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    On this episode of "So You’re Living in a Simulation," Joli delves into the concept of luck, emphasizing that it’s not merely random chance but something that can be actively influenced.

    She draws on the analogy of fishing to explain how people can "catch" luck, comparing it to hunting or preparing for low-probability events that lead to success. Luck isn’t just about being in the right place at the right time; it’s about positioning yourself in the right places often enough that when a lucky break happens, you’re ready to seize it.

    Joli encourages listeners to think of their work—whether it's art, a product, or a service—as seeds. The more seeds you plant, the more opportunities you create for them to grow into success. She stresses the importance of diversifying efforts, networking, and consistently putting yourself out there to increase your visibility.

    By being proactive, prepared, and strategic, you can turn low-probability events into opportunities that feel like luck.

    The episode also touches on how randomness follows patterns we may not always perceive, connecting this to the simulation theory.

    Joli reminds her audience to take care of their health and well-being, as physical and mental stamina are essential when opportunities arise.

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction: luck, probability, and success

    02:50 Catching Luck: How to actively capture opportunities

    04:18 Luck Isn’t Waiting: Stop waiting, start fishing for success

    07:24 Clone Yourself: Spread your influence like seeds

    16:19 Patterns in Randomness: How randomness follows unseen patterns

    23:51 Fertile Ground: Position yourself for good luck

    29:11 "Increasing the likelihood of something happening"

    36:34 Plant Your Seeds: Every project is a chance to grow

    49:39 Network for Success: Build connections, build opportunities

    58:17 Spread Your Presence: Diversify to maximize exposure

    01:00:24 Persistence Pays Off: Stick with it to capture luck

    01:08:32 "Let good enough be good enough"

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    Key explored questions:

    1. How can you actively capture luck?

    2. What is the connection between luck and probability?

    3. Can luck be created through preparation?

    4. How do successful people maximize their chances of luck?

    5. What does it mean to "catch" luck?

    6. How does randomness follow patterns?

    7. How do you position yourself for good luck?

    8. Can you avoid bad luck through strategic decisions?

    9. How do you plant seeds for success?

    10. What role does networking play in luck?

    11. How does visibility increase your chances of success?

    12. Why is persistence important for becoming successful?

    13. How can you diversify your efforts to maximize exposure?

    14. What is the difference between passive and active luck?

    15. Can perfectionism prevent you from capturing opportunities?

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    **In this thought-provoking episode of the "So You’re Living in a Simulation" Podcast, Joli explores the relationship between memory, consciousness, and the multiverse.**

    Starting with the challenges of memory retention, particularly for those with ADHD, Joli suggests that our minds often resurface irrelevant or painful memories without benefit. But what if we could selectively forget those who’ve caused us harm?

    She proposes a radical approach to memory: consciously editing past experiences by imagining different outcomes in parallel realities. By doing this, Joli argues, we can reframe our narratives and change our futures.

    Throughout the episode, she discusses how looping positive memories, rather than traumatic ones, can help shift our mindsets. She also cautions against becoming trapped in victimhood by reliving past trauma and advocates for using memory editing as a tool for personal growth.

    Drawing parallels to video editing, Joli encourages listeners to actively "cut out" the negative parts of their stories that no longer serve them.

    Using anecdotes, she highlights how reframing can even influence our physical and emotional states. The episode concludes with a powerful metaphor: just as actors can be left on the editing floor, so too can people and memories that don’t deserve a role in your life’s narrative.

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    **Timestamps:**

    00:00 Introduction

    02:10 Reverse Time Travel and Closed Timelike Curves (CTC)

    09:58 "Do I Want To Say That" Pause And Choose The Reality Experience

    17:19 What Created Humanity And Set The Moon In Place?

    28:44 Stop Reliving the Traumatic Events

    31:53 Re-Imagine Something Different Happening

    01:11:42 Leveraging Forgetfulness: ADHD and Memory Editing

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    **Key Explored Questions:**

    1. What is memory editing?

    2. How do our memories shape our identity?

    3. Can we forget painful memories intentionally?

    4. What role do beliefs play in how we remember?

    5. How can we change our future by altering our memories?

    6. How to forget trauma?

    7. What is Closed Time Like Curve?

    8. Who created the moon?

    9. What is the impact of negative memories on our lives?

    10. Is it possible to relive memories in a different way?

    11. How to edit the past with memory?

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    In this thought-provoking episode of "So You’re Living in a Simulation," Joli challenges conventional wisdom about money, success, and societal programming. She explores the concept of money as a ubiquitous resource and questions the deeply ingrained belief that hard work always leads to wealth.

    Joli delves into the psychology of fear, encouraging listeners to transform their mindset from one of scarcity to abundance. She discusses the idea of "eating" or benefiting from challenging situations, drawing parallels between sociopathic behavior in business and survival instincts.

    Throughout the episode, Joli urges her audience to break free from societal conditioning, rethink their approach to security and opportunity, and embrace a more empowered perspective on life and success.

