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Doc Chocolate of The Bulls and Queens Podcast joins Venus to talk candidly about interracial and why it has such a strong pull. What is it that black men have that makes them so desirable? This episode is downright hilarious with the occasional thought-provoking conversation in between the laughs. Get ready for some bold statements and lots of fun with this one!Links:Pillow Talk events Doc Chocolate WebsiteVenus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: When the lifestyle turns terrifyingFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showBecome a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on TwitterVenus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on FacebookVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships. Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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A woman will no longer love or need her cuck if she's getting great sex with other men. She must lose respect for him over time. If she gets to have more sexual experiences with others then the cuck gets less in the relationship. She must be repulsed by her cuck's body if she loves sex with black men. A cuck must be sexually incompetent. There's eventually no use for a cuck. These messages continually permeate throughout society, porn, social media, cuck captions, and fetish sites. Does this harm men who find themselves interested in cuckolding? What is a cuck really worth?Venus and Cuckoldress Scarlet spend this episode unwrapping these myths and setting the record straight. And at the end, there is a special message from women around the world about what cuckolds mean to them. Don't miss this one!LinksCuckoldress Scarlet's BlogCuckoldress Scarlet on TwitterVenus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on Twitter - Venus is very active on Twitter!Venus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on Facebook Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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What if men don't find me sexy or attractive? What if I can't pull off the sexy slut role like he wants me to? What if my sexual skills are lacking? What if I don't do it right?Chloe and Lana Rose join Venus in studio to explore the secrets to unlocking a woman's sexual confidence so that she could be more likely to embrace the cuckolding lifestyle with her husband. It's not just tips but key timing as well so it's important for men to pay attention to this episode!Links in this episode:Lifestylers Magazine - Venus cover featureScandalous Woman Magazine - Venus feature interviewSavage Love with Dan Savage - Venus chimes in on cuckquean angstLana Rose - Twitter, Website, PatreonVenus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: The art of the teaseFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on Twitter - Venus is very active on Twitter!Venus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on Facebook Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Have you struggled with the cuckolding fantasies and thoughts that you have? Have you felt like you don't have control over them? Do you feel "addicted" to cuckold porn or cuckolding fantasy sites? This episode could quite possibly be the most important thing you'll listen to!Dr. David Ley sits down with Venus to explore why so many men seem to fall into the cuck shame spiral, the reasons behind it, and steps they can take begin to turn it around. David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives - Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines. Website:Dr. David J. LeyBooks by Dr. David Ley:Insatiable WivesThe Myth of Sex Addiction Twitter:@DrDavidLey Resources mentioned in this episode:American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists National Coalition for Sexual Freedoms - Kink Aware Professionals Directory Chapter markers have been added to this episode.Venus Cuckoldress - https://venuscuckoldress.com/New Merch! - https://www.fullswapshop.com/store/venus-cuckoldress/Submit a question for the show - https://venuscuckoldress.com/ask-venus/Pillow Talks - https://www.crowdcast.io/venuscuckoldressBecome a Patreon supporter - https://www.patreon.com/VenusCuckoldressTwitter - https://twitter.com/CuckoldressVInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/cuckoldressvenuspodcast/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxpeMPYHPFIapapZDoaa03wFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/The-Venus-Podcast-107081554590774Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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There are a lot of things people get wrong about kink, including the idea it’s inherently rooted in trauma and mental illness, that it’s abusive, and that kinky people can’t develop healthy relationships. That’s why this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast is all about the science of kink, BDSM, and fetishes!
I interviewed Dr. Richard Sprott, who studies identity development, health, and well-being in alternative sexualities and non-traditional relationships. He currently teaches at California State University, East Bay and he is co-author of the book Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities.
Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
What’s the difference between kink, BDSM, and fetishes anyway?How common are kinky sexual interests?What is the link between kink and mental health?What’s the truth about how kink and sexual trauma are connected?In what ways can kink be healthy, or even therapeutic?Where do kinky sexual interests come from? Do they run in families?Do kinky sexual interests change with age?How should we think about kink—is it a sexual orientation or a leisure activity?To learn more about Richard and his work, visit tashra.org
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One of the most common relationship problems that drives couples to therapy is a sexual desire discrepancy, where one partner wants more sex than the other. In fact, about 1 in 4 people report having experienced this in the past year alone. This can be a longstanding pattern or issue in a relationship, but it can also emerge when one partner loses desire over time. So how do you deal with this situation effectively?
