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If you’ve ever stared at a four-figure legal invoice and thought, “Where did my money go?” — this episode is for you.
In this episode, Catherine and Karen break down the true cost of divorce and share how to spot red flags, avoid wasteful spending, and build a lean, efficient legal team. You'll hear about real-life examples of inflated invoices, underused experts, and clients who got burned by not knowing what they signed up for.
From understanding the scope of your attorney's work to catching block billing and knowing when to pause and prepare, this episode arms you with the tools to keep your legal bills from taking over your financial future.
Why some clients burn through retainers before any progress is made
What “block billing” is — and why it’s a red flag
How to leverage paralegals and avoid being billed at attorney rates
The difference between full-service, collaborative, and limited-scope attorneys
When and if to hire a forensic accountant, CPA, or mortgage expert
The power of getting financially prepared before hiring anyone
What is your overall philosophy or style when handling divorce cases?
How do you typically structure your team and delegate tasks?
What are your hourly rates — and do they vary by who is doing the work?
Are flat-fee options available for specific services?
What is the retainer for my case and how is it applied?
Is the retainer a minimum fee or refundable?
Will I receive monthly billing statements?
How do you track and report time for tasks performed?
Will I be billed for internal meetings or staff conferences?
Can I request a cap on monthly fees or be notified when nearing budget limits?
How do you determine if a paralegal or associate should handle a task?
How do you document prep work, and can I review those notes?
Will I be billed for re-reviewing documents that have already been reviewed?
Are billing errors ever adjusted if I notice discrepancies?
How do you define the scope of work when hiring outside experts (like forensics)?
How can I best work with you to keep my costs down?
Batch your communications to avoid small, costly emails
Ask for work product if you’re billed for extensive review or prep
Consider limited-scope representation for specific legal tasks
Use financial professionals to prepare documents instead of high-priced attorneys
Pause your case if needed — getting financially organized may save thousands
"Every email you batch, every paralegal you leverage, and every line item you question is real money staying in your pocket — not evaporating into the billable hour."
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In this powerful episode of WeChat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach and certified mediator, to discuss what a real parenting plan should look like—and why the standard legal templates aren’t nearly enough.
Drawing from her personal experience and professional work with divorcing parents, Samantha shares why parenting plans must go beyond weekends and holidays. Together, they dives deep into how decisions about healthcare, education, extracurriculars, and even future expectations should be clarified upfront to avoid conflict—and costly legal battles—down the road.
Whether you're just starting your divorce journey or re-evaluating a current plan, this conversation reveals why a proactive, customized approach is key to protecting your children, your time, and your wallet.
Samantha Boss is a certified divorce mediator and high-conflict divorce coach who helps moms take back control of their lives and protect their children’s futures. Drawing from her personal experience with a contentious four-year divorce, she now empowers others to build effective parenting plans through coaching, education, and strategy.Learn more at samanthaboss.com.
Connect with Us:
Have a question or a topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at [email protected] Visit mydivorcesolution.com for expert guidance, financial clarity, and a supportive community throughout your divorce journey.
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Hosts: Catherine Shanahan, CDFA & Karen Chellew, Legal LiaisonPresented by: My Divorce Solution
You’ve done the work, your mediation date is approaching—and your spouse has barely provided more than a screenshot or two of their accounts. What now?
In this episode, Catherine and Karen take you behind the scenes of what happens when mediation is scheduled but the documents just aren’t there. They walk you through the common pitfalls, legal misconceptions, and high-stakes decisions that clients face in this scenario. Whether you're facing a controlling spouse, incomplete documentation, or pressure from professionals to move forward, this episode offers practical, empowering steps to protect your financial future.
Why negotiating in mediation without full disclosure is like “negotiating in the dark”
Why asking for documents is not aggression—it’s protection
Real-world scenarios and how professionals sometimes pressure clients to move forward prematurely
The MDS playbook for Pre-Mediation Triage
Your three critical options: Go, Pause, or Pivot
Tools attorneys and mediators can (and should) use to get the missing data
The real cost of moving forward without clarity—and how to avoid regret
We want to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] with your questions or topic suggestions.