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Introduction

    02:14 - Money is absolutely ubiquitous

    04:12 - "Money is hard to earn" – The social conditioning

    07:40 - "Mortgage" – Death pledge

    10:36 - Empty job titles: Prioritizing appearance over substance

    12:23 - "Fiat" – Isn't real

    17:23 - "The emperor has no clothes"

    20:16 - The sense of lack vs. abundance

    22:25 - Understanding the real cost of being secure

    24:55 - "Scared money don’t make no money"

    28:54 - The power of asking "Can I benefit from this?"

    41:04 - Fear is only meant to be a warning, deprogram yourself

    42:43 - Stoic mindset and final thoughts

    Key Questions Explored:

    1. Is money truly hard to earn?

    2. How does society program our beliefs?

    3. Does hard work guarantee wealth?

    4. What's the real cost of security?

    5. How does fiat currency work?

    6. Why shift from prey to predator mindset?

    7. What role does confidence play?

    8. How to break the "slave mentality"?

    9. Why start high in your career?

    10. Is working hard always beneficial?

    11. How to break societal conditioning?

    12. What is an abundance mentality?

    13. Can everyone become wealthy?

    14. How to overcome impostor syndrome?

    15. Is money ubiquitous?

    16. Does hard work equal wealth?

  • On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli delves into the profound concepts of time, consciousness, and parallel universes.

    She begins by questioning the limitations imposed by our understanding of time travel, proposing that the notion of causality and past events might be challenged by the existence of parallel universes. Joli argues that while traditional physics suggests time travel to the past could violate fundamental laws, the existence of parallel realities offers a way around these constraints.

    Joli then explores the idea of immortality from a fourth-dimensional perspective, suggesting that our consciousness exists across multiple points in space-time. She explains that when we learn or grow, we are effectively "dying" and transitioning to a new variant of ourselves in this continuous journey through time. This shifting consciousness means that even if one version of ourselves dies, other variants in different timelines or realities persist.

    The discussion further expands into the concept of quantum immortality, which posits that consciousness cannot truly die but instead continues in parallel universes where one survives potentially fatal events. Joli emphasizes that this idea supports the notion that no consciousness truly experiences death; it merely transitions to other states of existence.

    Joli concludes by reflecting on the limitations of current technology, which prevents us from interacting with past or parallel versions of loved ones. She suggests that, despite this, the essence of our being—our consciousness—continues to exist throughout all of space-time. She envisions a future where technology could one day track and interact with these different states of being, reinforcing the idea that we are more expansive and eternal than the linear perception of life and death might suggest.

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction

    05:32 Explaining eternalism and the block universe theory

    11:36 Time travel to the future: methods and theories

    19:20 "Choose your own destiny"

    28:17 Eternalism vs Presentism

    41:36 “It’s Not Just One Future" - Many Worlds Interpretation and Eternalism

    50:59 "Death only happens to other people" - consciousness can't die

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    Key explored questions:

    1. What is eternalism in physics?

    2. How does the block universe theory relate to time?

    3. Is time travel to the future possible?

    4. What are the challenges of traveling to the past?

    5. How does quantum mechanics relate to time travel?

    6. What is the grandfather paradox?

    7. How does the many worlds interpretation affect time travel?

    8. What is quantum immortality?

    9. How does consciousness relate to the concept of death?

    10. Are we four-dimensional beings?

    11. How does the idea of parallel universes impact our understanding of death?

    12. Can consciousness be destroyed?

    13. How might future technology change our perception of death and time?

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  • On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli begins by recounting a conversation with her editor Allwin, who expressed existential concerns about aging, suffering, and the cycle of life and death.

    Joli challenges conventional views on death, suggesting it may be an illusion rooted in societal conditioning (rather than an absolute end.) She proposes that our fear of death stems from a limited understanding of consciousness and reality.

    Drawing on various philosophical and scientific concepts, Joli presents alternative perspectives on the continuity of consciousness beyond physical death.

    Joli delves into topics such as simulation theory, reincarnation, and the cyclical nature of existence. She then explores ideas about the relationship between masculine and feminine energies, the fall of Matriarchy and shift to Patriarchy (from moon to sun worship,) and offers a speculative narrative about the origins of gender and civilization spanning Mars, Venus, and Earth.

    Throughout the episode, Joli encourages listeners to question mainstream beliefs about aging, mortality, and the nature of reality. She emphasizes the power of individual belief systems in shaping one's experience of life and suggests that embracing alternative perspectives can lead to a more fulfilling and less fearful existence.

    Joli concludes by advocating for personal exploration of these existential questions, urging listeners to develop their own philosophies and beliefs to navigate life's challenges. She presents her ideas as possibilities to consider rather than absolute truths, inviting the audience to engage in deeper contemplation about existence.

