Afleveringen
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As I am fond of reminding people, I've been a NCP for 15 years...and I fought my fearless co-parent for 14 of them. I fought to see my son. I fought to get missed visitation made up. I fought to be the person TheEx called when he needed a babysitter. I fought to be included in every minute of my son's life. I fought for TheEx to parent the way I thought our son should be parented. I fought for all the things I thought I should have as a NCP.
...and then I stopped fighting. I learned to value what was most important: the person - the child - I so desperately wanted to be important to. The child I so desperately wanted to have a relationship with.
I didn't give up. I didn't decide to follow the legal stuff about keeping my head held high. I decided to enjoy my brilliant kid, and to stop being so hard on myself.
This episode, we talk about that...
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The current COVID-19 crisis has caused a lot of contention in the co-parenting community. Visitation is being denied in some cases. Parents are arguing in others. Missed visits are not being made up, or the residential parent is not agreeing to allow them to be made up when the crisis lifts. Many of us, including myself, are separated from our kids and don't know when we'll see them again. Before you call your divorce attorney, listen to my direct from the trenches experience. As always, if you need to vent, cry, rant, or rave, you know where to find me on Twitter: @cristinamr68
#divorce #custody #non-custodial parent #non-custodial Mom #non-custodial dad
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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Kids have emergencies. Kids get hurt. Kids get discouraged. Kids go to the E/R. Kids .. well they're mini-humans. They have all the same stuff adults have. When you're a long distance or local custodian more than 45 minutes away, you can't always get there when emergencies happen. First of all: don't feel guilty about that. YOU are human. This week, I talk about ways to be there for your kids when emergencies happen and you can't be there in person. As always, feel free to reach out with your feedback, comments, suggestions for future episodes, etc.: [email protected]; @cristinamr68 (Twitter); www.themotherrogue.com.
Happy Listening.You are all GREAT parents!!!!
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We’re human, we’re parents. We make mistakes, including canceling plans last minute. Like I did recently. Let’s talk about that.
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This week I talk about that ultra wild and super crazy non-custodial parent life. NOT! Well, I do talk about NCP life... and how others perceive it...often inaccurately.
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Today I have officially been a long distance parent for 10 years. My son was 8 when I moved to Boston for work. Here’s how I stayed connected in the very beginning.
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Hello Mother and Father Rogues!
I am back from Holiday Break. I took some time to breathe, read, and reorder my life. Oh yes! I also spent time with my Leading Man #1. Anywhoo, break's over. This week's episode of The Mother Rogue is a reminder that it's important to live in the empty spaces we are not parenting, and a suggestion on how. Happy listening! As always, feel free to send me your feedback, topic suggestions, or if you just want to commiserate about missing your son or daughter. [email protected] #noncustodialmom #noncustodialdad #noncustodialparent #divorce #custody
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In this episode, I breathe through the nagging feeling I have has since last Wednesday that I should be in NJ with my son... like, that actual moment last Wednesday. Tips for how you can breathe through those same moments, and more ways to stay connected to your kid when you’re apart.
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Tips for sharing the holidays with your kids, even when you aren’t with them.
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It’s always best NOT to communicate with a co-parent via text. Here’s a frank discussion of why.
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It’s always so hard to drop our kids off with their residential parent at the end of our time with them. It hurts. Maybe, though, we should be happy for that time and try not to let the pain of separation mar the memories of that all too brief visit.
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Long distance parents spend a lot of time diving to and from seeing their kids. Here are some suggestions for making the most of those hours behind the wheel.
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Thinking today of all the ways non-custodial moms are still actively involved in their kids lives moms. Fun fact: you can be a helicopter parent from several hundred miles away. Just ask my son’s teachers. 😊
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What to do when your fearless co-parent and ex doesn’t ask you before providing information about you to someone who cares for your child... Or gives wrong or out of date information about you. Ah the joys of being or having an ex!
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