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By now, you’re probably proficient at spotting narcissistic behaviors in people and relationships you are involved with. You may notice gaslighting or maybe you haven’t been able to put a finger on exactly what seems to be off, but if you’re honest you know something isn’t right. Spotting narcissism and knowing someone is portraying narcissistic behaviors isn’t enough if you’re going to protect yourself.
Dr. Ramani Durvasula joins Lisa for round 2 to break down the rules of engagement. Understanding that some women are unable to get away from the narcissistic relationship they’ve been “stuck” in for years does not call for judgement. As Dr. Ramani clearly iterates, leaving these kinds of unhealthy relationships are never easy, and there is also no need for judgement.
SHOW NOTES:
Words Hurt | Why words hurt more than we like to admit and the damage being done [2:45]
No Leaving | Dr. Ramani explains why some people can’t leave and how they survive [7:25]
Don’t Defend | Why it’s not about being a doormat, it’s about not engaging in toxic routine [8:36]
Apology Cycle | Differentiating someone who is sorry or a repeat offender to shut down [14:21]
Narcissistic Parents | Why these kinds of parents are tricky and how to deal with them [15:55]
Happiness | Dr. Ramani discusses if true happiness is possible with a narcissist [22:05]
Staying In It | Dr. Ramani explains why people stay in narcissistic relationships [25:17]
Empathy | Dr. Ramani shares having empathy for narcissist in an empowering way [27:26]
Support | How to best aide people leaving narcissistic relationships that are scared [34:05]
Once You Know | Dr. Ramani’s advice on what to do and not do once you know [37:46]
Responding | How to get out of dodge when under verbal attack and hold the tears [44:29]
Good News | Dr. Ramani explains why you never share good news with narcissists [49:04]
Contempt | Looking for the contempt to identify narcissistic behaviors and not engage [51:45]
No One’s Exempt | Dr. Ramani shares how even she still falls for the pity trap [56:16]
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Mutual respect is a must for any successful relationship. Disrespect isn’t always obvious and can take on many forms. Your partner may leave you feeling resentful, wary, unseen and unheard, if so listen up!
The goal of this episode is to reveal the red flags you’ll want to pay attention to so that you can see what mutual healthy respect for each other looks like. Tom and Lisa Bilyeu have been together more than 20 years and have gone through all of the ups and downs and have experienced many trials and errors in learning how to have a long lasting relationship and beautiful life long shared experience together built on trust, respect, and open communication.
So, if you’re not sure that your partner is respecting you, or it feels like you are both disagreeing at a fundamental level with no agreement in sight, it’s time to take notes on what may save your relationship or help you decide if it’s time to go.
[ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 2022-07-10]
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Red Flags on Respect
0:40 | They Weaponize Your Insecurities
28:02 | They Don’t Work Through Conflict
1:04:05 | They Don’t Support Your Feelings
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Are you tired of feeling overlooked or underestimated? This episode is your ultimate guide to stepping into your power and commanding respect in every area of your life. Former Secret Service Agent Evy Pompouras reveals the secrets to staying composed under pressure, building resilience, and asserting authority with confidence. Meanwhile, Coach Stormy shares her no-nonsense strategies for setting boundaries, honoring yourself, and leading with respect and integrity. If you’re ready to stop playing small and start showing up as the badass you truly are, this episode is a must-listen.
In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Evy Pompouras, former Secret Service Agent and resilience expert, and Coach Stormy, a transformational leader and entrepreneur, to unpack what it takes to command respect, set boundaries, and own your power. From managing emotions under pressure to mastering self-respect, these incredible women share the mindset shifts and strategies you need to become unstoppable.
SHOWNOTES
[00:00:00] – Evy on mindset as the foundation of power and strength.
[00:01:22] – How tone and conviction establish authority in any situation.
[00:02:49] – Building resilience through adversity and healthy habits.
[00:05:27] – Identifying dangerous personas: Justification and self-righteousness.
[00:06:49] – The power of composure: Why silence and strategy are stronger than reacting.