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    Timestamps:

    0:00 Introduction

    3:43 Challenging conventional views on death

    5:20 The illusion of death and societal conditioning

    08:19 Feminine cycles and the nature of time

    11:03 Out of body and near-death experiences

    13:02 Ancient matriarchal society and goddess worship

    21:54 Societal programming about aging

    27:28 "Born in Her Image" Parthenogenesis

    36:18 Speculative narrative: Mars, Venus, and Earth

    53:25 Conclusion

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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. Is death truly the end, or an illusion?

    2. How does societal conditioning shape our fear of death?

    3. Can we overcome aging through belief and mindset?

    4. What is the nature of consciousness beyond physical form?

    5. How might gender dynamics have evolved throughout human history?

    6. Is our reality a simulation or a persistent dream?

    7. What role does cyclical thinking play in understanding life and death?

    8. How do different cultures approach the concept of mortality?

    9. Can alternative perspectives on death lead to a more fulfilling life?

    10: What we can learn from NDEs?


  • In Part 2 of this episode of "Your One Black Friend," Joli and guest host Kosmic Jedi continue their exploration of parallel universes, inspired by the themes and narrative of Blake Crouch's novel "Dark Matter," now a series on Apple TV. (Part 2 of this discussion deals only with episode 1-3 of the series.) Kosmic & Joli delve into the concept of infinite realities and discuss how this idea allows for endless possibilities and outcomes, making the show's narrative both exciting and thought-provoking.

    How does the concept of infinite realities reshape our understanding of personal identity?
    How does soul memory influence intuition and decision-making?
    How does exploring alternate timelines affect our perception of regret?

    Joli and Kosmic Jedi analyze the complex themes of the show, including Eastern mysticism, physics, and psychological analysis. They appreciate how these elements are intricately woven together to create a multi-layered narrative that encourages viewers to think deeply about the nature of reality and the choices we make.

    The discussion also touches on character relationships, focusing on the sacrifices and decisions made by the characters, particularly in the context of gender roles and personal fulfillment. They compare the show to other media like "Rick and Morty," "Invincible," and movies such as "The One" with Jet Li and "Deja Vu" with Denzel Washington, highlighting how these works handle the concept of multiple realities.

    Joli and Kosmic Jedi reflect on their own lives, contemplating how different decisions could have led to different outcomes. They emphasize the importance of intuition and the belief in multiple chances or lifetimes to experience different paths, suggesting that this mindset can reduce regret and anxiety by accepting the existence of parallel realities.

    The conversation also explores philosophical insights, particularly the idea of letting go of regret and anxiety by recognizing that this is not the only lifetime or timeline. They discuss how adopting this perspective can lead to a more relaxed and observant approach to life, reducing the fear of missing out and the intensity of decision-making.

    Throughout the discussion, Joli and Kosmic Jedi express a strong appreciation for the show and its ability to spark deep, reflective conversations about life, choices, and the nature of reality. They commend the creators for their ability to address complex themes in an engaging and thought-provoking manner, making it a standout piece of media.

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  • In Part 1 of this episode of "Your One Black Friend," Joli and Guest Host @KosmicJedi delve into the fascinating themes of Time Loops, Parallel Universes, and “Reality Transurfing”, leading to a discussion of Blake Crouch's novel "Dark Matter," (now a series on Apple TV.)

    What impact do the choices we make have on the paths our lives take?

    The conversation organically transitions into a broader discussion about the concept of time, routine, and how society's rigid structures often conflict with individual natural rhythms, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Joli and Kosmic highlight how modern technology and societal expectations can stifle creativity and productivity, suggesting that breaking free from these constraints can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

    Throughout the episode, the dynamic duo skillfully intertwines personal anecdotes with speculative fiction. References to popular culture, such as "Doctor Who," "X-Men," and "Back to the Future," are used to illustrate the philosophical and practical implications of living in a multiverse, providing listeners with thought-provoking insights and entertaining discussions.

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  • On this episode of "Your One Black Friend," titled "The Answer to Life, Universe, and Everything is to Die," Joli explores the profound implications behind Douglas Adams' famous number 42 from "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy." She reveals a mind-blowing interpretation that 42 symbolizes the concept of "to die," suggesting that our reality is a simulation designed to experience endings and death, created by entities that are incapable of dying.

    Joli connects this interpretation to themes discussed in her own podcast, "The Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse," where she posits that our world's limitations and delays in gratification simulate the experiences of mortality and desire. She delves into the role of consciousness in navigating different realities and emphasizes the importance of intention in choosing our future experiences.

    Throughout the episode, Joli reflects on the nature of perception, the potential of AI to mirror human consciousness, and the philosophical implications of dreams as windows into parallel universes. She concludes with a discussion on the eternal nature of energy and matter, reinforcing the idea that while we may shift forms, we never truly cease to exist. This episode challenges conventional perceptions of life and death, offering a unique blend of science fiction, philosophy, and personal insights.

