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How We’re Surviving a Crazy Busy Season: Sabbath, Discipline & Obedience (Parents of 9)
Bruce and Kaila Payne introduce the Unshackled Love podcast, sharing that they are Metro Detroit teachers parenting nine children while building a family-focused ministry, producing podcasts and devotionals, remaking their website, and balancing seminary, multiple jobs, and parenting demands. In the midst of exhaustion and questioning whether the sacrifice is worth it, they describe becoming more disciplined with sleep, schedules, and priorities, and observing a weekly Sabbath for the first time, finding they are “getting more with less.”
They draw encouragement from Hebrews 6:15 about waiting patiently for God’s promises, emphasizing obedience even without visible results, and challenge listeners to use their gifts for God’s glory, resist distractions and “noise,” and trust God to sustain what He has called them to do, closing with a prayer for discipline, legacy, and generational blessing.
00:00 Welcome and Introductions
01:10 New Setup and Ministry Vision
01:43 Busy Season and Discipline
04:40 Learning to Keep Sabbath
06:15 Hebrews 6 Patience Promise
09:07 Encouragement Nuggets and Obedience
11:03 Your Gifts and Calling
14:29 Cutting Noise Staying Intentional
16:09 Closing Prayer and Amen
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🔥 This one’s for the family fighting to hold it together and the believer clinging to God’s promises. Welcome to “The Journey of Yet.”
In this heart-filled episode of Unshackled Love, Bruce and Kaila Payne dive deep into faith, parenting nine(!) kids, rebuilding after brokenness, and the power of "yet"- that sacred space between who we are and who God is calling us to be. From tantrums to Titus, prodigals to purpose, they share raw stories of redemption, obedience, and transformation through Christ.
🙌 Whether you’re in a dry season or on fire for the Lord, this is your reminder: God isn’t done with you yet.
💬 Reflect with us: What’s your “yet”? What part of your life is still under construction by God? Let us know in the comments.
🔗 Connect with us at LionsLove.Family or follow us @LionsLove.Family on Insta & TikTok for family ministry clips, encouragement, and real talk.
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In this episode of the Unshackled Love Podcast Kids Edition, Bruce and Kaila Payne introduce listeners to three of their youngest children, Truett-Mac, Harvest Grace, and Wooden. The conversation humorously addresses the challenges the kids have with wearing certain clothes, tying it into a lesson from Exodus 28 in the Bible. Despite their mischievous tendencies, these kiddos love Jesus and their giggles are contagious.
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila smashed 6 kids into their small office to ask them about who their Bible GOATs (Greatest of All Time) are and what they would like to ask them when they get to meet them in Heaven (even if it takes them hundreds of years of waiting in line to meet them. But who cares when you have eternity, right?!)
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After our serious conversation in the podcast, Bruce decided to lighten the mood with a little spontaneous Bible Trivia with the Teens. Listen in as Bruce puts them on the spot, asking them to sing songs, name the books of the Bible, and more. As we like to say, a little friendly competition is good for the soul. These few minutes together brought smiles and giggles, despite a sneaky wrong answer that slipped by unnoticed. Tune in and see if you can catch the mistake!
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In this special episode of the Unshackle Love Podcast, Bruce and Kaila Payne are joined by their daughters Zoe and Gabby, along with Gabby's boyfriend Gabe, to gain insight into their perspective on the climate of America today. The conversation covers the importance of their personal faith journeys, the role of parents in guiding their children's spiritual growth, and the moral and political state of America. These teens share personal stories and challenges, reflecting on how their faith has helped them navigate difficult times, the impact Charlie Kirk has had both before and after his death, while also reflecting on God's call for their lives. The episode emphasizes the necessity for parents to be actively involved in their children's lives and understand the cultural influences shaping their beliefs.
