Afleveringen
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I'm fairly disappointed that our listener base hasn't worked very hard to help Ally out in her search for sex with a dominant older man. Maybe they don't exist? Or maybe our listener base consists largely of folks who just want that vicarious experience, not the sweet escape.
We solider on though, discussing Diddy's behavior and how that compares to other men who have found themselves in such compromising situations. We tackle the orgasm gap and the true percentage of women who can orgasm through penetration alone.
Ally waxes poetic about her love for deep, cervix-hammering penetration from a real penis. And, should men initiate dominant play when kissing early in a relationship, or is it too risky?
Here are links to the articles discussed early in the episode:
https://ymmv.me/179/orgasm-gap
https://ymmv.me/179/never
https://ymmv.me/179/condom
https://ymmv.me/179/diddy
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/179/choking
https://ymmv.me/179/fwb
https://ymmv.me/179/video
https://ymmv.me/179/deep
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Let's cut right to the chase: Ally is looking for a certain kind of man to satisfy her needs, and she's not finding him. This isn't your typical female ask for a life partner or a long-term relationship. It's more a recognition that she's had difficulty finding someone who can get the job done for her.
Which brings up an interesting difficulty that women can face: It's actually difficult to find out, early in a relationship, how a guy is going to perform in bed. Or, indeed, if he'll be able to perform at all. And, I suspect dick pix are no help, as they're often taken in a flaccid state, or taken from an angle that just doesn't do justice to the man's true stature.
Along the way, we discuss Peyronie's disease, some listener feedback on the podcast and listener questions. And, Mike informs Ally that none other than Bill Clinton, according to a sexual harassment lawsuit by Paula Jones, suffers from Peyronie's Disease. It's an epidemic!
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I really appreciate Ally's choice to talk in detail about her submissive proclivities prior to a hoped-for sexual encounter this weekend. I'm not sure how common it really is for women to like men to be dominant and/or aggressive during sex. As she points out, it's definitely common enough to make successes out of movies like 50 Shades of Grey.
Regardless, it's a welcome reprieve from the questions we more typically field: Men wanting to be pegged and women wanting out of the gender binary.
Our free-form discussion also touched on how men and women select mates, whether people naturally gravitate toward people of their own ethnicity, and the differences between physical and psychological dominance. Ultimately, one has to wonder what feelings people are working out when entering into these dominant and submissive situations.
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Straight back from consuming the dreadful convention coverage from the political parties, Mike tackles porn and society. The key word for the week is "taboos," as so much of what we're allowed to talk about now revolves around what will and won't make other people uncomfortable.
The history of mankind is best understood by thinking economically, and this applies to sex and dating as well as it does to other cultural institutions. I didn't talk about it this week, but religion can be understood in similar ways. Sadly, economics may presage the death of the tube sites that have dominated online porn for so long. OnlyFans appears to be pretty powerful, and the cucks who are willing to pay make life difficult for the rest of us.
And, what happens when women experience problems usually reserved for men such as too-obvious arousal and a lack of desire for foreplay?
Here's the channel I mentioned where a guy talks about dating from an economic perspective:
https://ymmv.me/176/dating
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/176/clean
https://ymmv.me/176/penetration
https://ymmv.me/176/disgust
https://ymmv.me/176/onlyfans
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Ally thinks she's never been filmed while having sex, with or without her knowledge and consent. The joke's on her, because I'm relatively sure pretty much everyone has been filmed at one point or another by the powers that be for blackmail material.
She also hasn't noticed in her sexual experiences the claimed increase in penis length that researchers have discovered. Apparently men's penises are now 25% longer than they were just a few short decades ago. Vagina depth doesn't appear to have kept up, but more research is definitely required.
We discuss the curious phenomenon of hundreds of young women wearing provocative clothing, seemingly for each other, at bachelorette parties in Nashville. And, do women really mind if their male partners are bisexual?