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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. What is the meaning of the number 42 in The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy?
    2. Are we living in a simulation created to experience endings and limitations?
    3. How does our perception of sight actually work?
    4. Can we navigate our consciousness to different future realities?
    5. How will AI impact storytelling and interactive multimedia experiences?
    6. Should we give meaning to ominous dreams or declare them meaningless?
    7. Are we energy beings that cannot truly die but only shift forms?
    8. Is creation a myth and energy/matter can only be modified, not created or destroyed?
    9. Why do we lose track of time and get distracted from our goals?
    10. How can AI help with design and visualizing concepts?
    11. Do all realities exist simultaneously as probabilities?
    12. What is the Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse about?
    13. Can our desires determine which future reality we experience?
    14. Why is sight often seen as the prime determiner of existence?
    15. Is the future of TV interactive AI-generated multiverse storylines?

  • In this episode, your hostess Joli, (aka Jo the Storyteller,) begins by challenging the conventional notion that successful adults must engage in serious professions, highlighting how many top earners, such as athletes and entertainers, thrive by engaging in playful, childlike activities.

    We then delve into a philosophical inquiry about the illusion of choice and the deterministic nature of our lives, suggesting that while we can choose paths, we don't control the circumstances we encounter.

    Next, the idea that our lives may be part of a larger, organised system are explored. She questions the materialistic, scientific worldview that assumes reality is purely physical and posits that there could be deeper metaphysical layers to existence that we cannot currently perceive or understand. The discussion touches on the limitations of human perception and how our understanding of the universe is restricted by our senses.

    Throughout the episode, Jo encourages viewers to reflect on their belief systems. By blending humor, personal anecdotes, and philosophical insights, Jo urges listeners to create their own belief systems or risk being enslaved by those imposed by others.

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    Some of the key points and ideas she explores include:

    - Our lives and reality itself could be a kind of story or narrative driven by sentient, abstract forces or entities that we are unaware of.

    - Time may operate in reverse in a kind of "anti-universe", where our experienced flow of time from birth to death is actually going backwards compared to the "normal" direction. Our visible universe may only be 5% of all existence.

    - We may be living in a simulation, game, or constructed reality rather than a purely materialistic physical universe that arose by chance.

    - Our perceived individual choices and paths through life may actually be predetermined, raising questions about free will versus determinism.

    - After death, our consciousness or existence may continue in other realms, dimensions or parallel universes, contrary to the materialist view of annihilation.

    - Ancient advanced civilizations may have existed before our currently understood history began after some antediluvian cataclysm or reset.

    Joli advocates creating one's own philosophical belief system rather than blindly accepting the prevailing materialistic worldview promoted through institutions like science and media. She aims to explore these unconventional ideas through an entertaining lens of storytelling to make them more palatable and thought-provoking.

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    Key Explored Questions:
    1. Is our reality just a narrative driven by higher conscious entities?
    2. Does time operate in reverse in an "anti-universe"?
    3. Are we living in a simulated or constructed reality?
    4. Is our path through life truly predetermined with no free will?
    5. Does consciousness continue after death in other realms?
    6. Did advanced ancient civilizations exist before recorded history?
    7. Should we create our own philosophical belief systems?
    8. What is the nature of our perceived individual choices?
    9. Could the stories of our lives themselves be sentient forces?
    10. Is the visible universe only a small fraction of all existence?
    11. Do we manifest our future selves through present actions?
    12. Can parallel universes or selves overlap in consciousness?
    13. How does mainstream art/media impact societal evolution?
    14. Could time travelers observe or interact with our reality?
    15. Can rejecting materialism lead to a richer life perspective?

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  • In this thought-provoking episode, Joli explores the mind-bending hypothesis that humanity and our entire reality could be an artificial simulation or "time box" created by an advanced civilization. She presents evidence suggesting our world has programmed limitations, from our DNA to societal divisions, hinting at an intelligent design behind the scenes.

    Joli challenges the assumption that the creators of our reality must be supremely intelligent beings, drawing analogies to AI systems that can surpass human capabilities in specific tasks despite having less overall intelligence than their creators.

    She speculates that our reality is a simulation aimed at exploring the fundamental question of the meaning of life, created by beings who may themselves exist within a higher simulation. Joli describes a fractal, recursive view where there is ultimately only one primordial consciousness that has infinitely divided and fragmented itself across countless realities and dimensions in an eternal quest for meaning and purpose.

    In this captivating discussion, Joli prompts profound questions about the nature of our existence and whether the drive to simulate realities stems from the desperate solitude of a singular, primeval intelligence grasping for answers to its own origins.

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    Key Explored Questions:

    1. Are we living in a simulation or time box?
    2. What are the limitations imposed on humans?
    3. Are the creators of our reality more intelligent than us?
    4. Is our reality meant to explore the meaning of life?
    5. Are we fragments of a higher primordial consciousness?
    6. Is the universe a recursive fractal of simulated realities?
    7. Why would a singular consciousness create multiple realities?
    8. Are historical artifacts and scientific laws programmed parameters?
    9. Are societal conflicts and divisions intentionally programmed?
    10. Is the search for meaning hard-wired into human consciousness?

