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Do you ever feel stuck in a reactive cycle as a parent â responding in ways you wish you wouldn't, again and again? Like Paul in Romans 7:15, you might find yourself saying, âI do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.â
Hereâs the good news: youâre not broken â youâre patterned. And patterns can be healed.
In this episode, we unpack what it means to be shaped by behavioral patterns, where they come from, and how they show up in our parenting and marriage. We explore the early steps toward recognizing and healing these patterns, and how Godâs redemptive work can bring real change.
Through scripture, personal stories, and practical steps, we guide you toward deeper awareness â and point you to the healing that leads to freedom and greater connection in your home.
We also make an exciting announcement on the podcast today: Intentional Fatherhood is officially launching on Friday, June 13! In the meantime, visit the website, follow @intentionalfatherhood_ on Instagram, and subscribe to the podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
Steps for Experiencing Healing From Patterns:
1. Name the story
2. Grieve the loss of what should have been but wasnât
3. Invite Jesus into that wound
4. Practice new patterns
Reflection:
Reflect on one pattern that shows up often in your marriage, parenting or friendship
Question:
What is that pattern protecting you from and what is it trying to say?
Prayer:
Ask Jesus to help you be curious and kind about your story.
Scripture Mentioned: Romans 7:15, 1 Corinthians 11:1, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Romans 7:14-18, Romans 7:22-25, James 1:19-20 + Isaiah 53:3
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This week, weâre getting honest about our inadequacies as parents â when all we can say is, âI canât.â
Inspired by The Fellowship of the Withered Hand, a concept from John Ortbergâs Steps, we explore how embracing our weaknesses can actually be a gateway to deeper healing and growth. Rather than hiding our shortcomings, what if we brought them into the light â to both God and to trusted community â and found strength in surrender?
Rooted in the story from Mark 3 where Jesus heals a manâs withered hand, we talk about the courage it takes to stretch out the broken parts of ourselves. As parents, that might mean owning our impatience, our fears, or the lies we tell ourselves about needing to have it all together.
Because the truth is, we all have withered hands. The question isnât if weâre broken â itâs whether weâre willing to hold out our hands for healing.
Steps to Addressing Our Inadequacies:
Admit: Acknowledge that you have âwithered handsâ and name what they are.Invite: Ask God for help in your weaknesses.Release: Let go of control over your shortcomings and the outcomes of them.Remember: You are not alone in this journey!Questions to Ask Yourself:
Where in my parenting do I say, âGod, I canât?âWhat would it look like to make prayer my first parenting move â not my last?Prayers to Pray:
God, what keeps me from admitting my weaknesses? What shame is hurting me and keeping me from admitting?God, point me to the books, podcasts, teachings and people you want to use to speak into my life.Books Mentioned: Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isnât Enough by John Ortberg + Soul Keeping: Caring For the Most Important Part of You by John Ortberg
Scripture Mentioned: Mark 3:1-6, Matthew 5:3, 1 Corinthians 10:12, Isaiah 66:1-2, Psalm 8:4, Mark 5:25-34, Matthew 8:23-27, Hebrews 4:14-16, 2 Corinthians 12:10, Matthew 7:7, 2 Corinthians 12:5, 2 Corinthians 12:9 + James 5:16
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This week, all four of us sit down for a meaningful conversation about everyday forgiveness â small, often-overlooked moments of hurt that show up in our closest relationships and call for repair. Whether it's with a spouse, parent, friend, or coworker, these minor offenses can quietly accumulate and widen the distance between us â unless we learn to close the gap before it becomes a chasm.
Diane shares a personal story of a generational pattern of unforgiveness in her family of origin and how it shapes the way she responds to hurt. We each reflect on how unforgiveness can quietly manifest in our lives â as self-pity, hopelessness, bitterness, simmering resentment, passive-aggressiveness, or even âscanning for rejection.â
Turning to Scripture, we explore powerful examples of radical forgiveness â including some of Jesusâ final words on the cross â and what it means to forgive not just once, but âseventy times seven.â
Drawing from our own relationships, we talk about why forgiveness becomes easier when we understand a loved oneâs story and emotional triggers. We also offer three practical ways to express everyday forgiveness and return to a truth weâve seen time and again: rupture and repair build resilience.
