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One of the most common frustrations I hear from women: âWhy do I have to lead this?â
If your marriage is struggling and youâre the one noticing the disconnect, it can feel unfair to also be the one doing the emotional heavy lifting.
But someone has to take the leadâand that someone might need to be you.
"If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem."
Iâm sharing five clear reasons why leadership in your relationship is an act of self-respect, not self-sacrifice.
Whether your partner is unaware, in denial, or just ill-equipped to lead, this episode is a powerful call to step into your agency, not just for your marriage - but for your own peace of mind.
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Have you ever wondered why the spark seems to fade over time?
Desire doesnât disappear because somethingâs wrong. It fades because everything is the same.
I explain the science behind why familiarity suppresses desire and how we mistakenly attribute pleasure to the person (like a number three) rather than the physiological reaction in our own body.
I also share what we can do to bring desire back in a long-term relationship⊠without waiting on our partner to figure it out.
Desire isnât magic. But with a little effort and intention, it can be reawakened.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âItâs not always about whatâs missing in the marriageâitâs sometimes about whatâs missing in the person.â
In this deeply insightful episode of The Loving Truth, a listener asks why her husband betrayed her despite what seemed like a happy marriage.
I explore why infidelity happens even in relationships that appear strong on the outside, uncover the emotional complexities, subconscious fears, and unspoken desires that often go unnoticed.
Iâll help you begin to understand what happenedâand more importantly, ask yourself what healing could look like from here.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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In this episode of Ask Sharon, Iâm sharing real questions from women inside my membership program and the unfiltered coaching that followed.
We talk candidly about the overuse of labels like "narcissist," what it's really like to be married to someone on the spectrum, and how to communicate with partners who default to defensiveness.
Whether you're feeling stuck in diagnosis-mode, trying to be understood, or wrestling with someone who simply refuses to change, this conversation is about breaking the cycle, reclaiming your voice, and realizingâyou already know more than you think.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. Weâll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if thereâs a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.
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What does it mean to âquietly quitâ your marriage? What are the implications of grieving a relationship without having the hard conversation(s) first? And why do we do it?
In this episode, Iâll explain âThe Quiet Quitâ as it pertains to long-term relationships.
Iâll define the hard conversation(s) necessary for a marriage on the rocksâand the reasons we avoid themIâll explain âThe Quiet Quitâ and why we do itIâll detail the reasons we need to address this problem a.s.a.p. (before it gets harder to solve)âThe Quiet Quitâ is the precursor to the end of a marriage: This is often what happens 1-2 years before a typical divorce.
So pay attention to this episode! Itâs an important one.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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Real questions, real coaching, and real breakthroughs.
In this episode of Ask Sharon, I invite you inside my membership program for a deep-dive into transformational relationship coaching that happened on a previously recorded live coaching call.
In this episode, one of my members details all the fear thatâs coming up as she prepares to tell her husband that sheâs ready for divorce. I walk her through her next move one step at a time, and we begin to list some positive intentions for the outcome of this hard conversation⊠and beyond.
*Audio shared with permission.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âMy spouse is not going to allow for a peaceful divorceâno matter how much I want that.â
Karen McMahon joins me for this special episode of the podcast to answer an important question: âHow do I navigate divorce with a high-conflict partner?â
Karen is the Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce and the Host of The Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast. She has 14+ years of coaching experience guiding 650+ clients through the legal and emotional battles of high-conflict divorce.
In this episode, Karen shares her personal story of high-conflict marriage, divorce, and co-parenting through it all to help you navigate your own struggle.
Listen in to our conversation about how to prepare for an UNpeaceful divorce (even if youâre trying for peace). We also talk about how even one peaceful person can break generational dysfunction and the oft-overlooked impact of divorce on our adult children (and our relationships with them).a
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âHow do I know if Iâm staying for the wrong reasons?â
This episode gives you an exclusive peek inside my membership program and a real-life coaching session with a client who says, âI love him, and weâre incredible roomates⊠but how can we possibly reconnect with all this resentment between us? How do I know if Iâm staying for the wrong reasons?â
The thing about resentments is: We carry them with us (whether we decide to stay or leave).
So weâll start by dissecting the very significant resentments this client shares, and then weâll move into questioning whether her marriage is âworthâ fighting for⊠or not.
Iâll also explain -
How to reconnect as partners (not parents) How to ensure one or both of you tends to the marriage regularlyHow to move past resentment⊠whether itâs for the âwrongâ reasons or not*Audio shared with permission.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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When itâs time to have a difficult conversation with your partner (or frankly, with anyone you love) you canât just âwingâ it. There must be conscious intentionality behind your words and your actions.
In this episode, Iâll give you 4 important reasons why you might need to have a difficult conversation, plus the most common reasons these conversations fail and whatâs required for them to succeed.
Iâll also share an example of a difficult conversation I had with my familyâbecause itâs simpler than you might think.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âI donât want to let go of something thatâs so important to me. But itâs not working anymore.â
This is an emotional episode (because this is an emotional topic). Welcome to a recorded coaching session* with one of the members inside The Decision.
This client has been married to her partner for more than a decade. They have two children together. Right now, theyâre struggling with a circular argument that envelops deep criticism and hurt feelings.
In this coaching session, we explore some very important questions as she grapples with her decision to stay or leave:
What if weâre too different? How to work with your partner who has a completely different perspective from youHave we tried enough? How to create a practice to identify your intuition and inner wisdomHave you shown him your fear? How to soften into vulnerability when youâre hurtingListen in for an emotional conversation with a client whoâs ready to make a change.