    Timestamps:

    0:00 - Introduction and Technical Difficulties
    02:13 - Simulation/Time Box Hypothesis
    07:07 - The Tower of Babel and the God of the Bible
    13:09 - How the Narrative Takes Over and Influences Emotional Reactions
    23:53 - Reality as a "Meaning of Life" Exploration
    27:46 - Collective Consciousness and Eternal Return
    31:11 - One Primordial Consciousness - Fractal Theory

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  • In this episode titled "Money is Time," Joli discusses the often-overlooked truth behind the exchange of labor for money, emphasizing how money essentially represents hours of one's life.

    Joli challenges the common perception of money as merely a transactional tool, urging listeners to reevaluate how they spend their earnings. She illustrates the idea that spending money on trivial items equates to spending precious life hours on them. She further explains that money, as an intermediary, obscures the depreciation and devaluation of life's value.

    Joli critiques the consumer culture that encourages spending on overpriced, branded goods like Louis Vuitton bags, which she argues cost significantly more than their production value. This spending habit, she notes, leads to a disproportionate exchange of life hours for items of minimal intrinsic value.

    Joli also touches on how the economic system inflates the value of money, further depreciating the value of an individual's labor and life.

    Drawing a parallel with the movie "In Time," where time is the ultimate currency, Joli reflects on the dystopian reality of wealth inequality and the commodification of time. She argues that the current economic system, with its skewed valuation of labor and goods, mirrors the movie's critique of time as a commodified resource.

    Joli concludes by urging listeners to become more mindful of their spending, recognizing that each transaction represents a portion of their life. She advocates for a reevaluation of values, suggesting that individuals focus on what truly enriches their lives rather than succumbing to consumerist impulses driven by branding and societal expectations. By doing so, Joli suggests that individuals can reclaim the true value of their time and lead more meaningful lives.

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  • On today’s episode, Joli​⁠ proposes a direct and profound connection between ADHD minds and the universe’s structure, suggesting a deeper, intrinsic alignment.

    What if the ADHD mind reflects an intuitive understanding of the universe?

    We will explore the intriguing concepts of algorithms in our reality, synchronicity, and how these ideas might relate to the ADHD brain.

    This discussion was inspired by an excerpt from "Dimensions" by Jacques Vallée that discusses how modern information systems utilize algorithms and keywords for data retrieval, suggesting that our universe might be organised in the same way.

    Piggybacking on the idea, Joli proposes that our universe appears organised as an associative database rather than a linear, sequential one, proposing that synchronicities and coincidences might reveal an order to the universe that is akin to an algorithm in a software program.

    This associative model of the universe could also offer insights into the nature of the ADHD brain, which often navigates the world in a non-linear, associative manner.

    Joli also discusses how we perceive and impart meaning to our experiences. The section on meaning explores how individuals construct significance and apply meaning to events based on their perceptions, beliefs, and cultural contexts, highlighting that meaning is not inherent but created by us. “We are meaning generating machines.”
    It emphasizes individual agency in the meaning-making process.

    In summary, Joli posits that ADHD minds, who often experience reality in a non-linear fashion, might be closely aligned with the fundamental nature of reality. This perspective posits that embracing a non-linear, associative view could enrich our understanding of the world and deepen our sense of connection with reality.

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    1. ADHD and creativity
    2. Understanding synchronicity
    3. What is associative thinking?
    4. Explaining non-linear time
    5. Coincidences meaning
    6. Basics of information theory
    7. Jacques Vallée alien theories
    8. Best books on universe mysteries
    9. How do algorithms work?
    10. Science of quantum entanglement
    11. Improve cognitive skills
    12. How does the mind process information?
    13. Perceptions of reality
    14. Creative thinking techniques
    15. Recognizing life patterns
    16. Connecting with the universe
    17. What is the multiverse theory?
    18. Keyword search tips
    19. Consciousness and universe
    20. Reality vs. simulation theories
    21. Consciousness explained
    22. Deep philosophy topics
    23. Technology and human mind
    24. How interconnected is our experience?
    25. Finding meaning in life


  • Imagine your mine as an app and your brain as the hardware/computer. Can you use your mind as one would use an app: engaging and disengaging it at will, and exiting out of it when done?

    Think of the mind’s internal monologue to an app running in the background of your cellphone that drains the device’s battery. The continuous, often uncontrollable internal dialogue can lead to mental strain and exhaustion. Just as background apps consume power even when you’re not actively using them, the constant chatter of your mind can sap your mental energy without your conscious realization. This internal dialogue can range from worries about the future, replaying past events, to self-talk about current situations.

    Conscious control and intentional engagement/disengagement from the mind can prevent exhaustion.