[00:10:46] – Verbal economics: Choosing words with intention to communicate authority.
[00:13:02] – Priming and body language: How to influence others effectively.
[00:16:41] – Taking ownership of your outcomes without blaming others.
[00:21:19] – Lisa’s health journey: From blaming doctors to taking control of her healing.
[00:26:23] – How body language and situational awareness protect against being targeted.
[00:27:33] – Coach Stormy on living with respect, integrity, character, and honor (RICH).
[00:30:45] – Setting boundaries to maintain self-respect and build stronger relationships.
[00:34:49] – The power of deliberate communication: Asking questions to foster understanding.
[00:39:17] – How to design your character and take ownership of your growth.
[00:42:43] – Catching judgmental thoughts and turning them into self-awareness.
[00:46:54] – Honoring those who support you: The importance of gratitude and discipline.
[00:50:14] – Why integrity and character matter most when things get tough.
[00:57:11] – Coach Stormy on discipline and never quitting, no matter how hard it gets.
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We live with so many rules and ideas around diet that stem from effective marketing from food companies with one agenda, increase sales! The downside is that people have adopted these marketing messages as dietary facts. Eating processed grains for breakfast, 6 small meals a day, and avoiding fats are just a few examples.
Jessie Inchauspie is a biochemist better known as the Glucose Goddess on her Instagram and the international bestselling author of the book, Glucose Revolution. She is blowing our minds today in the crash course on all things glucose.
You want to get off the energy roller coaster, stop the monstrous carb cravings and rebalance your hormones, then grab a pen and take notes. Jessie has hacks that anyone can do and with minimal effort, you can start using these hacks to lower the glucose spikes your food causes without completely changing your diet. The best part is that weight loss is a symptom of fixing your glucose spikes.
Learn how to make food decisions for pleasure and enjoy the foods that you like guilt-free. You can be healthier and more balanced in energy mind and body with these simple hacks and knowledge that makes you unstoppable.
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SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Jessie Inchauspie
1:00 | Crash Masterclass on Glucose
4:00 | Signs of Too Much Glucose
7:00 | Reduce Sugar Spikes For Good
14:45 | Fruit Juice vs. Coke
22:30 | Get Rid of Bad Labels on Food
29:42 | Calories Are B.S. for Weight Loss
40:58 | Healthy Sugars & Sweeteners
44:49 | Use Your Muscles to Lower Glucose
48:18 | Becoming the Glucose Goddess
55:55 | If You Must Do Carbs, This Is Best
59:55 | Tips for Fasting & Eating Before Bed
1:03:48 | Following Diet Trends & Habits
1:09:02 | Glucose Isn’t The Full Picture
1:12:07 | The Magic of Vinegar
1:17:41 | What Your DNA Can’t Tell You
1:23:18 | Science of Artificial Sweeteners
1:26:31 | Hormone Connected Glucose Spikes
1:33:22 | Do You Really Want Wrinkles?
1:34:45 | White Or Brown Doesn’t Matter
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We’ve normalized PMS, bloating, and mood swings so much you can find jokes, stereotypes and commercial products everywhere to treat those symptoms and more. But is it really normal for women to have all of these symptoms?
Dr. Trevor Cate is the bestselling author of the book, Clean Skin from Within and she’s also the owner and founder of The Spa Dr, a natural skin care line. She’s chatting with Lisa to debunk all of the symptoms that have been normalized for women for far too long.
It’s time to start paying attention to the symptoms we have and stop passing them off as the way it is. Dr. Cate shares in her new book how waking up refreshed from a full night’s sleep without coffee first thing in the morning and having energy throughout the day is attainable.
We have to start recognizing these symptoms for what they really are, our bodies' way of getting our attention and letting us know something is off. Diet choices have more impact on our symptoms and our ability to alleviate them by treating the root causes than you know.