Here's an article about the Nashville bachelorette scene:
https://ymmv.me/175/bachelorette
And here's the one about penises getting longer:
https://ymmv.me/175/penis
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/175/recording
https://ymmv.me/175/bisexual
https://ymmv.me/175/anilingus-1
https://ymmv.me/175/anilingus-2
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One surprising challenge for the man traveling through Africa is that porn is illegal in essentially every country there. This, combined with spotty Internet access, can genuinely inhibit a man from being able to orgasm during his trip. Not to mention what it might do to prostate-cancer rates.
Condom use, or lack thereof in early sexual encounters, is discussed. Men and women's different and competing strategies come into play here, since women can decrease the odds of being ghosted by suggesting some hot sex in the future. But, if they actually do the deed too well, maybe the guy gets what he "wants" and moves on.
And, how much do women really know about their own genitals, given how hidden they are? Why do they appear so surprised when interacting for the first time with another woman's lady parts?
Here is the video of women touching another woman's vagina for the first time:
https://ymmv.me/174/touching
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/174/condom
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Keith has a serious problem while touring Southern Africa: Access to high-quality porn. We take it for granted in this day and age, but it relies completely on high-speed Internet access. How much porn per day should a man prepare before such a trip, and what should he do if he runs out?
We dive deeper into questions of squirting and what esoteric places the fluid might be coming from. If it were a religious debate, you might be able to call it a "squirt of the gaps" argument being made by the pro-squirting contingent.
And, it seems Keith is aroused by his own naked image in the mirror. Perhaps this is more widespread than we might have thought?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/173/flatulence
https://ymmv.me/173/handjob
https://ymmv.me/173/butt
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It turns out that Ally has never been with a man whose penis was so tightly circumcised that he had an immobile foreskin when erect. This came up because I wanted to understand what goes into her management of semen when the guy orgasms in her mouth.
Come to find out this generally isn't an issue for her, which makes me wonder whether she's having sex with men who have small penises and/or aren't generating very large loads.
I also had the joy of showing Ally the large clitorises discussed on episode 171, which I think she did not particularly enjoy. Funny how women can tolerate a penis-sized thing on a man, but put one on a woman, and it becomes a problem.
And, is it normal for people to be sexually attracted to themselves in the mirror?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/172/mirror
https://ymmv.me/172/thin
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I think the clit might be the most misunderstood part of the sexual apparatus. What's really going on with that small penis-analog that sometimes isn't difficult to even locate? People really just don't talk enough about clits. Why is that?
On some level women are in luck, given that men generally haven't extended to clits the specific body-part fetishizing that is applied to breasts, asses, facial features and the like. This could change, given the "Big Clit" content available online. Maybe men will start looking for women to enlarge that erogenous zone?
In other news, a female friend decided to explain to me how YMMV should provide a disclaimer or be censored because of its excessive male-gaze. I disagreed.
Some discussion followed of a woman who enjoys her boyfriend cumming earlier than anticipated during sex. And, is cellphone addiction eliminating the power gap between men and women in sexual relations?
By the way, Mike also explains why politics in western nations are so toxic.
On the topic of big clits, here are a couple of the subreddits discussed:
https://ymmv.me/171/bigclit
https://ymmv.me/171/growyourclit
And here's the video of the quite large clit under discussion:
https://ymmv.me/171/clit-vid
Here are the two research studies about squirting sent in by a listener:
https://ymmv.me/171/squirting1
https://ymmv.me/171/squirting2
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/171/early
https://ymmv.me/171/orgasm
https://ymmv.me/171/phone
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Maybe all women fantasize about being a man during sex in order to get off. I have often hypothesized that it's just more fun for the male partner to do the act. In this gender-bending world, it's hard to know what's going to work for someone. One man's autofellatio is another man's pegging.
In this episode, Ally and Mike discuss details of what goes through women's minds when in the locker room, whether nipple erections for women are analogous to men's erections, and much much more.
I'm confident that a large percentage of women don't have their first orgasm until they've been sexually active for some time. Is this evidence of some kind of male failing, or maybe just lack of interest by women?
And, what to do as a woman if you're convinced your vulva just isn't good looking? Is there a way to hide it during sex?
