Afleveringen
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Sharing real life stories. Something big has happened.
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Meaning; do you show up in this world, making it all about you, or are you interested in getting to know others? Share stories, add value. When you have a problem, other people might have that same problem. So, when you find that solution, share this with others. Just share your personal story. It’s that easy!
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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The people at the top are way too busy collaborating. Sharing some real life stories and all the things social media and life.
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Quid pro quo
an agreement between two or more parties in which there is a reciprocal exchange of goods or services.
Are you in a position, to ask for favors?
Strangers are supporting me more than my own “friends”
This podcast is going to be tough love.
Don’t take it personal, but if the shoe fits?!🤪
Listen, we are all guilty of it.
Before we started selling a product or service, we were all assholes!
Yes u2!!!
But now when we need support we get loud and ask favors here and there.
This WILL ruffle feathers!
Why u ask???
Because, what have you done for them?
Think about this long and hard.
You treat people how you want to be treated!!!
Good people attract good people.
The more you give, the more you receive
The louder u r, the more you stand out!!
That’s just reality!
7 tips to build confidence:
1. Surround yourself with confident people, who build u up.
2. Take a public speaking course or join toast masters.
3. Check tasks of your to-do list. (Aka be productive) action creates confidence.
4. Work out! (Excellent confidence booster!) no one has ever regretted a work out)
5. Choose your people wisely!! You are, like the 5 people you surround yourself with.
6. Do something scary every day! (Magic happened right outside of your comfort zone)
7. Give back!!!! (the more you help others, the more you will be helped yourself).
Btw when u introduce yourself, dumb it down!
Break it down, toddler style!
Keep it to the point.
People have a very short attention span.
And make sure to protect your energy!
Pick and choose wisely, who gets your attention.
What works for me, is that I schedule my mornings very quietly.
I read, I listen to podcasts, I meditate, I work out, I work on myself, before I start opening up to others.
Protect your energy.
And don’t expect to get back immediately.
Plant the seed and just keep giving, keep watering.
Make sure you follow up and make sure you ask!!
And make sure you set 1 day per week that you reach out to your friends and ask about them.
What can you do for them etc -
Sharing some real life examples of when I forced things and when I just went with the flow. Instagram has skyrocketed for me lately because I’m in a healthy flow. Of course you gotta show up, but the more natural and real you show up, the more genuine relationships you will build. Let’s chat!
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Let’s start with what it’s NOT
It’s not a flashy website
Logos
Fonts
YouTube
Colors
Podcast
Social media
This is where you get stuck
It’s simply reputation!
What do people think of when they think of you?
What problems can you solve?
What are you a trusted resource on?
Let’s amplify all this!
It’s all about marketing!
It’s all about trust
We trust people who we see a lot.
We trust people who keep showing up.
We trust people who are consistent.
We trust people who we know personal details of.
Social media gives you a tool, on this platform you can share all about YOU!
Any attention is good attention.
You will attract YOUR tribe!
You will repel the people who are not for you.
On your feed you should share what you do.
In your stories you should share what makes you YOU. (Who are you?)
Follow The 3 E’s
Be really entertaining or
Be really encouraging or
Be really educational.
What people do wrong on social media
Being distracted.
If you have diluted focus
You will get diluted results
And don’t get blindsided by multiple streams of income.
Nobody who got rich, got rich from multiple streams of income!
Everybody who got rich, got rich from one amazing stream of income.
They had one thing that worked really well for them.
On one platform.
Talk about one thing, on one platform.
And become a master.
The first step to finding your personal brand is..
What problem can you solve?
People spend money on solving problems
If your water heater goes out, you find the money.
If you have a flat tire, you find the money.
If your kid is sick, you find the money to get him better.
We find the money to solve problems.
People don’t pay for information.
They can get that for free online.
People pay for organization
People pay for application.
People need help with applying.
Serve the person you once were.
Like helping your younger self.
What obstacle have you overcome?
We all have fears.
If you want to grow you have to stretch yourself.
If you feel fear, this is because you are self centered.
There is no fear, once the mission to serve becomes clear.
For example if you see a bad car accident and you happen to be the first one on the scene, when u walk over to help, you don’t think, does my hair look good? Does my breath stink, do these pants make my butt look big?
You are going to help someone, you are going to serve someone.
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Chatting with you bestie style! All the trendy things! All about what’s current right now! Thank you for always listening! Come say hi!🙋♀️
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We all have a mean girl inside us. Make sure to be above that voice. Don’t assume. Communicate! And be TRANSPARENT!! Gosh you can eliminate so many confrontations if you only speak up! Use your voice. Come from a good place. Never forget that we all have a story and we all have insecurities. We usually only lash out to the people closest to us.
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Sharing a life changing habit and some secrets with you. Life is all about sharing what works for you and meeting and making like minded new friends. This is how you repel the wrong people and attract the right people.