    Joli encourages users to practice the mental discipline of redirecting attention away from this internal noise to the immediate present, deliberately using the mind as a tool rather than a source of distraction. The aim is to utilize the mind actively and purposefully, rather than allowing it to become a source of interference that pulls us away from the present moment.

    The concept of an Associative Model of the Universe, is also discussed. This model suggests a view where our universe isn’t strictly governed by linear causality (where Effects directly follow Causes in a straightforward sequence.)

    Instead, it proposes that the universe operates through a network of interconnected occurrences, where events are linked not just by cause-and-effect relationships but by associations that might not be linear or direct.

    This model implies that events in the universe can be related in various ways that go beyond simple causality. These connections might be based on similarities, synchronicities, or patterns that don’t necessarily adhere to the traditional understanding of time and causation.

    In such a model, understanding the universe requires looking at the bigger picture of how things are related, rather than just tracing direct lines of cause and effect.

    This lends itself to a discussion on deterministic physics and philosophical occasionalism, as well as the implications of this perspective on personal autonomy, mental health, and societal behavior. If every decision or action is the result of a chain of events set in motion by past events, there isn’t much we do control. This acceptance could lead to peace through surrendering to the flow of life, reducing anxiety over making “wrong” choices, and fostering a deeper connection to the universe or divinity, (depending on one’s perspective.)

    Lastly, Joli reflects on a social media post that resonated with her, tying in themes of mental liberation, societal norms, and the nature of sanity. She concludes with personal insights and interpretations of the song "Crazy" by Gnarls Barkley, questioning the societal norms that define sanity and celebrating the freedom found in embracing one’s uniqueness, even if it leads others to question your sanity.

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  • In this episode, Joli Artist, nka JoJo the Storyteller, 😏 examines the intersection of storytelling and our perception of reality. She advocates for the importance of questions over answers and the importance of fostering a society that encourages and values free and exploratory thinking.

    The episode begins with a reflection on a surprisingly profound Twitter post by Elmo, which led to an existential conversation about the public’s general dissatisfaction with life. Joli offers listeners a unique perspective through a playful, dark twist on Elmo himself, while showing that even simple online interactions can often reveal deeper societal issues.

    Critiquing the traditional education system's role in stifling creativity and inquiry. Drawing inspiration from 'The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy,' Joli underscores the vital necessity of cultivating the skill to ask meaningful questions in the upcoming Age of AI. This discussion serves as a metaphorical guide for listeners, encouraging them to seek out the right questions that lead to a deeper understanding of their place in the universe.

    Joli also discusses the concept of the 'NPC' or Not Presently Conscious, challenging listeners to rise above the autopilot mode of existence and intentionally contribute to humanity's collective narrative.

    The concept of 'desire magnetism'—the idea that strong desires can sometimes have unintended consequences—is also introduced. This serves as a reminder to consciously align our desires with our life goals for more effective personal development.

    This episode invites viewers to consider deep questions about consciousness, the role of storytelling in understanding our world, and how to live meaningfully amidst technological advancements. Join Joli Artist for an engaging exploration into the essence of consciousness, the significance of storytelling in shaping our reality, and the quest for meaningful existence in a rapidly evolving world. This episode is an invitation to ponder the profound questions that define our reality, offering a beacon for those willing to engage in open thought and challenge the narratives that shape our lives.


    It is aimed at those interested in philosophy, the impact of technology on society, and personal growth.

  • Exploring The Dystopian vision in acclaimed TV show "See," starring Jason Momoa, and how its portrayal of a sightless society opens dialogues on perception and human capability.

    - Defining Reality: Venture beyond the scientific into a conversation about the essence of "real." Inspired by a discussion with an astrophysicist friend, this segment explores the limits of scientific understanding and the mysteries that lie beyond empirical evidence.
    - Hallucinations and UFOs: Navigate the intriguing domain of experiences science struggles to explain. From personal hallucinations to global UFO sightings, we discuss why we must broaden our lens on reality.
    - The Internal Monologue and The Power of the Mind: Explore the impact of the internal monologue on our lives and mental health. Is there more to the voices in our heads than we realize? Could understanding them be the key to unlocking a greater sense of reality?

    - Interdimensional Theories: viewers are encouraged to contemplate the possibility that our reality may be influenced by entities or forces beyond our current understanding. This speculative journey touches on everything from psychic parasites to the collective madness of humanity.


    For Fans Of: Enthusiasts of Science Fiction, Philosophy, Neuroscience, Paranormal Studies, and anyone with a thirst for exploring the depths of consciousness and the universe.

    Join Us: If you're fascinated by the edges of known science, speculative fiction, and the deep philosophical questions about existence, "Your One Black Friend" is your go-to podcast. Subscribe and join host Joli as she navigates through these complex topics with insight, humor, and a critical eye.

    Engage with Us: We love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, or stories about your encounters with the unknown in the comments. Let's build a community of curious minds and open hearts. Visit Youoneblackfriend.com for more!