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila Payne discuss the emotional toll of a challenging week marked by the commemoration of 9/11 and the martyrdom of Charlie Kirk. They reflect on the importance of unity and servant leadership, inspired by Simon Sinek's book 'Leaders Eat Last.' The conversation extends to the broader disunity in America, attributing current societal issues to a spiritual battle. They emphasize the need for individuals and the nation to turn towards faith and Biblical principles, rather than politics, for true guidance. The episode concludes with a prayer for unity and healing in America.
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In this episode of the Unshackled Low Podcast, Bruce and Kaila Payne discuss the challenges and necessities of parental control as children grow into adulthood. They share personal stories and biblical insights, emphasizing the importance of gradually releasing control and allowing children to develop independence. They illustrate this with Bruce's decision to let his daughters spend quality time together without him, reflecting on the natural progression of children leaving their parents to form their own families, as designed by God. The episode also touches on the impact of play-based development and the need for parents to create a balance between guidance and freedom for their kids. Ultimately, they encourage parents to trust in God's plan and to embrace the transition, allowing their children the space to grow into resilient and independent adults.
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In this episode of the Unshackled Love podcast, Bruce and Kaila Payne share their journey as parents of nine children and how they manage the daily challenges of parenting. They discuss the importance of being firm, fair, and consistent in raising children, emphasizing the need to set boundaries and enforce consequences. The conversation covers practical tips, personal anecdotes, and biblical insights on disciplining children with love and guiding them towards becoming responsible adults. Join them as they reflect on insights from their own parenting experiences and offer encouragement to other parents navigating the ups and downs of raising kids.
Leave a comment sharing how you handle parenting challenges and the role faith plays in your journey!
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In this episode of the Unshackle Love Podcast, Bruce and Kaila Payne discuss the significance of intentional parenting through the concept of 'dating' your children, spouse, and God. They emphasize the importance of quality time, setting examples for respect and communication, and the spiritual connection that comes from dedicating time to God. The conversation highlights practical experiences and insights from their journey as parents of nine children, aiming to inspire listeners to foster deeper relationships within their families.
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In this episode of the Unshackled Love Podcast, Bruce and Kaila dive into the concept of FOMO, or the Fear of Missing Out. As parents of nine children, they explore how this modern anxiety affects both kids and adults, fueled by the endless options and social media highlights. Join them as they share personal stories, insights, and a faith-based perspective on finding contentment and purpose amidst life's many distractions. Tune in to discover how letting go of FOMO can lead to a more fulfilling and intentional life.
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We're back!
Our first episode in over two years, and there is a lot to talk about, but this episode focuses on Radical Obedience and the importance of following when God is guiding us to uncharted territory or asking us to make a change in our lives.
What change is God putting on your heart today in which you need to be Radically Obedient?
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In this episode, Bruce is reflecting on Fatherhood and what it means to him. He invites you to their dining room table as all NINE little Paynes join the conversation to reflect on their favorite family traditions and give some honest feedback to their dad about areas he can grow.
"As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him." (Psalms 103:13)"Endure suffering as discipline: God is dealing with you as sons. For what son is there that a father does not discipline?" (Hebrews 12:7)
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila address their children's many accomplishments and the drive for wanting to be the best by giving your best and, as parents, the importance of having expectations for effort.
“A slacker’s craving will kill him because his hands refuse to work.” (Proverbs 21:25 CSB)“There is profit in all hard work, but endless talk leads only to poverty.” (Proverbs 14:23 CSB)“Don’t you know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way to win the prize. Now everyone who competes exercises self-control in everything. They do it to receive a perishable crown, but we an imperishable crown.” (1 Corinthians 9:24-25 CSB)
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In this episode, to commemorate Mother's Day, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of the role of moms in a family, the impact their moms have made in their lives, and Kaila shares her purpose as a mom raising her children into adults.