Forgiveness isnât a one-time act â itâs ongoing, relational, and essential. Tune in to discover how you can begin practicing this spiritual rhythm in your daily life.
Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 4:32, Psalm 23, Matthew 6:9-13, Philippians 4:6, Psalm 119:11, Hebrews 12:15, Matthew 18:21-22, Luke 23:34, Acts 7:54-60, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Romans 12:18
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This week, weâre thrilled to welcome back our dear friend A.J. Swoboda â author, professor, theologian, lay pastor, and fellow podcaster â for an honest conversation about what it means to parent while carrying our own scars. Like physical ones, emotional scars tell the story of pain endured and healing found.
We talk about the reality that many of us are giving our kids something we never received â emotional health, spiritual guidance, or intentional presence. While thatâs a beautiful gift, it can also bring up unexpected feelings of shame or even jealousy as we confront the gaps in our own stories.
We discuss some practical tools for parenting with scars, including Jon Tysonâs Primal Path, a discipleship program for fathers and sons. We also reflect on how our children often become the ones who draw our scars into the light, asking questions that push us to face painful parts of our past.
Ultimately, we highlight the fact that healing is a slow, intentional process â and how parenting through our scars invites both challenge and redemption. We found our conversation with A.J. to be rich, emotional, and full of hope â and we think you will too.
Book Mentioned: His Face like Mine: Finding God's Love in Our Wounds by Russell W. Joyce
Previous Episode Mentioned: Procedural Memory: How God Redeems Reflexes, Rewrites Patterns and Renews the Mind (Spotify + Apple Podcasts)
Scripture Mentioned: Genesis 2:24
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Do you ever catch yourself wishing away the ordinary, mundane days of parenting â those moments that feel repetitive, exhausting, or spiritually dry? Maybe you carry guilt for not âpraying enough,â or wonder when youâll ever have space for deep spiritual encounters again.
In this weekâs episode, Brook and Elizabeth invite you to reimagine what prayer looks like in the midst of diapers, dishes, and daily routines. They explore the idea of praying the ordinary â cultivating an inner posture of attentiveness, availability, and surrender in even the most mundane moments.
Drawing from real-time personal experiences, they share how to incorporate breath prayers into your day, practical ways to invite God into the small things, common obstacles to practicing ordinary prayer â and how to overcome them.
With honesty and hope, Brook and Elizabeth remind us that you are never too ordinary for the presence of God. He delights in showing up in the unnoticed spaces, and there is a heavenly reward for living in righteousness and rejoicing in the ordinary.
Breath Prayers You Can Borrow:
Inhale: âLord, youâre my strength.â Exhale: âHelp me love with patience.âInhale: âYou know my child.â Exhale: âBetter than I do.âInhale: âFather, shape my heartâŠâ Exhale: ââŠto reflect yoursâInhale: âI surrender control.â Exhale: âI trust your care.âInhale: âCome, Holy Spirit.â Exhale: âGuide my parenting today.âScripture Mentioned: Colossians 3:17, Genesis 1:26-28, Revelation 3:19-20, Psalm 23 + Romans 12:1
Books Mentioned: Prayer by Richard Foster, Domestic Monastery: Creating Spiritual Life at Home by Ronald Rolheiser, The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence + Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life by Tish Harrison Warren
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This week, Brook sits down once again with author, professor, theologian, lay pastor, and podcaster A.J. Swoboda to talk about the importance of having a teachable spirit in todayâs world. Centered around his latest book, A Teachable Spirit, this episode invites listeners to see teachability not just as a personality trait, but as a deeply spiritual discipline.
We begin by naming a sobering truth: âWe have become a culture that demands repentance but shames people who actually do it.â In response, A.J. points us to a better way â the way of Jesus â urging us to become teachable people rooted in humility and grace.
Starting with the definition of a teachable spirit, we explore the role of humility, the difference between teachability and impressionability, how we remain teachable in marriage and parenting, the value of repair with our kids, and the gift of childlike faith â pointing out the countercultural idea that âthings are better when kids are in the room.â A.J. also previews the groups in his book that we must learn how to learn from: experts, the dead, strangers, culture, children, and more â even when it's uncomfortable for us as Christians.
Ultimately, we land on the âwhyâ behind it all: why is this posture essential to the mission of the Church? A.J. ends with a moving picture of extreme humility and teachability â carried all the way to our last dying breath.