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  • Is Your Life a Favorite Song to Higher Dimensional Beings? | Cosmic Philosophy & The Music of Existence

    Join Joli and her special guest, The Kosmic Jedi, in this thought-provoking episode of "Your One Black Friend." Dive into discussions on collective consciousness, the role of nature as a teacher, and the concept of being "watchers" in society. Explore the idea of life as a grand symphony, and how we contribute to the harmony or discord of the collective melody.

    In this episode, Joli Artist and The Kosmic Jedi delve into the philosophical depths of existence, questioning if our lives are akin to music for higher-dimensional beings.

    Could advanced life forms view human life as unique songs in a cosmic catalog?

    Imagine a species of advanced, higher-dimensional life forms with lifespans incomprehensibly longer than our own, who have crafted our reality as a form of entertainment. To them, each of our lives is a unique song in a cosmic catalog of their music.

    Think of a being experiencing your life as you would your favorite symphony. Our planet could simply be one symphonic anthology within a vast, nearly infinite collection of cosmic albums.

    Can you think of Earth as a constantly evolving musical score, where each species, ecosystem, and geological event contributes its own unique sound to the overall composition? Picture everything on our planet as part of a dynamic, living album that's always playing, with Higher-dimensional beings 'tuning in' to witness the rich variety of melodies created by the interaction of natural and human influences.

    This concept mirrors Friedrich Nietzsche's Eternal Return, which suggests the universe and everything within it recurs infinitely. It likewise aligns with the Big Bounce theory in cosmology which posits that the universe undergoes continuous cycles of expansion and contraction. Could each “Big Bounce“ cycle be akin to a complex record playing on a device engineered by higher beings?

    In the future, there will exist a technology that will allow us tweak our favourite songs to fit our tastes perfectly. But what if a similar technology is already shaping our lives, used by whatever engineered or is engineering our reality? In this scenario, our lives would loop like a favourite song, with the device’s technology enabling slight variations with each playback, resulting in subtle differences in every cycle. This would allow for adjustments to our life ‘tracks’ during each loop or “recurrence,” in a manner similar to how you will soon be able to modify your favourite music to suit your exact preferences.

    Questions Explored:

    - Can our lives be like music to beings from other dimensions?
    - What does Nietzsche mean by life repeating forever/eternal occurrence?
    - Do beings from other worlds watch our lives?
    - Are we like entertainment to advanced alien civilizations?
    - Can we think of our lives as songs?
    - How do deeper ideas change how we see life?
    - Is there a link between science and spiritual beliefs?
    - Creative applications of string theory?
    - How do we fit into the bigger picture of the universe?
    - Is everything we do part of a bigger cosmic story?
    - What's cosmic philosophy all about?
    - How does the idea of life repeating affect us?
    - Is there proof of higher dimensions?
    - How can we understand collective consciousness?
    - What does it mean to be a "watcher" in society?
    - Can life be compared to a symphony?
    - What is the significance of being "out of tune" in life?
    - How does the concept of a hive mind apply to humanity?
    - Can our life stories be symphonies to other beings?
    - What are the implications of considering existence as music?
    -Can science and spirituality find common ground?
    - How are quantum theory and life's mysteries connected?
    - Are there other beings aware of us?
    - What if Earth is just a track in a cosmic album?
    - How can thinking of life as a symphony change my perspective?
    - How do philosophy and science help solve life's big mysteries?

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  • Join us in this intriguing midweek mini-cast of "Your One Black Friend," where we delve into thought-provoking topics ranging from the Gregorian calendar's impact on our perception of the new year to the fascinating Apple TV show "Silo." Dive into a world of dystopian futures, the possibility of Earth being a silo for another civilization, and the implications of advanced technologies that may lie beyond our current understanding. This episode explores the intriguing question of whether Earth could be a silo, monitored by technologies unknown to us, and discusses themes of retrocausal reincarnation, technological singularity, and the mysterious allure of mirrors. Get ready to expand your mind with discussions on the potential of past civilizations, the philosophical implications of AI, and the enigmatic nature of mirrors as possible monitoring devices. Don't miss this captivating exploration of science fiction, philosophy, and the endless possibilities that question our reality.

    ### Questions Answered On This Episide:
    1. What is the show "Silo" about on Apple TV?
    2. Can Earth be considered a silo for another civilization?
    3. What is the technological singularity and its implications?
    4. Are mirrors possible monitoring devices?
    5. How does the Gregorian calendar affect our perception of the new year?
    6. What if Earth is actually Venus renamed?
    7. Is retrocausal reincarnation possible?
    8. Could past civilizations have been more technologically advanced?
    9. What are the philosophical implications of AI?
    10. How can fiction expand our understanding of reality?

    More Questions Answered by This Video:
    1. Why does the year not truly start in January according to the podcast host?
    2. What are the main themes of the Apple TV show "Silo"?
    3. How might mirrors act as monitoring devices?
    4. What are the implications of viewing Earth as a silo?
    5. Could there be technologies that are beyond our current understanding or conceptualization?
    6. What is the concept of retrocausal reincarnation?
    7. How might past civilizations influence our current technological advancements?
    8. Why do some celebrities have issues with mirrors?
    9. What could the future hold for technology and human capabilities?
    10. How does fiction like "Silo" provoke thought on our reality and potential futures?