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. Please consult your own professionals for guidance tailored to your unique situation.
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In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome financial powerhouse Laura Webb, founder of Webb Investment Services and an advocate for women’s financial empowerment. Together, they dive deep into the emotional and practical barriers that keep women from owning their financial lives — and how to overcome them. From personal money stories to professional lessons learned, this candid conversation is full of aha moments and actionable insights to help you shift from financial uncertainty to unstoppable confidence.
Whether you're married, divorced, or starting over, this episode will inspire you to take the next step toward financial autonomy.
Laura is a trailblazer in wealth management with over 30 years of experience and a passionate advocate for increasing the presence of women in financial services. Now in her “third act,” she’s helping lead the charge to recruit and support more women in the financial advisory profession through her work with the Women’s Leadership Alliance.
My Divorce Solution – Learn more about the Divorce Financial Portrait™
Women’s Leadership Alliance – Explore Laura’s advocacy work
Divorce Financial Portrait™ – Gain clarity, confidence, and control in your financial future
Have a question or topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at [email protected]
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Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
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In this episode of WeChat Divorce, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan unpack the themes from Time Magazine’s viral article, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce” by Ada Calhoun.
They explore the emotional and financial realities facing Gen X women navigating midlife questions, career shifts, and marriage fatigue. Drawing from personal experience and professional expertise, Karen and Catherine offer a grounded, supportive take on the “3 a.m. moment” many women face—and what it really means to want something more.
Highlights Include:
The emotional turning point that prompts many midlife divorces
How financial clarity can bring confidence before making big decisions
Why not all women who explore divorce are seeking to leave
The importance of knowing what you have before deciding what you want
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Catch this episode and more on We Chat Divorce—your go-to resource for navigating the financial and emotional side of divorce with confidence. Visit our website: mydivorcesolution.com
Have a question or an idea for a future topic? We want to hear from you!!
Email us: [email protected]
Special thanks to Ada Calhoun for sparking this important conversation through her powerful essay, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce,” published by time.
We encourage everyone to read the full piece: https://time.com/7216367/gen-x-women-midlife-divorce-essay
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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In this powerful episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Imago Relationship Therapist Colleen Kowal to explore the emotional complexities of marriage, divorce, and co-parenting. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional experience, Colleen shares how relationship dynamics can lead to disconnect—and more importantly, how intentional conversations, discernment, and closure can pave the way for healing and rediscovery.
Colleen explains the concept of Relational Contracts, the role of Discernment Therapy, and the importance of processing divorce in a way that minimizes harm—especially for children. Together, they discuss how financial imbalances, emotional triggers, and unfinished relationship dynamics often carry over into divorce and co-parenting if left unaddressed.
About the Guest: Colleen Kowal
Colleen is an Imago Relationship Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families navigating the complexities of relationships, divorce, and co-parenting. Her approach blends personal experience as a child of divorce and a divorced parent with professional expertise to help clients move from pain to purpose.
Learn more about Imago Relationship Therapy: https://www.hiltonheadislandcounseling.com/
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Catch this episode and more on We Chat Divorce—your go-to resource for navigating the financial and emotional side of divorce with confidence.
mydivorcesolution.com
Submit questions: [email protected]
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
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In this episode, Karen and Catherine discuss the financial impact of starting divorce from the courtroom versus the kitchen table — and why preparation is everything, especially in high-conflict and high net worth cases. They break down costly mistakes, emotional traps, and the importance of data-driven decisions over emotional reactions.
Mentioned in the Episode:
AMG National Trust article on financial planning in divorce - https://www.amgnational.com/navigating-the-complex-terrain-of-a-high-net-worth-divorce/
The Divorce Financial Portrait™ by My Divorce Solution - https://mydivorcesolution.com/
Have questions? Email us at [email protected] – we’d love to hear from you!
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
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In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine sit down with Shannon McGorry, a PCC-level ICF-accredited coach and founder of Love Strength and Grace. Shannon shares her personal divorce journey and how it led her to empower women through coaching. She helps women redefine their future—personally and professionally—by activating their Female Genius.