Great sex drive and normal appetite and live in balance
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SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction Dr. Trevor Cates
0:41 | Norm’s That Are NOT Normal
6:44 | Reset Your Diet in 7 Days
16:36 | Food Symptoms to Watch For
23:44 | Danger of Added Sweeteners
30:30 | Feeling Triggered by Food
34:01 | Don’t Dismiss Your Symptoms
39:27 | Hormone Disruptors You Don’t Expect
45:42 | What Is Leaky Skin?
49:36 | Symptom-Free Life Is Possible
51:43 | Tips for Thriving Sex Hormones
54:26 | Self-Correcting Sleep Habits
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Boundaries don’t push people away, they can actually make relationships closer. Anna Yusim says, “the stronger your boundaries, the closer you can get to somebody.” Have you ever stopped to think about boundaries in that way? I’m sure many of you, myself included, are guilty of thinking if we have stronger boundaries we’ll end up pushing people away. The fear we face of disappointing people or somehow offending them can easily keep us stuck in a space of not honoring ourselves.
This episode is for all the strong women (even if you don’t feel strong every day) that need a little more assurance that it’s not only okay to have boundaries, but it’s essential to the health of your relationships and critical for your own mental health. Start standing up for yourself (no one else can) and prioritize you, your needs, and what matters for you to flourish in the life you choose to live.
SHOW NOTES:
Tip #1 | Communicate Your Boundary [0:34]
Tip #2 | Set Boundaries with Those Close to You [5:34]
Tip #3 | Know Who’s In Your Corner [14:03]
Tip #4 | Get Clear on Your Priorities [18:30]
Tip #5 | Separate work from your personal life [22:20]
Tip #6 | Stand up for yourself [27:30]
Tip #7 | Decide if the boundary is worth breaking [32:15]
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Normally, people are twice as happy and find their lives much more meaningful when they are with their spouse. However, current quarantines may be causing stress for some couples. The sheer amount of time spent together is uncharted territory for many relationships.
On this episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and her husband Tom Bilyeu discuss the tactics, strategies and rules of engagement they have used to keep their relationship strong and growing for 19 years and counting. They discuss how to avoid letting the small things frustrate you, how to lift each other up, and how to hopefully find a way to make this surprise quarantine fun and empowering.
[Original air date: 4-1-20].
SHOW NOTES:
How do you avoid getting annoyed with each other over small things? [3:39]
How to view everything that happens as practice, and then make it fun [5:50]
Don’t tell me I’ve done something wrong after I’ve done it [9:06]
Why you have to take responsibility for yourself instead of matching negative energy [10:23]
It’s OK to match your partner’s righteous indignation, but not their anxiety [12:42]
Do not tell someone they are being irrational. Wait for emotional sobriety [16:31]
How do you make space for yourself in a situation that seems impossible? [17:37]
How do you deal with a partner who isn’t willing to do the work in a relationship? [21:26]
Lisa talks about writing her “quarantine script” in real time [23:38]
What would need to be true for this experience to be positive? [25:08]
Why you shouldn’t let “dust settle” [27:06] You have to know exactly why things are bothering you [28:38]
How to talk to someone who is agitated without getting them even more angry [31:55]
What is one thing couples can do right now to get stronger? [34:35]
Why you absolutely must take selfish time [37:13]
Tom and Lisa used to do relationship theory, which you can still find on YouTube [39:21]
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How often have you spent time with people you love only to feel frustrated and misunderstood? As humans we are all so complex in our network of feelings and emotions. Unfortunately, we’ve been raised thinking that negative emotions are bad and should be shunned. Many of us are barely holding it together, or are spiraling out of control because we don’t know how to handle the feelings that are leaving us totally overwhelmed.
Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and author joins me and breaks down why we don’t have to run away from those taboo feelings of envy and jealousy. She explains how to communicate better and hold space for your partner or children and allow them to just be heard. This episode is packed with so much you may have to listen a second time.