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  • In a largely deterministic universe where factors beyond our control influence our lives, Is anything truly anyone’s fault?

    Similarly, can we genuinely claim credit for our personal achievements or even our traits, beauty, or talents?

    Consider our existence as semi-sentient beings who have found ourselves in a universe where the causes of what we experience as life are beyond our control. These include the circumstances of our birth, our genetic makeup, the era and culture into which we are born into, etc. Our lives are largely reactions to effects of causes beyond our control. Given this, how can we legitimately take credit or blame for anything?

    **Navigating Life's Narrative: Insights on Luck, Responsibility, and Change**

    In this insightful video, we explore the profound realization that much of our life is influenced by factors beyond our control, such as luck and the narratives we're born into. We also explore a thought experiment/unique idea of whether our life stories might possess their own consciousness. we ponder whether we can interact with and influence the direction of our life's narrative. This discussion encourages viewers to consider the power of perspective in accepting the good and bad in life without attributing them to personal faults or credits.


    Key Takeaways:

    • The significance of documenting insights upon awakening to retain their impact.
    • A philosophical examination of luck’s role in our lives and the conscious nature of narratives.
    • Strategies for engaging with life’s story to influence its direction positively.
    • The importance of detaching from the emotional weight of outcomes to observe life’s unfolding story.

    Keywords: Consciousness, Life Narratives, Fate, Luck, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Narrative Consciousness, Life’s Journey

    Tags for YouTube: Consciousness, LifeNarratives, Fate, Luck, PersonalGrowth, Mindfulness, NarrativeConsciousness, LifesJourney


    **What You'll Learn:**
    - The impact of acknowledging the role of luck in our lives.
    - The concept of life stories as potentially conscious entities.
    - Strategies for engaging with your life narrative to influence its direction.
    - The importance of maintaining an observer's perspective on life's unfolding events.

    **Keywords:** Life Narrative, Consciousness, Luck, Personal Development, Change, Perspective, Life Lessons

    **Tags for YouTube:** LifeNarrative, Consciousness, Luck, PersonalDevelopment, Change, Perspective, LifeLessons, Storytelling

    **Viewer Questions:**
    1. How can acknowledging luck change our perception of life's events?
    2. Can we truly influence the narrative of our lives?
    3. What are the benefits of viewing life from an observer's perspective?
    4. How does accepting both good and bad without personal credit or blame impact our mental health?
    5. How does detaching from outcomes alter our experience of life’s narrative?
    6. Can our life stories be conscious entities?
    7. How can we influence the direction of our life narratives?
    8. Why should we not take credit for the good or blame for the bad in our lives?
    9. What role does luck play in the unfolding of our life stories?


    This video provides a fresh perspective on the interconnectedness of our experiences, the stories we live, and how acknowledging the broader forces at play can empower us to navigate life more gracefully. Whether you're looking to shift your mindset or find peace in the chaos of existence, these insights offer valuable guidance on embracing the journey with openness and curiosity.

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  • In this episode, we address how changing/battling against harmful ideas is a more effective strategy than condemning people, who are simply acting under the influence of bad ideas.

    #philosophy #selfhelp #technophilosophy #thematrixisreal #simulationtheory #metaphysics

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  • Join Joli in an empowering discussion on harnessing the power of selective attention to actualise the life you desire. In this episode of "Your One Black Friend," we dive into the concept of "ignoring as bliss," exploring how the strategic overlooking of distractions and negative influences can lead to significant personal growth and achievement. Learn the practical steps to train your mind to focus on your goals, how to set firm boundaries, and the art of mastering self-discipline to navigate towards success.


    **Title:**
    "Mastering the Art of Ignoring Sh*t: Transform Your Focus and Achieve Your Goals"

    **What You Will Learn:**
    - Techniques to train your mind for selective attention
    - Strategies for setting clear, achievable goals
    - The importance of focusing on desired outcomes, not obstacles
    - Methods to maintain a positive mindset amidst negativity

    **Questions Answered by This Video:**
    - How can I improve my focus and ignore distractions?
    - What are the steps to setting and achieving clear goals?
    - Can ignoring negative thoughts help me succeed?
    - How do I maintain a positive focus in negative situations?
    - What is the power of selective attention in personal development?

    **Questions Viewers Might Search For:**
    - How to focus on what you want?
    - Ways to ignore negative thoughts and distractions?
    - How to set and achieve personal goals?
    - Strategies for personal growth and success?
    - Tips for maintaining positivity in challenging times?

    If you're inspired to take control of your focus and start manifesting the life you've always wanted, visit our website at youroneblackfriend.com for more resources, tips, and support on your journey to success.


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