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Any relationship works both ways. You gotta give a lot, before you will receive. You gotta be a good human. Swallow your ego. Know when to listen. Know when to apologize. We all need each other. Team work makes the dream work. Alone you can create ripples, but together you can make waves!
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If you want something the best way to get it is to give it.
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What we focus on will magnify and we have to choose our focus wisely. Believe haters are just confused supporters.Hate has caused a lot of problems in the world but has not solved one yet
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Sharing all the biz adventures, travels, and fun facts. Aiming to inspire, entertain, educate and just have fun with you!
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The greatest risk any of us will take is to be seen as who we truly are
Knowing when to let go of a dream is as important as knowing when to follow one
Life is what happens to you while you're making other plans
Go with your gut instead of going with what the experts tell you to do
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New collabs, fashion, boutique hotels, European cars, travel, death, books, diamonds, story telling and all the things relatable.
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Story time from Holland. Whatever you do in life, you will only be successful if you stay true to yourself. There is only one YOU! If you want to stand out, be proud! Be you! Be humble at times, when called for. Just share the nitty gritty. I’m not saying TMI but just be honest. That’s all it takes! Now get out there and share your honest real story! We all got a story!
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Catching up with you, about all the things. Going to Amsterdam and about the new partnership and boutique life and of course the surprise!
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Tricking people is for amateurs! Find a solution
As you get better it gets easier
If you want to be successful in life you gotta help others. You are not selling services and/or products, you are selling certainty. Believe in yourself. Confidence is sexy. As a woman…
We have to always be extraordinary.
But somehow we are always doing it wrong.
You have to be thin, but not too thin.
You want to be thin, you have to say.
You want to be healthy.
But also you HAVE to be thin.
You have to have money.
But you can’t ASK for money.
Because that’s crass.
You HAVE to be a BOSS.
You HAVE to lead.
But you can’t squash other people’s ideas.
You’re supposed to love.
But don’t talk about your kids, all the damn time.
You have to be a career woman.
But also always be looking out, for other people.
You have to answer for men’s, bad behavior, which is insane!
But if you point that out, you are accused of complaining.
You are supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them.
Because you are supposed to be a part of the sisterhood.
But always stand out.
And always be grateful.
You have to never get old.
Never be rude.
Never show off.
Never be selfish.
Never fall down.
Never show fear.
Never get out of line.
It’s too hard! It’s too contradictory!
And nobody gives you a medal.
Or says thank you!
And it turns out in fact.
That not only are you doing everything wrong, but also, everything is your fault!
I’m just so tired of watching myself, and every other woman, be so hard on herself, so that people will like us. -
Be a story teller
You are the CEO of your life.
The learning comes from doing.
Learn from your mistakes.
Sales is serving
You are always going to be selling something, like a product, a service and/or yourself.
You are selling you and your confidence
Are you motivated by money?
If you have a hard time selling, this only means that you are not sold on yourself just yet.
You gotta ask yourself every day, who are you? What do you stand for?
And why should they buy from you?
You gotta sell yourself on yourself daily.
You gotta be a great story teller
Share your story
Why do your products work for you?
Ask yourself, what do you really want.
Live the life you are striving for.
Uplevel.
Most people are really great at complaining.
It’s a way people bond.
Like omg it’s cold!
Omg yesss right?!
U gotta share your failures
Keep getting back up
Share your fears
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Rejection is protection
Your focus goes where your attention is
When you pay you pay attention
ILT invest learn teach
Don't get bitter get better
Don't get frustrated get fascinated
Your own knowing is more powerful than anyone else's advice
Being willing to get knocked down and get back up again and fail and learn and grow is more powerful than waiting for someone to come into your life telling you what step to take next
Also when you're about to reach out to a mentor do your homework before you ask for their time if they have a book read it the mentor is the energy that's contagious to be around but the real work you can do mostly for free online by reading their writing or watching their videos or researching
When you have empathy and when you know the importance of adding value to others not just asking for them to add value to you your farm more likely to succeed in your pursuits
When we trust our guts and it's wrong it's never actually wrong it just result in an outcome we didn't want an a lesson we needed to learn
Once you learn to trust yourself and your own intuition you'll no longer feel like an impostor or like you need someone else's intuition to guide you
The world is very quick to criticize and find fault.
But much slower to praise, and find the positive.
We will all experience criticism in our lives.
Those who are lucky enough to be successful in life, will be criticized more often because people love pointing out mistakes.
Especially the people who have achieved less in life, and are scared to go after their dreams.
However people who criticize are only showing the lack of confidence within themselves.
A very real issue right now about all the filters online.
The lie: If I’m ME, I won’t be loved.
You either walk into your story and own your truth, or you live outside of your story, hustling for your worthiness.
Feeling true love and belonging, can’t be achieved by changing who you authentically are to try and get it.
Being authentic is so important.
Because it will give other women permission to do the same.
Nobody has a flawless face only over edited magazines.
One study shows that 25% of girls say they won’t post a picture without editing, and they take on average up to fourteen selfies, to find the “right” look. - Laat meer zien