Here's the article about the professor fired for having an OnlyFans account:
https://ymmv.me/170/prof
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/170/first
https://ymmv.me/170/fantasies
https://ymmv.me/170/hiding
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Even men who are into cuckolding tend to restrict it to their fantasies or to what they think about when pretty aroused. We discuss a man who wants deeply to interact with the penis of another man, until he orgasms at which point the desire recedes immediately. What should he do? Simply remain aroused as long as possible?
A woman is tired of turning over when she wakes up to find her partner masturbating in bed while ogling her body. Is this a reasonable reaction? And, what would it be like if the gender roles were reversed?
We delve again into a relationship that tried an MMF scenario, only to find that the added "M" gave the female partner way more orgasms than her male partner expected. She says it's not a big deal, but is it?
And, how should a relationship proceed when both partners want to be dominant?
If listeners are interested in the video we discussed about dreams and the brain, here is the link:
https://ymmv.me/169/dreams
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/169/threesome
https://ymmv.me/169/husband
https://ymmv.me/169/cuckold
https://ymmv.me/169/jerking
https://ymmv.me/169/exhibitionist
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It's an oft-discussed trope that women become much more attached to men after the first time they have sex. But, does the same logic apply to oral sex performed on the guy? That is to say, does it matter where exactly the penis goes? And, does it matter where the semen goes?
Keith is interested in understanding how, in a normal relationship, a blowjob is initiated. Is there a verbal request? Does the man "push her head down" as is often suggested online? Or is there some other protocol?
And, a man who is dating a transwoman would like to know what a vagina feels like. How does it compare to the anus or the mouth?
Here's the link to the Tenga egg product discussed on the episode:
https://ymmv.me/168/tenga
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/168/again
https://ymmv.me/168/bj
https://ymmv.me/168/vagina
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It's complicated, as a man, to know how to respond to receiving a nude photo from a female partner. The obvious answer is you should be complementary, and not respond with a dick pic or similar. But then, how strong should the complements be? Is she forcing you to interact with her insecurities?
We struggle often to define the term "fingering" as it applies to women. Is it an internal or an external act? And, what could be going on with a woman who needs deep, aggressive fingering to (sometimes) get off?
Is it smart for a man to tell his partner that her ass is "too bony" for doggy style sex? And, what does the term "pillow princess" mean?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/167/fingering
https://ymmv.me/167/cow
https://ymmv.me/167/dirty-photo
https://ymmv.me/167/pillow
https://ymmv.me/167/bony
https://ymmv.me/167/cow
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In this day and age, it's hard to believe how poorly informed men can be about women's sexual responses. This week, we've found a selection of odd male behaviors in relationships which we make an effort to explain.
To wit, what would possess a man to send a list of "mistakes" made by a sexual partner after their first encounter? From my perspective, this only really makes sense if he wants her never to have sex with him again.
If a man reveals his desire for a woman in terms that she might not find particularly alluring, is that his fault or hers? Especially in a people where men are increasingly encouraged to be honest about their feelings. Are women ready for the reality of young men's libidos?
And, can a woman be too wet for oral?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/166/list
https://ymmv.me/166/virginity
https://ymmv.me/166/condom
https://ymmv.me/166/ridiculed
https://ymmv.me/166/too-wet
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A listener ponders: Given a choice between a series of probably gay activities and pegging, which is the most gay? And, how would we rank-order the experiences which all sound pretty gay, including two men facing each other and then masturbating simultaneously on to a black towel.
Along the same lines, a man really really wants to enjoy being pegged by his female partner, but he just seems unable to turn his prostate "walnut" into the pleasure organ he's been promised. Is he doing something wrong with his technique, or should he give up? And, in general, do men get more pleasure out of receiving anal than do women? I suspect they do.
A couple of men seem to have real problems with their partners' genitals. One got dry heaves when he tried to give oral sex to his partner, and the next isn't even willing to touch her vulva with his fingers. Are these just strategies to get out of pleasuring them, or is something more at play?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/165/gagging
https://ymmv.me/165/pegged
https://ymmv.me/165/touching
https://ymmv.me/165/double
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The release date of this episode will make it hard for listeners, as they'll have to tear themselves away from the new Taylor Swift album to give us their full attention. Her emotions regarding her most recent failed relationship are notable, if only because they don't really sound like those I would expect from a 35-year-old woman.