Our conversation is full of humor, vulnerability, depth, insight, and, of course, humility. If youâre longing to grow â or simply wondering what it means to become a more teachable person â donât miss this one.
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Scripture Mentioned: 2 Peter 3:16, Daniel 1, Genesis 2:20-24, Matthew 19:13-15, Luke 6, John 7 + Matthew 16
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Do you ever find yourself at a loss when it comes to disciplining your children as they move beyond the toddler years? Do you wish you could instantly curb the pushback, mood swings, and moments of disrespect?
This week, we discuss our Bottom-Up vs. Top-Down Parenting resource, which reframes how we respond to our childrenâs behaviors by emphasizing both correction and connection.
After all, God has hard-wired us all for connection â and this should dictate how we relate to our kids, no matter the circumstances. Looking to Jesus as the model for demonstrating both kindness and firmness, we emphasize not only the importance of each, but also the order in which we respond to outbursts or misbehavior.
We explore the two extremes we often see in parenting: 1) the authoritarian, emotionless âbecause I said soâ style focused solely on squashing the behavior and 2) the overemphasis on emotional validation without any sense of firm boundaries or consequences.
So how do we strike that balance? Tune in to find out!
Scripture Mentioned: Romans 11:22, Romans 2:4, Proverbs 3:11-12, Proverbs 22:6, John 1:14, Psalm 94:19, Proverbs 15:1 + 4, Proverbs 29:17 + Matthew 11:28
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This week, Brook sits down with actor, author, and producer Kirk Cameron for a powerful conversation about faith, marriage, and what it means to live as a man of God.
While many remember Kirk from his prominent roles in the Growing Pains TV series and the Left Behind films, his story goes far beyond the screen. He shares how a shift from atheism to Christianity as a teenager altered the trajectory of his life, leading him to become a devoted husband, father of six, and now a grandfather.
We talk about Kirkâs new kidsâ show, Iggy and Mr. Kirk, streaming on BRAVE+, created to offer low-stimulation, character-focused content in a world full of noise.
Kirk also shares rich wisdom on marriage, describing it as âa school you enroll in to learn how to die to yourself.â He challenges the cultural narrative that marriage is about happiness, reframing it as a path to holiness and covenantal love. Kirk dropped this memorable alliteration when it comes to marriage: âIf you focus on rights, youâll promote rebellion. But if you focus on responsibilities, you create the conditions for revival.â
The episode closes with a meaningful reflection on biblical manhood â how to model it for our sons, even if we didnât have it modeled for us. Kirk points to meekness as a defining trait: strength and power, willingly submitted to the authority of God.
This episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and clarity for anyone striving to live and lead with purpose. Donât miss it!
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This week, we explore procedural memory â the unconscious, long-term memory that drives us to perform actions automatically. Shaped by childhood experiences and behaviors modeled by our parents, procedural memory often feels like running on autopilot or slipping into default mode, especially in how we respond under pressure. Itâs that reflexive reaction, internal or external, that surfaces when weâre provoked â sometimes leading to an action you once promised yourself youâd never repeat, perhaps because itâs something you watched your parents do.
Once we define the concept, we unpack how to break harmful procedural memory patterns and how, in turn, we can form healthier reflexive habits. While acknowledging our shortcomings and the reality that we will inevitably pass down some forms of negative behavior to our children, we quickly reach a place of incredible hope.
We examine the process of transformation and redemption outlined in Scripture, drawing from the hopeful call in Romans 12:1-2 to offer ourselves as living sacrifices and be transformed by the renewing of our minds.
By sharing personal stories of generational healing and redemption within our own family, we testify to the ways God has reshaped our hearts and minds, unveiling His power, patience, and grace in the process.
This episode is packed with practical tips, scriptural truths, raw vulnerability, and radical hope.
Prayers to Pray:
âGod, help us unlearn what hurt us and relearn what heals us.â
âHelp us live in ways that our bodies, our families and our children will remember as love.â
Scripture Mentioned: Romans 12:1-2, Hebrews 5:14, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 1:17, Romans 5:8, Psalm 118:27, 1 Corinthians 11:1, Philippians 4:9, Matthew 12:34, Romans 7:15-20, 1 John 3:19-20, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:6, Genesis 50:15-21, Romans 5:10,
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This week, Elizabeth and Diane make an exciting announcement: The Intentional Motherhood Retreat is BACK for 2025 â this time, in Portland, Oregon from October 23-25! They discuss what the retreat is all about, why you should come, and what to expect if you havenât been before.