Key Takeaways:
🔹 The Power of the Pivot – Why shifting course isn’t failure, but an opportunity to create a stronger, more aligned future.
🔹 Leading with Head vs. Heart – How to recognize which drives your decisions and how to balance both.
🔹 Rewriting the Narrative – Moving from shoulds and expectations to I can and I choose.
🔹 Financial Confidence in Divorce – The link between thoughts, emotions, and actions in financial decision-making.
🔹 The One-Degree Pivot – Small, intentional shifts can lead to profound transformations.
Shannon breaks down how women can step into their financial and personal power, avoiding resentment, fear, and guilt. She also explains how coaching differs from therapy—helping women move forward rather than looking back.
If you’re feeling lost or unsure about the next chapter, this episode is for you!
🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward your empowered future.
WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! Send us your questions, comments or topics that you’d like to hear on the podcast, and we may discuss it on a future episode. Email us at [email protected]
🔗 Learn more about Shannon: LoveStrengthandGrace.com
📩 Contact Shannon: [email protected]
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Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine dive into a timely AARP article, "Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50." Together, they unpack the essential financial considerations and emotional conversations you should have before saying "I do" again—whether you're 50 or not.
Drawing from their personal experiences and professional expertise, they explore topics like:
✅ Exchanging financial information with your future spouse
✅ Navigating conversations about children, alimony, and financial expectations
✅ Reviewing estate plans, wills, and medical powers of attorney
✅ Understanding Social Security and survivor benefits
✅ The importance of prenups—and how to reframe them as planning for a healthy marriage
Key Takeaway:
Love is powerful—but protecting your financial future is essential. Open, honest conversations about money, expectations, and boundaries before remarrying can set the foundation for a healthier, stronger relationship.
Mentioned in this Episode:
AARP’s Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50
The value of prenups at any age
Why revisiting estate planning documents is critical
Social Security considerations when remarrying later in life
🎯 If you’re considering remarriage or blending families, this episode is for you.
Prepare with clarity, not clouded by emotion. And remember, when it comes to marriage and finances, knowledge is power.
👉 Have a topic you'd like us to explore? Email us at [email protected]
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
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In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Nicole Farhat, a Certified Divorce Coach and former My Divorce Solution (MDS) client. Nicole shares her personal journey through divorce and how MDS empowered her with financial clarity, saving her thousands in legal fees while securing a successful financial outcome.
From skepticism about her spouse’s participation to witnessing the transformative power of MDS’s Divorce Financial Portrait™, Nicole’s experience serves as a testament to the importance of financial preparation. She discusses the emotional and financial challenges of divorce, the unexpected cooperation of her spouse, and the valuable role of MDS in neutralizing conflict while securing financial fairness.
Now, as a divorce coach herself, Nicole helps others navigate divorce with confidence, advocating for education, preparation, and the right support system.
Key Takeaways:
Financial preparation is crucial. Understanding your marital assets before engaging attorneys can save thousands in legal fees.
Spouses often participate despite initial resistance. Many clients fear their spouse won’t cooperate, but MDS’s structured approach often leads to engagement.
MDS neutralizes emotional conflict. By focusing on facts and financial data, MDS facilitates productive conversations between spouses.
Nicole’s transformation. Through MDS, she gained confidence, a favorable financial settlement, and a new career helping others through divorce.
The power of assembling a support team. A strong support system, including financial experts and divorce coaches, can make all the difference.
Connect with Nicole
www.nicolejoliecoaching.com
https://www.instagram.com/nicolejoliecoachingllc/
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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Tax season comes around fast, and for those navigating divorce, tax decisions can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down the key considerations you need to keep in mind when filing your taxes before, during, or after divorce.
Key Takeaways:
✔️ Filing Status Matters – Understanding the differences between filing jointly, married filing separately, head of household, and single.
✔️ Accessing Tax Information – Why gathering tax documents early is crucial, especially if your spouse has handled finances.