But we'll soldier on, even in the face of the Tortured Poets Department. Because, honestly, what could be more tortured than a man trying to provide his woman a little anal fingering, only to wind up with more than he bargained for?
Or, equivalently, a woman who might tip the scales beyond just "overweight" who is propositioned for an MFF threesome by her partner with someone who's ... pretty thin. Should she go along with it, or recognize that the other lady is likely to get the better of the situation?
And, are men supposed to do more work during sex than women?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/164/anal
https://ymmv.me/164/threesome
https://ymmv.me/164/work
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If one were to try to assign "blame" for men's difficulty in ascertaining whether a female partner has orgasmed, who bears the most responsibility? Traditionally, I would view it as the man's fault. Given our interest in that part of the female body, you'd think more men would conduct significant online research.
But what if women are actively trying to prevent men from understanding how to "get them there"? It doesn't even have to be all purposeful. Some combination of women confused about their own bodies and others trying to make men feel better about themselves might unwittingly be misleading whole generations of men about what they "should" be doing.
Another game-theoretical situation arises around STI tests. In the somewhat unusual case that tests are even exchanged by new partners, is there a good way to know if someone is sharing fabricated test results? And, what would even be the point of doing that, given that most STIs are treatable?
And, are there really any women out there who would be pleased to find out their new male partner has a bunch of sex toys?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/163/orgasm
https://ymmv.me/163/hours
https://ymmv.me/163/clean
https://ymmv.me/163/toys
https://ymmv.me/163/sti
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Keith wanted to discuss where to place his semen in an early sexual encounter. It's not as simple a problem as it sounds. It requires forethought for each position. And, since the woman may often simply express the desire that he "put it inside," it's a lonely road the man must travel to find a proper exterior setting.
As I sit here in my bed in Dublin, Ireland, contemplating Keith's semen situation, I can't help wondering if this is the same kind of dilemma faced by such writers as James Joyce when trying to frame his life in terms comprehensible to others. The expulsion of semen is a momentary event, but it can be seminal. And, where it's put can set the tone for years to come with a partner.
Speaking of literary masterpieces, we discuss a Reddit user's comment which encapsulates well the feeling of a hard penis, described for the benefit of a young woman who has never touched one. And, we explain why the 69 position usually places the man on the bottom, not the top.
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/162/69
https://ymmv.me/162/hardness
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There's no way to know the full extent to which people claiming to use multiple forms of birth control are virtue signaling. Sure, it's believable that in early sexual encounters people might use a condom as well as the pill, to protect against STIs. But there's definitely some sort of limit here, and later in a relationship the benefit derived is pretty unclear.
MFF threesomes are pretty commonplace in men's fantasy arsenals. But it's less common for men to think through the mechanics and the consequences. For example, what will the second woman do while he's interacting with the first? And, of course, this is all assuming that the threesome isn't really because the two women want to pursue a lesbian experience.
And, to what lengths might a man go to avoid giving oral sex to his female partner? Should oral sex be considered "table stakes" in intimate relationships?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/161/threesome
https://ymmv.me/161/plug
https://ymmv.me/161/smell
https://ymmv.me/161/pill
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Like the peninsular docks that jut out from the islands of the Maldives, a dildo a man purchased for his wife seemed to touch just the right spots, giving her the first "penetration-only" orgasm he's ever witnessed. Now, heartbroken, he's unsure whether this will permanently alter their relationship.
Another man is upset that his wife allowed another man to shoot "boudoir" photos of her. What's the actual reason for someone to want such photos? And, does he have any reason to be upset?
And, what inhibits men from giving oral more often in relationships? Is it because they're not big fans of the act in general, or is it just something to do with timing and what's asked for directly?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/160/boudoir
https://ymmv.me/160/shape
https://ymmv.me/160/going-down
https://ymmv.me/160/worst-sex
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