As retreat speakers and hosts, Elizabeth and Diane reflect on the deep connections, vulnerability, and transformation experienced in past years â building anticipation for whatâs to come in 2025.
This retreat is for women who desire to be mothers some day, all the way to grandmothers, and everyone in between â mothers of babies, toddlers, young children, teenagers, and adult children. This intergenerational gathering is a chance for all ages and stages of mothers to learn from one another, encourage each other, and simply be together. Because motherhood isnât meant to be done alone.
The late Dallas Willard said âSpiritual formationâŠcanât be a private thing⊠It is a matter of whole-life transformation. You need to seek out others in your community who are pursuing the renovation of the heart.â
And that is exactly what we are going to do together. So come join us October 23rd through 25th for the Intentional Motherhood Retreat in Portland. We canât wait to see you!
Scripture Mentioned: Colossians 2:2-3
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This week, weâre diving into the topic of emotional intelligence â the ability to recognize, understand, and manage emotions in both ourselves and those around us. Developing emotional intelligence helps us navigate life with maturity and stability, while also equipping us to guide our children in naming and managing their emotions with confidence and care.
At its core, emotional intelligence is built on four key components: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. These elements work together to shape how we understand ourselves, navigate our emotions, and connect with others.
In this episode, we explore each of these components, acknowledging that some may come more naturally than others. We also take a closer look at generational differences in emotional intelligence and how we can break unhealthy patterns to cultivate emotional well-being for both ourselves and our kids.
Join us for a candid and thought-provoking conversation filled with wisdom, reflection, encouragement, and scripture!
Book Mentioned: Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Jean Greaves, Travis Bradberry and Patrick M. Lencioni
Scripture Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 7:10, Ephesians 4:26, Genesis 4:6, Ephesians 4:25-32, Jonah 4, Psalm 4:4, Proverbs 16:32, Proverbs 17:22, Psalm 32:3-5, Psalm 19:11, Psalm 19:14, Philippians 2:3-4, Galatians 4:19 + Romans 13:8-10
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This week, the entire Intentional team sits down to respond to your questions, covering a range of topics, including emotional availability, attachment, overstimulation with kids, physical intimacy in marriage, and navigating emotional pain with our children.
We discuss the difficult task of staying emotionally present with toddlers while tending to household responsibilities. Elizabeth unpacks common misconceptions about attachment, explaining that secure attachment isnât about being constantly available but is instead about a continued pattern of relating and knowing how to repair when we inevitably fall short.
We delve into the reality of overstimulation and feeling âtouched outâ with kids â and how that may dissuade us from desiring physical intimacy with our spouse. We discuss practical ways to navigate this challenge, including clear communication and strategies for regulating your nervous system. We also acknowledge that while this season of parenting young children is emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually demanding, it also strengthens our resilience, helping us build tolerance for lifeâs everyday stresses.
Finally, we tackle the question âCan we shield our children from emotional pain?â Instead of striving to protect them from every hardship, we discuss the importance of naming and acknowledging their pain, equipping them with tools to process their emotions, and ultimately pointing them to their heavenly Father as their true source of comfort and strength.
Tune in for an honest, encouraging conversation about the complexities of parenting â and the grace we need to navigate it all.
Scripture Mentioned: Luke 8:1-3, Luke 9:1-2, Psalm 32:7, Genesis 50:20, Genesis 39:21, Romans 8 + Psalm 91
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In this episode, the whole Intentional team comes together to unpack five essential practices for maintaining calm and regulation as parents â even in the midst of chaos. We explore how our response to our children must be rooted in humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and contentment.
We discuss the fleshly desire to respond to heightened emotions and dysregulation in our kids by matching their intensity â and how that never works out well in the long run. Instead, we look to Jesusâ words in the Sermon on the Mount, where meekness is not weakness but strength under control, and ultimately, how âhumility is the beginning of usability.â
This scripture-rich conversation offers both a framework for responding when your child acts out and a way to proactively cultivate peace in your home. Itâs a reminder that none of us parent perfectly â but by continually reorienting ourselves toward the words and ways of Jesus, we can navigate even the most intense moments with grace.