✔️ Negotiating Tax Savings – How tax benefits can be part of your divorce settlement strategy.
✔️ Claiming Dependents – Why alternating years may not be the best financial choice.
✔️ Alimony & Tax Law Changes – Understanding the post-2019 rules on taxable and deductible alimony.
✔️ 401(k) Withdrawals & Hidden Tax Consequences – The impact of taking funds from retirement accounts.
Knowledge is power. Before making any tax-related decisions, consult with a qualified accountant to ensure you’re making the best financial choices for your future.
📩 Have questions? Email us at [email protected]
Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered legal or financial advice. Please consult a professional for personalized guidance.
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL’S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST.
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Divorce is a life-changing legal and financial process, but understanding your rights and financial landscape can make all the difference.
In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with top divorce attorney and award-winning author, Bree Sullivan Howell, Esq., to discuss financial clarity, courtroom strategies, and common pitfalls in divorce settlements.
Bree shares insights from her 20+ years as a family law attorney, along with personal experiences that shaped her mission to support divorcing individuals—especially Christian women navigating the complexities of divorce in faith-based communities.
Key Topics:
✅ The emotional and legal realities of divorce
✅ Why financial clarity is essential before negotiating assets
✅ Common mistakes in property division (and how to avoid them!)
✅ The two biggest pitfalls of dividing assets: Ownership & Obligation
✅ How alimony is determined and the misconceptions around financial need
✅ Hidden assets—where they may be lurking and how to uncover them
✅ Why an organized financial strategy strengthens your legal case
At My Divorce Solution, we believe knowledge is power in divorce. Our Divorce Financial Portrait™ prepares you organize financial data so you (and your attorney) can confidently navigate asset division and settlement negotiations.
Connect with Bree Sullivan Howell, Esq.:
Law firm website: https://www.sullivan-firm.com/
Crush Your Divorce Book: https://www.crushyourdivorce.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sullivanfirmllc/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawyerbree/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crushyourdivorce/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bree-sullivan-howell-esq-63b31325/
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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Divorce is already an emotionally charged and financially challenging process—but what happens when the industry itself makes things even harder?
In this episode, Karen and Catherine pull back the curtain on the divorce process, shedding light on inefficiencies, costly mistakes, and systemic issues that can leave individuals feeling powerless.
They discuss why so many divorcing individuals struggle to obtain basic financial information, how the legal system treats divorce like any other civil litigation (even when it shouldn’t), and the hidden financial toll of unnecessary subpoenas, repetitive document reviews, and mismanaged mediation. More importantly, they share how to protect yourself, gain financial clarity, and avoid the common pitfalls of the divorce system.
Key Takeaways:
The Divorce Process is Broken: Many divorcing individuals enter mediation, hearings, or negotiations at a disadvantage due to missing or inaccessible financial data.
Subpoena Shock: Subpoenas often fail to yield the necessary information, leading to wasted time and money.
Mediation Misconceptions: Mediation is often framed as amicable, but in reality, many individuals feel pressured to settle—even when crucial financial details remain unresolved.
Attorneys vs. Financial Experts: Attorneys play a critical role, but they are not financial experts. Many clients mistakenly expect financial guidance from their lawyers, only to realize too late that attorneys don’t provide that level of financial insight.
Taking Back Control: The MDS Financial Portrait™ is designed to equip individuals with financial clarity before they enter the legal system, reducing costly inefficiencies and empowering them to make informed decisions.
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
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Navigating co-parenting after divorce is challenging, especially when it comes to balancing custody, finances, and communication. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with attorney Nicole Kobis to discuss how to create a strong parenting plan that prioritizes the well-being of children while maintaining financial stability. Nicole brings her legal expertise in family law, mediation, and parenting coordination to provide practical insights on how to set clear expectations, avoid common pitfalls, and ensure a fair and enforceable parenting agreement.
Catherine and Karen share their personal experiences with parenting after divorce, highlighting the importance of having a solid plan in place—even when things seem amicable. From custody schedules to extracurricular expenses, we discuss how to manage evolving family dynamics while keeping children’s best interests at the forefront.