SHOW NOTES:
Unreliable Narrator | Why your perspective isn’t the full story, it’s a faulty narrative [0:19]
Unknow Yourself | Lori helping people unknow the stories they keep repeating [1:32]
Insight | Lori explains why insight without action is useless [3:58]
Idiot Compassion | Lori breaks down what this is and why it doesn’t help [5:05]
Relationship Filter | Lori’s questions for examining people around you [6:45]
Change | Lori on why change is difficult because of uncertainty and loss [8:17]
5 Steps | 5 stages of change to making a permanent change in your life [9:08]
Change Anxiety | Getting through unfamiliar territory & anxiety with change [12:39]
Choosing to Suffer | Lori on why we don’t choose pain but we choose to suffer [14:06]
Numb the Pain | Distracting yourself from pain feeling overwhelmed [15:34]
Feeling Compass | Lori on using feelings as a compass to know what you want [17:13]
Negative Feelings | Why the way you deal with negative feelings matters most [19:28]
Setting Intention | Lori on setting yourself up for a better day with confidence [22:55]
Transformation | Lori shares why tiny steps are so important in change [26:35]
Future Loss | Lori explains how change collapses the future & holds us back [32:18]
Unfinished Business | How cycles repeat when we don’t address past issues [35:30]
Selection | Lori confirms why selection is so important for healthy relationship [39:48]
Childhood Wounds | Lori on why you have to give up hope for better childhood [41:53]
Vulnerability | When someone opens up and how to navigate what they need [45:05 ]
Understand | Why people need to be understood and heard, ask what they need [47:21]
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Lisa Bilyeu sits down with three extraordinary women—Sahara Rose, Ashley Stahl, and Emily Hayden—for a special round table on transformation, identity, and goal-setting. They share real, raw stories of overcoming life’s hardest challenges and actionable advice for setting—and keeping—goals that create lasting change.
What’s the difference between those who set goals and quit by February and those who actually transform their lives? In this special edition of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Sahara Rose, Ashley Stahl, and Emily Hayden to uncover the truth about growth, change, and discipline. From shifting identities to dealing with judgment, these women share their stories of struggle, resilience, and success. If you’re tired of failing your goals year after year, this conversation will help you reset, stay motivated, and evolve into the person you were meant to be.
SHOWNOTES
[00:03:16] – Lisa sets up the conversation: Why New Year’s resolutions fail and how to transform.
[00:05:09] – Emily Hayden on the power of discipline and knowing your “why.”
[00:08:46] – How to forgive yourself and bounce back after setbacks.
[00:09:36] – Ashley Stahl on finding clarity: “Clarity comes from engagement, not thought.”
[00:14:39] – Sahara Rose: Why identity traps us and how to break free.
[00:18:12] – Emily on leaving judgment behind after personal transformation.
[00:23:30] – Sahara: Evolving your personal brand and embracing change authentically.
[00:27:52] – Overcoming regrets and reframing past “mistakes” as lessons.
[00:31:07] – Life is an experiment: How to take bold steps without fear of failure.
[00:37:02] – Sahara’s advice: Trust your intuition and learn to listen to whispers.
[00:46:00] – Building confidence: How small wins and momentum create lasting change.
[00:52:14] – Final tips for keeping your goals alive beyond the New Year
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Girls begin going through puberty as early as 8 years old. From the moment you become aware of your body and people begin commenting on your changes, shame, discomfort, and confusion begin to settle in. While we all settle into our bodies in different ways and at different ages, the harsh reality is that 53% of American girls are not happy with their bodies by 13 years of age and by 17 the amount of unhappy girls grows to 78%!
Behind the onslaught of body image issues and societal pressures that mark the barometer of where you fall on the ‘acceptance meter,’ are a mounting number of quietly misdiagnosed hormonal issues.
Dr. Sara Gottefried is a Harvard and M.I.T. graduate, medical physician, and NY Times bestselling author of, The Hormone Cure. She shines light on the issues women are having with being properly diagnosed, treated and even heard on health issues that have been sold as not being related. As females, the number of factors that impact our hormones, our moods, our ability to function and feel like we have worth and value is mind-blowing.
[Original air date: 10-13-21].