Scripture Mentioned: Matthew 5:5, Romans 7:15-20, Proverbs 15:1+4, Ephesians 4:2, Matthew 11:28-30, Numbers 12:3, 1 Peter 5:5, Proverbs 24:16-18, John 8, 2 Peter 3:9, James 5:7, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 + Matthew 18:21-22
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This week, we welcomed Sally Lemos, MS, LPC back on the show for a continued conversation around generational trauma, this time focused on the path to healing.
Drawing from her own history of significant childhood trauma, Sally walked us through what it can look like to find healing and restoration, offering a raw account of her transition from denial and blame to naming and claiming. Sallyâs healing process didnât involve a clean, step-by-step checklist, but rather an openness to the One who saves â the One who provided resources and people to sit with her in the pain. We delve into the crucial aspects of healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when professional intervention is necessary and the need to avoid spiritual bypassing. Sally stresses that genuine healing demands personal transformation before one can effectively support others, and that it is a lifelong process. Together, we looked to heaven as the ultimate source of comfort, knowing that keeping an eternal perspective will give us strength in the midst of present struggles.
Our conversation with Sally was raw, vulnerable and filled with hope â as again and again, we returned to the comforting reality: âBut God.â
NOTE: Please be advised the topics discussed in this show may not be suitable for younger audiences; please use your discretion when watching or listening.
Listen to Part 1: âGenerational Trauma, Wounded Parts and How Trauma is Passed Down (Interview with Sally Lemos, MS, LPC)â
Sally Lemos, MS, LPC: New Bloom Therapy, Instagram
Books Mentioned: âHeavenâ and âHeaven for Kidsâ by Randy Alcorn
Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 1:5, Matthew 3:17, Philippians 4:4-7 + Exodus 20:3-6
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Have you ever felt stuck in your decisions, as if changing your mind would mean admitting defeat? This week, weâre talking about the beauty and bravery of pivoting, whether itâs within your marriage, the way you parent your children, or other areas of life. We unpack the reasons we may have trouble granting ourselves permission to change, whether thatâs worry, fear, pride, ignorance, identity, or even dynamics within our family of origin.
Sometimes, the ideals we held before marriage or parenthood no longer fit the reality of our lives. Maybe your spouse or kids donât match the expectations you once had â or maybe you have changed. And thatâs okay! A willingness to adjust requires humility and a deep dependence on God, acknowledging that we are âpoor in spiritâ (Matthew 5:3) and are in need of His guidance to discern what needs to shift.
In this episode, we explore practical ways to zoom out, reflect, and ask God, âIs this actually working?â We discuss tools like scripture, prayer, and the wisdom of community to navigate these changes. Plus, we share our own stories of moments, both big and small, where weâve had to change course â and how those shifts brought unexpected peace and growth.
If youâve been waiting for permission to pivot, this is it. Join us for an encouraging, hope-filled conversation about embracing change with grace and courage.
Scripture Mentioned: Proverbs 16:9, Genesis 18:22-33, Acts 27 + 28, Matthew 5-7, John 8:29, Daniel 1:8-10 + Ephesians 5:21-33
Book Mentioned: âSearching for and Maintaining Peace: A Small Treatise on Peace of Heartâ by Jacques Philippe
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This week, we welcomed author, speaker, fellow podcaster, and overall inspiring, vibrant and magnetic human Annie F. Downs to the show.
First, we highlighted the childrenâs book Annie co-wrote with her sister, âWhere Did TJ Go?â, which helps kids navigate grief and loss. The story was born from personal tragedy. After her sisterâs family lost a baby, Annie wrote it for her nephew, Sam, to help him understand where his baby brother, TJ, had gone. What began as a heartfelt story for one child became a beautiful illustrated book that offers comfort to many.
Annie wrote the book her family needed at the time but couldnât find â a visual story that kids can connect to, pointing them to heaven, while acknowledging the deep sorrow they feel here on earth. Our conversation was hopeful yet honest, embracing the tension of holding both joy and suffering at once. We found comfort in the truth that âthere is good news even in sad stories.â
We also discussed singleness in the church, a topic Annie is passionate about through her work in the Single Purpose League as well as within her own personal life. She instilled wisdom on ways to bridge the gap between single people and married couples within the church, emphasizing the pressing need for increased communication across the board. While acknowledging the churchâs shortcomings in embracing and empowering single people, Annie continually returns to grace.