“About this time, a man and woman from the tribe of Levi got married. The woman became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She saw that he was a special baby and kept him hidden for three months. But when she could no longer hide him, she got a basket made of papyrus reeds and waterproofed it with tar and pitch. She put the baby in the basket and laid it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile River.” Exodus 2:1-3 NLT““Sir, do you remember me?” Hannah asked. “I am the very woman who stood here several years ago praying to the Lord. I asked the Lord to give me this boy, and he has granted my request. Now I am giving him to the Lord, and he will belong to the Lord his whole life.” And they worshiped the Lord there.” 1 Samuel 1:26-28 NLT
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila answer some of their most frequently asked questions by others and give a little bit of insight into their lives as parents of nine and how they have had to adapt to meet the needs of their family.
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[01:45] What kind of car do you drive?
[04:09] Did you always want a lot of kids?
[07:59] When do you get "you" time?
[12:34] How do you do vacation?
[18:38] How do you cook/grocery shop?
[24:17] How do you manage everyone's schedules?
[29:06] Matthew 6 and closing prayer
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“So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today." Matthew 6:32-34Connect: www.growingpaynes.org
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the busyness of their schedule and open up about the vulnerability that comes from being busy and tired, when you feel like you’re running on fumes and have very little to give. Life can weigh you down, but it doesn't have to if you keep your eyes fixed on Jesus who rejuvenates our souls.
Episode 10: Q&A Form
[01:06] Intro: Busy Schedules
[04:32] Being Obedient when Tired
[06:48] Elijah at Mt. Carmel
[09:53] The Crash
[16:42] Refueling with Jesus
[21:00] Praying God's Word (Psalm 23)
[24:10] Episode 10 Preview
[26:15] Thank you & PrayerScripture Citations
1 Kings 181 Kings 19:1-13Psalms 23Connect: www.growingpaynes.org
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about how they have shifted their perspective on parenting to reflect God’s love for sinners as they raise children who are being tempted by the devil and the cravings of the world. They talk about the importance of keeping your own spiritual walk strong, how to show God’s love and grace through patience and understanding, while making sure that we are being a living example of what it means to have a relationship with Jesus.
[01:45] Parenting through the ages
[03:42] Perception Change
[10:20] Dead to Sin
[15:30] Craving God vs the world
[20:00] Be Intentional
[23:13] Connect and Pray
“Once you were dead because of your disobedience and your many sins. You used to live in sin, just like the rest of the world, obeying the devil–the commander of the powers in the unseen world. He is the spirit at work in the hearts of those who refuse to oven God. All of us used to live that way, following the passionate desires and inclinations of our sinful nature. By our very nature we were subject to God’s anger, just like everyone else. But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, He gave us life when He raised Christ from the dead. (It is only God’s grace that you have been saved!) -Ephesians 2:1-5 NLT“For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and prine in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.” -1 John 2:16-17 NLT“Now all glory to God, who is able to keep you from falling away and will bring you with great joy into His glorious presence without a single fault. All glory to Him who alone is God, our SAvior through Jesus Christ our Lord. All glory, majesty, power, and authority are His before all time, and in the present, and beyond all time! Amen.” -Jude 1:24-25 NLT
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila are joined by their 16 year old daughter, Zoe, to talk about how people use their words, including cursing and putting others down, but how God wants us to use words to build up others, share our testimony, and give life to those around us.
“People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!” (James 3:7-10)“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23)“A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” (Luke 6:45)“The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.” (Proverbs 18:21)
[01:27] Intro to Topic
[03:24] Meet Zoe & talk about cursing
[07:55] Accountability
[15:14] "Shut your mouth"
[21:00] Good vs Bad consequences
[22:43] Zoe's Testimony
[26:55] Closing Prayer
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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of setting a personal growth plan so that we can reach our full potential as individuals, which allows us to pour into our children, helping them to grow into productive adults who value a growth mindset, create measurable goals, and value learning from mistakes.
[01:54] The Laws of Growth (John Maxwell)
[07:35] Planning ahead
[14:22] Step One: Reflection
[22:29] Step Two: Preparation
[27:12] Step Three: Action
[32:48] Good kids don’t just happen
[34:38] Connect with the Paynes
[36:35] Prayer
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