SHOW NOTES:
Misconceptions | Ways women can take ownership of their health and transparent risks [0:51]
Testosterone | Why testosterone can cause problems with confidence and empowerment [4:15]
Precision Medicine | How it starts with diet, lifestyle, & nutrition observed with wearables [13:34]
Average Treatment | Dr. Gottfried shares reality of how medicine for the average works [16:58]
After 40 | How hormonal changes affect women and allows us to speak our truth more [20:35]
Food Plan | How to use elimination diet to assess how food is impacting your health, [24:15]
Body Messages | Stop ignoring the messages your body is sending you [38:33]
Antibiotics | The havoc antibiotics caused Dr. Gottfried’s microbiome, changing it by 87% [43:28]
Feeling Shame | How shame is holding you back from being honest about your health [46:29]
Confidence | Feeling okay with challenging your doctor and getting hormones checked [52:38]
Gut Related | Dr Gottfried explains why gut health has everything to do with estrogen [57:10]
Nutrigenomics | How genetics predict food and nutrient response to gluten, salt, caffeine [58:30]
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The odds of succeeding in Hollywood are absurdly low. So early on, Katee Sackhoff realized that she had better figure out what made her different from everyone else, and how to stay true to the person she really is.
On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, star actress Katee Sackhoff (best known as “Starbuck” from Battlestar Galactica) describes how she pursued her career against all odds, how she distinguished herself from everyone else, and how she remains committed to her own ethics and standards.
[Original air date: 7-31-19].
SHOW NOTES:
Katee explains how she went against her parents’ desires when she pursued acting [3:19]
“Every time someone told me no, it made me work harder.” [4:55]
Katee and Lisa discuss how unlikely making it is in Hollywood [5:58]
Katee explains how to focus on your own success instead of the competition [7:18]
Katee advocates never compromising yourself [10:27]
Katee talks about taking on the role of Starbuck on Battlestar Galactica [12:17]
Katee describes dealing with backlash [14:10]
Katee discusses fear, vulnerability, and sadness [15:00]
“Allowing your feelings to be hurt just means it mattered to you.” [17:36]
Katee advocates that eventually only you are responsible for your futur [19:55]
Katee explains why she doesn’t believe in regrets [20:34]
Katee talks about the severe limitations of texting and scial media [23:37]
Katee describes her new show, “Another Life” [26:53]
Katee explains how the next project always has to be better than the previous [28:42]
“You have to allow people to be honest with you” [30:14]
Katee talks about how being a producer has changed the rest of her life [33:00]
Katee shares that she used to give only 95% so that she had an excuse if she failed [33:59]
Katee explains how she remains disciplined on days where she wants to give in [36:26]
Katee explains how she learned to stop feeling sorry for herself [38:18]
Katee shares her superpower [39:02]
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This week’s guest on Women of Impact is Najwa Zebian. Najwa Zebian is a Lebanese-Canadian author, speaker, and educator. Inspired by her love of language from an early age, now she gives her voice to those who feel silenced.
In this episode she talks about getting past trauma and how to know if your relationship is serving you.
[Original air date: 4-24-19].
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SHOW NOTES:
A new way to think about ‘home’ [02:19]
Does happiness just come to us? [05:48]
Why we need to feel and accept our pain [07:09]
How to actually feel your pain so you can move on [09:57]
Boundaries you need to set up for future relationships [15:40]
Najwa’s definition of self love [19:24]
Why you can’t be positive all the time [21:52]
The importance of taking responsibility for your health [26:30]
How to find your voice [29:28]
The real story behind Najwa’s International Women’s Day speech [35:08]
Why you can’t doubt your truth [42:00]
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So, you’re up early, get the kids ready (or not), grab a coffee and you’re running out the door to start another- busy day. The problem is everyday is a busy day, and the reality is that a majority of women (and men too) never feel like there are enough hours in the day. This leads to more stress and more anxiety. Add to all this the fact that in 2020 it was estimated the average person was spending almost 2 and a half hours on social media every day.