It was an absolute joy to have Annie F. Downs on the show â and we have a feeling this wonât be our last conversation!
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Where Did TJ Go? (Released February 18, 2025)
Pastoring Singles: A Free Resource for Church Leadership
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Scripture Mentioned: Romans 5:3-5, 1 Peter 1:6, Hebrews 11:6 + Hebrews 11:1
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This week on the podcast, all four of us (Brook, Elizabeth, Phil and Diane) sat down to respond to some questions centered on avoiding bitterness in your marriage while dealing with sickness and the unique challenges of parenting neurodiverse children alongside neurotypical children.
We discussed the reality of living out the marriage vow, âin sickness and in health,â and how it requires a deep loyalty to one another, a shared sense of suffering and oneness, and a desperate dependence on God. We addressed how to avoid bitterness towards your spouse suffering from sickness, which demands honesty about the situation, acceptance that this is your reality, and understanding that faith is not a âfix-itâ system.
We also responded to two related questions about parenting children with neurodiversity â 1) How do you parent both neurodiverse and neurotypical children in a way that is God-honoring and full of compassion, grace and truth towards each individual child and their needs? And 2) How do you work through disagreements and differences with your spouse in how you parent neurodiverse children? Drawing from our own experiences happening in real time, we talked about our unrelenting reliance on God, our larger family system, our community, and each other â as well as many other helpful strategies, such as getting on the same page AND staying on the same page.
This episode is packed with scripture references, personal examples, and lots of light and hope â even amidst some heavy, complex questions.
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Hebrews 12:15, Matthew 5:3, Genesis 2:24, Lamentations 3:1, Romans 12:15, Romans 8:22, and Philippians 2
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This week on the podcast, we welcomed back Ruth Chou Simons â author, artist, podcaster, and mom of six(!) boys â for an inspiring conversation about nurturing relationships with our kids.
Ruth shared her wisdom on fighting for connection, especially during the teenage years, emphasizing the importance of leading with vulnerability. We explored the idea of viewing parenting as a journey rather than a destination, the importance of feeling empowered in our role as parents, the art of consistently pursuing our kids at every stage, and so much more.
We also discussed Ruthâs beautiful new childrenâs book, Home Is Right Where You Are, inspired by Psalm 23. Ruth shared how a personal, unexpected challenge solidified the very message of her book â that God, as our Shepherd, calls us to abide in Him. This truth has transformed how she entrusts her kids to His care, realizing that home isnât a place but a posture of resting in Godâs presence.
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In this episode, we take a heartfelt and insightful dive into the unique challenges and profound joys of parenting neurodivergent children. We acknowledge the emotional, spiritual, and practical complexities that come with raising children who experience the world differently, while also embracing the beauty and growth that can emerge from these experiences. Throughout our discussion, we explore how faith plays a vital role in navigating the uncertainties and trials that parents often face, offering a source of strength and hope amid moments of grief and self-doubt.
Parenting children with special needs demands an extraordinary level of humility, adaptability, and grace. It requires a willingness to learn, unlearn, and continuously evolve as both a caregiver and an advocate. In this episode, we address some deeply personal and thought-provoking questions from our listenersâquestions about how to cultivate a spirit of gratitude even in the midst of struggle, how to deepen trust in God during challenging times, and how to effectively communicate with family, friends, and the broader community to foster understanding and support. Whether you are a parent, a loved one, or simply someone looking to better understand the experiences of neurodivergent families, we invite you to join us in this enriching conversation. Enjoy!
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Romans (I will boast in my weaknessâŠ)
Joshua 1
Psalm 26
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Today on the show, Brook+Elizabeth and Phil+Diane answer your marriage-related questions, offering practical strategies and heartfelt wisdom for navigating the challenges and celebrations of married life. They tackle everything from difficult in-law dynamics and moments of overstimulation to prioritizing your spouse during the busiest or most exhausting seasons. With a focus on communication, respect, and prayer, this discussion is packed with advice, encouragement, laughter, and essential tools to help you build a stronger, more resilient relationship. Donât miss it!
Scripture Mentioned:
1 Peter 3
Psalm 34
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