Resources & Links:
🔹 Learn more about Nicole’s firm: Lindabury, McCormick, Estabrook & Cooper
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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Divorce isn’t just about ending a relationship—it’s about reclaiming your financial future. In this episode, we explore how to navigate the emotional and financial challenges of divorce while setting yourself up for long-term independence.
What We Cover:
The importance of assessing your financial position before making any major decisions
How to understand and differentiate between assets & liabilities
Why having an investment strategy during divorce is crucial
The role of attorneys & financial professionals—and why you still need to take control
How to avoid wasting money in the legal process by defining your “everything”
Smart financial decisions to protect your future
Reframing divorce as an opportunity for a financial reset
💘 This Valentine’s season, let Cupid’s arrow point toward financial clarity and self-love. Taking charge of your finances is the best gift you can give yourself.
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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In this insightful episode, Karen and Catherine are joined by dating and relationship expert Bela Gandhi to explore the world of second chances in love and finances after divorce. Bela shares her expertise on how to approach dating with confidence, avoid common pitfalls, and prioritize emotional and financial well-being. Together, they discuss how to rebuild after divorce, recognize red flags in relationships, and navigate the financial implications of dating during and after divorce.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why second chances in love and finances are empowering after divorce.
Common red flags to watch for in new relationships.
The financial risks of dating during divorce and how to protect yourself.
How Smart Dating Academy’s “pink sparkly bubble wrap” approach supports clients through dating.
Why understanding your role in past relationships is key to finding a healthy partnership.
How to set healthy dating boundaries and protect your financial information.
Tips for safe and effective online dating.
How optimism and self-reflection pave the way for successful relationships.
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https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/
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The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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Show Title: Understanding Property Division: What’s Yours, Mine, and Ours?
Property division is one of the most complex and emotionally charged aspects of divorce. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine break down the process of dividing assets to help listeners gain clarity and confidence. They explore the differences between community property and equitable distribution states, explain marital versus separate property, and provide tips for managing high-value assets like businesses, stock options, and retirement accounts.
Whether you’re struggling to define "yours, mine, and ours" or aiming for a fair division of assets, this episode offers practical insights into achieving financial clarity during divorce.
Key Topics:
Community Property vs. Equitable Distribution States: How laws affect asset division and the role of “just and fair” principles.
Marital vs. Separate Property: Understanding the distinctions and how commingling can blur the lines.
Complex Assets: Tips for managing businesses, stock options, and retirement accounts with clarity and proper documentation.
Financial Preparation: Why being informed is critical before mediation or negotiations.
Real-Life Stories: How the MDS Divorce Financial Portrait™ empowers clients with organization and clarity.
Key Takeaways:
Clarity is Key: Understand the knowns, unknowns, and the impact of financial decisions.
Preparation Saves Time and Money: Being unprepared can lead to rushed and costly decisions.
Healthy Conversations Matter: Open financial discussions (even prenups) strengthen relationships.
Take Control: Tools like the Divorce Financial Portrait™ keep you organized and in charge.
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with mortgage advisor Zach Taylor to tackle a significant topic for divorcing couples—navigating mortgage decisions during and after a divorce. From buying out a spouse to managing a marital home or rental property, Zach shares essential mortgage strategies to help you make informed financial decisions during this challenging transition.
Episode Highlights
The Importance of Early Financial Planning
Zach emphasizes the value of reaching out to an experienced divorce mortgage advisor early in the process. Learn how a simple conversation can clarify your options for refinancing, mortgage assumptions, or buying a new home.
Key Tips for Mortgage Assumptions
Find out why timing and documentation are critical when exploring mortgage assumptions. Zach explains how to navigate the process with your loan servicer and what qualifications are necessary post-divorce.
Avoiding Costly Mistakes
Catherine and Karen discuss how the Divorce Financial Portrait™ helps clients evaluate their financial options, ensuring they don’t negotiate away critical assets without understanding the full impact on their future.