This would be okay, except that Dr. Wendy Suzki points out that continuous exposure to news and social media is contributing heavily to anxiety and stress. According to Dr. Wendy, there are healthy levels of stress you need in your life, and there are detrimental levels of stress and anxiety that do you no favors. So how do you cope with all the added stress? Avoid it? Pretend it’s not a thing, or even worse, spiral out of control ?
There are free, simple, very portable and easy ways to effectively lower levels of “everyday stress and anxiety.” Dr. Wendy Suzuki is a Neuroscientist and Psychology professor that brings movement, joy and fun into brain science. This episode is best listened to before your next anxious situation or immediately after if it’s too late.
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[Original air date: 9-15-21].
SHOW NOTES:
Value of Anxiety | Dr. Wendy on why anxiety is a protective emotion that is really valuable [0:41]
Identify Anxiety | Dr. Wendy explains how anxiety shows up and useful tips to calm down [4:30]
Self-Reflection | How to productively reflect on your anxiety to rebalance with positivity [8:40]
Connection to Smell | Dr. Wendy explains why smell is so effective conditioning memory [10:51]
Foolish Reframing | Why calling failure a failure is healthier than pretending you don’t [17:10]
‘What If’ Playlist | Dr. Wendy explains how to turn worry into action with a positive effect [25:44]
Social Stress| Being prepared for social situations and the danger loneliness is shocking [29:32]
Get Moving | Dr. Wendy on power of movement with verbal information you can do now [34:45]
5 Points in Anxiety | 5 points to help emotionally regulate and get out of anxiety [36:24]
Change Responses | Dr. Wendy explains why your brain is capable of change for better [39:42]
Power Reminders | What you remind yourself matters and your brain can learn anything [41:44]
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In Part 1 of this fascinating episode, Lisa Bilyeu interviews Jonna Mendez, the former CIA Chief of Disguise, to uncover the fundamental principles of deception and resilience. From disguises that save lives to trusting your instincts, Jonna shares invaluable insights into how women can navigate trust, manipulation, and danger.
What can a former CIA Chief of Disguise teach you about spotting deception and staying safe? Jonna Mendez reveals the tools and strategies she used in the field to protect lives—and how you can apply them to protect yourself. In this episode, discover why body language matters, how to trust your instincts, and what it takes to remain unassuming and resilient in any situation.
SHOWNOTES
[00:03:16] – Introducing Jonna Mendez and her groundbreaking career.
[00:09:56] – How Jonna empowered women through her work at the CIA.
[00:18:08] – The duality of deception: Helping versus harming.
[00:20:56] – How body language and cultural cues reveal hidden truths.
[00:27:27] – Creating disguises that save lives and confuse enemies.
[00:31:43] – The risks of oversharing personal information.
[00:40:24] – Women in the CIA: Challenges, advantages, and societal perceptions.
[00:44:00] – Jonna’s unforgettable moment: Fooling President George H.W. Bush with a disguise.
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Sometimes it’s not about the marriage or the kids, or anyone else. Sometimes you go all out and are in it to win just for you. Fun fact, there are 114% more women entrepreneurs now than there were 20 years ago (source). In this episode two successful badass women entrepreneurs discuss purpose, life, taking pause from everything to reconnect with yourself and listening to your gut.
A woman’s journey is never easy, but Camila Alves McConaughey opens up about the fulfillment, the rejection, the pain and the success she’s found along the way following her intuition. She and Lisa jump right in to get real, get vulnerable and get practical about what it takes to start successful businesses and balance marriage and kids.
[Original air date: 4-21-21].
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Business Journey | Camila recounts rejections and obstacles starting Yummy Spoonfuls [1:17]
Purpose | Knowing when to leave and understanding the purpose of your business & self [5:32]
Family Effort | Camila explains the importance of involving the family with business plans [9:03]
Seasons of Life | Picking the right path for the season and knowing your priorities [15:07]
Take Pause | Not getting lost in the journey and quieting the negative voices [20:58]
Evolving | Growing with the journey and having new goals as we reassess [24:35]
Ask Questions | Camila on how to ask yourself questions and find answers and therapy [26:34]
Time for You | Giving yourself time to reconnect to you and find your adventure [31:17]
Intuition | Camila and Lisa discuss going with intuition & listening to you gut responsibly [34:47]
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It doesn’t matter what culture or social climate you were raised in, you come into adulthood, womanhood carrying the burden of social demands, pressure, and expectations that weigh heavily. Maybe you’ve never questioned the beliefs you have around how a woman acts, what true love looks like, or if being your true authentic self is even an option. Who is she? What does she like? How does she feel about herself, marriage, or children?