*Shared with permission.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âI thought if I could just fix myself⊠my marriage problems would resolve.â
âRachel HollisOn the podcast this week, we have a very special guest⊠Welcome RACHEL HOLLIS to The Loving Truth podcast!
Rachel is a two-time #1 New York Times bestselling author whose work has impacted millions of people worldwide. You probably know her from her wildly popular books: Girl, Wash Your Face and Girl, Stop Apologizing.
In this episode of the podcast, Rachel and I have a conversation about intuition, fear, marriage, and divorce.
Rachel explains how sheâs slowly learned to listen to her gut instincts and how she digests her biggest fears through writing. She also tells the relatable story of her first panic attack and how sheâs re-learning to communicate with her now-husband.
It wouldnât be a conversation with Rachel Hollis if she didnât also drop some wisdom, so youâll hear her advice on -
How to ask better questions to reconnect with your intuitionThe difference between what we âneedâ and what we âwantâAnd the powerful mindset shift to identify your real v. perceived fearRachelâs new book What If YOU Are The Answer? is filled with insightful questions to ask as you learn to trust yourself again⊠and she shares a few of those right here on The Loving Truth!
â[My divorce] was so much worse than I could have imagined⊠and I would do it again.â
âRachel HolisStruggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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âEverything in life changes. Sometimes you grow together. Sometimes you grow apart. This is the nature of life.â â Sharon Pope on The Loving Truth podcast
Take a sneak peek into what happens inside my membership program in this special episode of The Loving Truth podcast.
Youâll hear a real-life coaching session with one of my clients who asks -
Will my kids think Iâve tried hard enough to save my marriage? How long do I have to try before I can move on? What happens if he makes the changes⊠and I still donât want to stay?Together we walk through some key answers to these questions (and more!) as she considers her decision to stay and fix her marriage⊠or leave without regret.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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Soooo many women ask me this question: Can I really be married⊠and free?
By now you know what I think about this: Freedom is a requirement for a happy, healthy, loving marriage! But I know itâs not so simple when you feel trapped by your relationship and imprisoned by your commitment to another person.
In this episode, I want to challenge what you believe about relationshipsâand the ways you develop trust, deepen love, and (re)commit to each other.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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They were living like roommates. Then she had an affair. Is this marriage salvageable? (Does she want it to be?)
In this episode of Ask Sharon, Iâm taking you inside my membership program with a real-live conversation with my client, Elsa*.
We talk about -
How to ask the ârightâ questions to make better decisionsThe difference between money problems⊠and dramaWhat to do if youâre financially dependent on your marriageYouâll also hear an embarrassing secret from me and the first lesson I learned from Martha Beck.
If you feel stuck trying to make the âimpossibleâ decision to leave your marriage or stay⊠this episode might illuminate the problem.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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This falls into the category of âThings I Wish Someone Had Told Meâ (before I got married!) If youâve reached midlife and youâre married or divorced: You probably didnât think about any of this either.
Itâs easy to âloseâ yourself within your relationshipâespecially if youâre a woman. But it doesnât have to be like this! (In fact, it shouldnât be like this.)
In this episode, Iâll give you the remedy to (re)balance âyou timeâ within your marriageâeven if you have a busy family life. Iâll take-on some well-worn marriage advice I disagree with and explain how women (even mothers!) can prioritize themselves and their desires⊠for the health of the marriage and the family.
âDe-prioritizing yourself does not serve your relationshipâor the people youâre trying to prioritize.â
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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Too many women find themselves overfunctioning in relationshipsâparticularly in midlife.
Youâre doing the heavy lifting of the emotional and mental load for your entire household: The logistics of family activities, the caretaking for your kids and spouse⊠all of it.
But while youâre busy meeting everyone elseâs needs, youâre also abandoning your own.
In todayâs episode, Iâll share 3 powerful coaching insights to help you:
Understand how overfunctioning creates imbalance in your relationshipRecognize the emotional cost of putting yourself lastRebuild self-trust by honoring your commitments to youThis episode combines real coaching clips from past episodesâplus conversations from within my membership programâto show you what it looks like to stop quitting on yourself and start showing up differently.
If youâve ever said, âIâm just so tired of doing it all!â this episode is for you.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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Thereâs one key similarity with all the couples I see in unhappy marriagesâŠ
In this episode, Iâll share the #1 reason people remain dissatisfied and stuck in these relationships, plus the real price you have to pay to build a healthy marriage.
âTemporary discomfort is the price of freedom.â - Dr. Joe Dispenza
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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Building a healthy marriage is not rocket science⊠so why donât we do it better?
Todayâs episode is dedicated to the men in our lives: These are the ingredients for a good, healthy marriage!
Iâll talk about what it means to pay attention to your partner, how to avoid driving your marriage into a ditch, and how to course-correct when things arenât working well in your relationship.
Listen in for a light-hearted deep dive into what makes a relationship last.
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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What will make your marriage feel âgoodâ again⊠beyond comfortable companionship?
Women are often MORE unhappy in marriage than men. In this episode, Iâll give you 3 reasons why. Iâll talk about the different expectations we have, how men and women define âsuccessâ in life, and why marriage has always been a better deal for men than women.
This episode is especially for you if your marriage is âgood enoughâ but you want more!
Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and youâre serious about finding that answer?
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You know the ârightâ thing to do. You know the âlogicalâ decision. So why is it so hard to end your affair relationship?
In this episode, Iâll give you 5 reasons why youâre struggling to end an affairâand Iâll start with a hint⊠youâre not making this decision with logic! Thatâs not how you started the affair, and itâs not how youâre trying to end it.
Listen in for another âloving truthâ about this deeply profound and important moment in any relationship thatâs experienced an affair (on either side).
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