Maintaining Financial Clarity
Zach shares actionable tips for managing support payments, running credit reports, and addressing joint debts. Learn how these steps can streamline the mortgage process and prevent delays.
Customized Mortgage Scenarios
Zach provides insights into tailoring mortgage strategies to your unique circumstances, offering worksheets to explore different financing scenarios and their impact on your post-divorce budget.
Top Takeaways
Plan Ahead: Engage with a divorce mortgage advisor early to explore your options before making critical decisions.
Know Your Numbers: Understanding your post-divorce budget is crucial to determining whether you can afford to keep or refinance your home.
Document Everything: Get written confirmations for approvals and ensure all financial agreements are clear and enforceable.
Stay Consistent: Steady support payments are essential for mortgage qualification—avoid variances to prevent delays.
Leverage Resources: Use tools like the Divorce Financial Portrait™ to gain financial clarity and align your decisions with your long-term goals.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode
AnnualCreditReport.com: Access your free credit report to identify joint debts, authorized users, and any discrepancies.
Divorce Financial Portrait™: A comprehensive tool to prepare financially for your divorce journey. Learn more at My Divorce Solution.
Zach Taylor’s Website: Schedule a free 30-minute consultation with Zach to discuss your mortgage options.
Connect with Zach Taylor
Website: CrossCountry Mortgage
Social Media: Search "Zach Mortgage" for reviews, insights, and resources.
Phone: Zach is your go-to guy for direct conversations—reach out for personalized advice.
Listener Questions
Have questions about mortgages, divorce, or financial planning? Email us at [email protected]—we’d love to hear from you!
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In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen and Catherine discuss why having "The Money Talk" before separating is essential. They explain how premature financial decisions can harm future negotiations and why understanding your full financial picture is critical. This conversation aims to empower listeners to make informed decisions during divorce by fostering financial transparency and clarity.
Key Topics:
Defining The Money Talk:
It’s more than saying, "I want the house" or "I won’t touch your pension."
It’s about knowing and sharing verified financial documents, not just spreadsheets.
Avoid Premature Agreements:
Why early asset division conversations can be risky.
The importance of understanding tax consequences before agreeing to asset splits.
Transparency is Key:
Both parties need full access to financial information.
Being amicable means being open and honest about finances.
Legal vs. Financial Perspectives:
Courts handle property division differently than a net worth statement.
Setting informal financial agreements without documentation can create future conflict.
Managing Expenses:
Understanding and defending your expenses is critical.
Avoid making changes to your spending habits without proper documentation.
The Role of Professionals:
Attorneys, financial planners, and accountants need to work together.
My Divorce Solution offers tools to bridge gaps between legal and financial support.
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Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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Welcome to We Chat Divorce! In this episode, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan are joined by special guests Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of Jacobs Berger, LLC, a boutique divorce and family law firm in Morristown, New Jersey. Together, they discuss the four key things you should know before hiring a divorce attorney and how the legal process can better support divorcing families.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
The Importance of Practicality in Legal Representation – How tailored, client-focused approaches can reduce stress and improve outcomes.
The Value of a Strategic Partnership – Why it’s critical to work with an attorney who listens and collaborates to achieve your goals.
Understanding the Role of a Consultation Retainer – How consultation retainers provide ongoing guidance without requiring full litigation representation.
The Power of Collaboration with Other Professionals – From financial experts to mental health professionals, learn how integrating various specialists into your divorce process can create more sustainable and effective solutions.
Key Insights:
Every divorce is unique, and your legal strategy should reflect your specific needs and goals.
Rushing into decisions can lead to costly mistakes; taking time to prepare and get informed is crucial.
Having a lawyer who respects and values your input fosters better communication and outcomes.
Connect with Jamie and Sarah:
Website: jacobsberger.com
Facebook: @JacobsBergerLLC
Instagram: @JacobsBergerLLC
Contact Us: Send your questions and comments to [email protected]
Website: www.MyDivorceSolution.com
Facebook: @MyDivorceSolution
Instagram: @MyDivorceSolution
Disclaimer:
The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.
The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.
WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD.
Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew.
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