In this episode, Lisa is joined by the NYT bestselling author and clinical psychologist, Dr. Shefali. The conversation gets super real and right to the heart of breaking down belief systems that are keeping you trapped so you can rethink and discern beliefs that are uniquely empowering for you as an individual woman.
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[Original air date: 5-12-21].
SHOW NOTES:
Belief System | Dr. Shefali on how beliefs restrain you from discovering who you are [2:35]
Love Debunked | The idea and agenda of love as an idea that comes with expectations [5:16]
Motherhood | Dr. Shefali explores Lisa’s backlash deciding to not have children [11:25]
Motherhood Pressure | Dr. Shefali debunks mothers just identifying through their child [17:41]
Authentic Life | Dr. Shefali explains and Lisa punctuates discerning life on your terms [23:19]
Beauty & Youth | Dr. Shefali breaks down positive & negative of the standard of beauty [26:30]
Feeding Insecurities | The problem with tying self-worth to the physical & being powerful [36:45]
Niceness | Dr. Shefali debunks being nice and embracing the bitch and authenticity [41:17]
True Essence | Dr. Shefali reveals your true essence is not destructible, false self hurts [45:20]
Toxic Femininity | When good qualities of femininity is extreme and excessive [47:29]
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In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa talk about how you can effectively remind your partner that you appreciate them so they don’t feel ignored or neglected.
[Original Air Date: Dec 7, 2018]
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Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age.
Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence.
Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction.
SHOWNOTES
Interviewed 103-year-old author Noel post-accident.
Seduction involves complex emotions of pleasure-pain.
Show effort specific to her interests continually.
Seduction: Women's ancient strategy to gain power.
Women prioritize emotions over looks in attraction.
Stardom's impact diminished due to technology.
Exploring the sublime in our contracted world.
Acknowledge mentor's impactful work; use knowledge responsibly.
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Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age.
Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence.
Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction.
SHOWNOTES
Spotting dangerous signs in relationships for protection.
Build trust by becoming their genuine friend.
Trust your gut intuition and observe cues.
Analyze interactions later to understand true intentions.
Supportive community with occasional negative comments reflected.
Authenticity is crucial; avoid insincere niceness.
Beware of isolation tactics, stay vigilant.
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This week’s guest on Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu is Dr. Zelena Montminy. Dr. Zelena is a wellness architect and the author of 21 Days to Resilience.
In this episode, she talks about positive psychology, how to architect your best life, and how to maintain great emotional health no matter what you face in life. BUY 21 DAYS TO RESILIENCE: https://amzn.to/2SpioSc
[Original air date: 2-27-19].
SHOW NOTES:
Why we shouldn't focus on being happy [02:29]
Are we approaching gratitude in the wrong way? [05:25]
How to let go of the need to feel perfect [07:48]
The first step to feeling good enough [09:28]
Why challenges are actually great [13:22]
How to detach yourself from your emotions and feel them at the same time [16:00]
Why being able to pivot is essential [18:26]
How kids train you to be flexible [19:54]
The things you're probably doing that are destroying your kid's confidence [22:12]
Why "balance" doesn't exist [27:53]
How to find meaning in everything you do [29:35]
Tactics to become more present [31:36]
The connection between what we eat and how we feel [32:47]
Why we all need to prioritize sleep [35:06]
Is there a difference between being resilient and being unbreakable? [38:00]
Why we all de-prioritize our mental health [39:03]
How to celebrate failure [40:55]
The biggest thing Zelana had to change to become resilient [44:22]
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