handle communication across partners, and balance multiple D/s roles. With real stories, clear strategies, and hard truths, this is your roadmap to healthy, multi-dynamic relationships.
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#080 Would you ever take orders from an AI Dom or command an AI sub?
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It might sound wild, but AI is creeping into BDSM faster than you'd think. We're breaking down how people are using AI for training, control, and even aftercare—plus where it all falls short. From AI subs with no real surrender to AI Doms missing true intuition, we're diving into the future (and risks) of tech in kink.
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#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives?
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We're tackling this hot topic, and it might just surprise you. We're getting into the nitty-gritty, highlighting the weight on a Dom's shoulders—like planning and managing emotions—and the trust and mental hurdles subs navigate. Whether you're leading or letting go, there's a lot to consider! Got an opinion? Tune in and join the friendly debate.
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#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either.
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Confidence isn’t about being loud or forceful—it’s about presence, control, and certainty. In this episode, you’ll learn how to command attention without overcompensating, use body language to reinforce your authority, and lead in a way that makes your submissive feel safe, secure, and deeply connected to you.
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#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes!
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Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, these insights will help you navigate power exchange, play, communication, and more. Hopefully, at least one of these tips will be a game changer for you!
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#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new.
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Alesandra and Jay dive into the world of bondage from last year's Dom/Sub Dynamics Summit. They chat about everything from ropes and cuffs to the psychological side of things like power play. Whether you're new to bondage or a seasoned pro, there's something here for everyone. Plus, learn how bondage can bring you closer and boost your dynamic. Listen now and transform your BDSM journey!
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#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think!
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We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into what makes these kinks so popular. We also explore role-based dynamics like DD/lg and the broad world of BDSM. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned explorer, there's inspiration and insight for everyone. Get ready to discover your next favorite kink!
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#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques!
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Ever wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 times more intense? Spoiler: it's not about hitting harder or using fancier toys. Dive into this episode where we reveal how sensation play can transform your experiences! Explore contrasting sensations, the magic of slowing down, and creative tools like frozen grapes. Plus, uncover the unexpected power of breath, voice, and sensory deprivation in your play. Get ready to upgrade your BDSM scenes!
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#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone!
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We're revealing the surprises and challenges we encountered when we thought we had it all figured out. Worried you might mess up on your BDSM journey? Tune in now to avoid these common missteps and navigate your dynamic with confidence!
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#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship?
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In this episode, listen in as Alesandra sits down with Auntie Vice on Fat Chicks on Top to talk about BDSM beyond the bedroom. We cover behavior modification, the psychology of kink, navigating D/s dynamics with kids, and why communication is key in a power exchange relationship. Plus, Alesandra shares how she went from Beauty Blogger to BDSM Educator.
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#071 Why do forbidden things turn us on so much? It's not just about pleasure—it's psychology.
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We're unravelling the psychology behind BDSM, exploring misconceptions about trauma, the science of endorphins and dopamine, and the vital role of trust and control. Delve into why anticipation feels so good, the allure of taboo desires, and how kink can serve as emotional release and even healing. Join us and discover what makes BDSM exciting beyond the physical!
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#070 Total power exchange sounds intense, right? But it's not just about control; it's about trust, intention, and freedom.
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Join us as we debunk myths surrounding 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) and share our journey into this fulfilling dynamic. Explore the foundational steps: from education, defining roles and boundaries, to creating contracts and establishing rituals. Learn how TPE can empower both partners through trust and communication. Could this be the missing piece in your relationship puzzle? Follow along and step into your own TPE journey today!
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#069 "When my Dom secured the collar around my neck, it gave me a huge sense of belonging and trust like never before."
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In this episode, we explore the deep meaning of collars in a D/s dynamic, the practical aspects of wearing them 24/7, and the emotional significance they hold. Learn about different types of collars, why Alesandra chose her particular one, and tips for creating your own coloring ceremony. Curious about wearing a collar 24/7? Tune in now for insights and tips on embracing this powerful symbol in your D/s relationship!
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#068 Feeling like the passion in your D/s dynamic has faded? You’re not alone—but you can bring it back!
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We're sharing why losing the spark is so common and the key reasons it happens—like routine overload, lack of communication, and external stress. You’ll learn actionable strategies to reignite the fire, from revisiting your foundation to adding variety and deepening your connection. Plus, you'll get practical tips to overcome common objections and start small changes today.
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#067 Is it possible to balance love, family, and a Dom/sub dynamic?
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In this episode, we chat with Harlo and Adira, a Dom/sub married couple navigating parenthood, health challenges, and everyday life—all while deepening their 24/7 D/s connection. They share the mindset shifts that transformed their relationship, how they handle challenges like chronic illness, and why communication and contracts are non-negotiable in their dynamic. Whether you're just starting out or looking to strengthen your dynamic, this episode is packed with real-life advice and inspiration.
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#066 Negotiation isn't just a skill, it's a gift you give your dynamic.
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In this episode, we're exploring the must-know steps for negotiating your BDSM relationship. From prepping your thoughts to choosing the right time to talk, you'll get the lowdown on clear and honest communication. We're sharing personal stories, busting common myths, and explaining why ongoing discussions are key to keeping things spicy and smooth. Level up your negotiation game and tune in now.
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#065 There's no guidebook for BDSM - but what if you could learn from experienced kinksters?
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We gathered 5 incredible kink educators to answer one key question: "What do you wish you knew before starting BDSM?" Hear invaluable insights from Evie Lupine, Sunny Megatron, Kayla Lords, John Brownstone, Amanda Dames, and Lazarus Redmayne. They share their wisdom on authenticity, community, and overcoming shame. Perfect for newbies and pros alike. Don't miss the full list of resources and your chance to connect with these experts!– Evie Lupine: https://www.youtube.com/c/EvieLupine
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