In this episode of the podcast, I spoke with Dr. Lyndsey Harper, an Ob/Gyn at the Texas A&M College of Medicine and founder of the new mobile app Rosy. Dr. Harper developed Rosy as a tool to help women who are dealing with low sexual desire and desire discrepancies. Low sexual desire is the single most common sexual difficulty reported by women, with about 1 in 3 women reporting it in the last year. Low sexual desire is less common among men, but still prevalent: specifically, it’s reported by about 1 in 7 men in the past year.
We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including:
What are the factors that influence sexual desire, and how are they similar or different for men and women?Why are desire discrepancies so common in long-term relationships?What is the role of medication in treating low sexual desire? Can pharmaceuticals help to fix a loss of desire?How can technology (including mobile apps like Rosy and telehealth services) help people deal with desire problems?We also talk about some of the most common myths and misconceptions people believe about sex and sexual desire.To learn more about Dr. Harper, see here. To learn more about Rosy or to download the app, see here.
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In the United States, the marriage rate is near a record low, and 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Research has also found that rates of marital satisfaction have declined over time. In short, fewer people are getting married, those who do aren’t as happy as married couples in the past, and a heck of a lot of these relationships just won’t work out. So why is that? Why are relationships so hard?
In this episode of the podcast, I spoke with Roger Nygard about his recent documentary and book The Truth About Marriage, which examines how we can all make our relationships happier. Nygard is an accomplished filmmaker who has directed TV series such as “The Office” and “The Bernie Mac Show,” and he has edited Emmy-nominated episodes of “Who is America?” “VEEP,” and “Curb Your Enthusiasm.” For his documentary, he interviewed a number of sex and relationship researchers and therapists to get the answers, including previous podcast guests Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including:
Why are relationships and marriages so difficult? Why do so many of us have trouble finding lasting long-term happiness?How can we improve our relationships, according to the experts?What is the role of sex in relationships? How important is it, really?How often should couples have sex?What is the role of humor in attraction and relationships?In addition, we talk about the work Roger does on some of my favorite television shows!
To learn more about Roger Nygard and his documentary, check out his website here.
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Welcome to the first episode of season 2 of The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast! We are starting off the year with big announcements and grand prize draws to celebrate our 2 year anniversary of podcast life! Support the podcast on Patreon for your chance to win.This episode tackles a looming issue in cuckolding relationships. It happens sometimes that the wife will fall in love with a bull and leave her husband and for that reason it's high on the list of cuck fears. But is it inevitable that she will fall in love at some point? Or is it possible for her to have a sort of platonic love for her bull? How would you manage it as a couple? Could it work?Two amazing cuckoldresses (Kennedy and D) are here to discuss this and shed some light on the challenges but also the possibilities that might come from it.Links:D on TwitterKennedy on TwitterPillow Talk Special Event for Cuck WeekCuck Week events pageVenus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: The sexually empowered woman who wants it allFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on TwitterVenus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on FacebookSupport the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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How do I get my wife into this? This seems to be the million dollar question! Obviously there are countless husbands who are wanting advice on how to talk their wife into incorporating cuckolding into their relationship and in this episode Venus tries to answer that question as best she can - from a woman's perspective of course. She explores the reasons why so many women tend to initially react negatively or even reject the idea altogether and she also gives her best tips on how to support your wife through this important decision making process. Venus Cuckoldress - https://venuscuckoldress.com/New Merch! - https://www.fullswapshop.com/store/venus-cuckoldress/Submit a question for the show - https://venuscuckoldress.com/ask-venus/Pillow Talks - https://www.crowdcast.io/venuscuckoldressBecome a Patreon supporter - https://www.patreon.com/VenusCuckoldressTwitter - https://twitter.com/CuckoldressVInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/cuckoldressvenuspodcast/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxpeMPYHPFIapapZDoaa03wFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/The-Venus-Podcast-107081554590774Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Welcome 2021!!This episode is FULL of big announcements from Venus. So much is happening, changing, and growing with the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast this year so check it out! the one year anniversary of the podcastnew weekly episodes for Patreon supportersmore full length episodes every two weeks live hangouts with Venus Pillow TalksVenus's recommended resourcesbook giveawayshandwritten card giveaways AND A GRAND PRIZE GIVEAWAY - THE ULTIMATE VENUS EXPERIENCE!And Venus answers some questions from listeners about how and exactly when to bring up cuckolding to their girlfriend or wife. You don't want to miss this episode!!Venus Cuckoldress - https://venuscuckoldress.com/New Merch! - https://www.fullswapshop.com/store/venus-cuckoldress/Submit a question for the show - https://venuscuckoldress.com/ask-venus/Pillow Talks - https://www.crowdcast.io/venuscuckoldressBecome a Patreon supporter - https://www.patreon.com/VenusCuckoldressTwitter - https://twitter.com/CuckoldressVInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/cuckoldressvenuspodcast/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxpeMPYHPFIapapZDoaa03wFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/The-Venus-Podcast-107081554590774Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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What's your favorite cuck porn video? That's the question that Venus put out to listeners of The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast and in this episode she's going to review some of them! From the bizarre to the hot as fuck, and the amateur to the pro's, it's all here and prepare to be entertained because this one definitely has some laughs.Venus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsASN Magazine - Venus feature: The sexually empowered woman who wants it allFull Swap Radio - listen to Venus every Tuesday at 5pm and 11pm Central TimeNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on TwitterVenus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on FacebookSupport the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/
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Those first few steps into cuckolding that a couple takes usually results in a few bumps in the road and quite a bit of stress, especially for the women. So many things to consider and so many expectations and pressure. It can easily take the fun out of the experience.So what are we doing wrong? Perhaps if we shift our thinking a little and look at things in a different way or even change expectations all together, maybe it would be a lot simpler and enjoyable for all involved. This episode looks at many issues such as why many women new to cuckolding seek out an ongoing partner who they will have an emotional connection with, how to plan your first cuckolding experience, how to really put her choices first so she will love your cuckolding relationship forever, how and where to find a bull, and how to set boundaries. Venus Cuckoldress WebsiteVenus Connections - matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationshipsNew Merch! - yeah you read that right! Now you can get Venus/Cuckolding inspired merch!Submit a question for the showPillow Talks - find out how you can register for these live events with Venus and friends!Become a Patreon supporter - support the podcast and get lots of perks! Including the Venus Vault!Venus on Twitter - Venus is very active on Twitter!Venus on InstagramVenus on YouTubeVenus on Facebook Support the showDestination Links for Venus - https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldressLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/
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Cuckolding refers to a sexual practice in which someone finds it arousing to watch their partner have sex with another person. I first learned about cuckolding nearly a decade ago and, in the years since, its popularity has exploded. Google searches for it are on the rise, it’s increasing mentioned and depicted in the popular media, and it regularly emerges among the top porn searches in the world year in and year out. There’s even a new annual tradition called #CuckWeek, aimed at celebrating the cuckold lifestyle. So why are so many people into cuckolding?
For insight, I spoke with Dr. David Ley and Rose Caraway. David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and author of the book Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was just released on audiobook. Rose narrated the audiobook for Insatiable Wives and is host of Kiss Me Quick’s Erotica Podcast. Some of the topics we explore in this show include:
How cuckolding can be sexually empowering for women.The diverse motivations behind why men want to watch their partners have sex with other people (there isn’t just one reason!).How common cuckolding fantasies are, and who’s most likely to have them.How cuckolding is distinct from cheating.How cuckolding relationships tend to work out.What people who are thinking about exploring cuckolding need to know.How to bring sex to life as an audiobook narrator.For more on cuckolding, be sure to check out the new audiobook for Insatiable Wives!
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Bisexuality continues to be one of the most misunderstood and controversial sexualities. Some people don’t think it exists at all and that it’s just a transitional identity people adopt before coming out as gay. Also, even among those who recognize that bisexuality exists, many believe things about it that aren’t true, such as the idea that bisexuality necessarily means equal attraction to men and women, or that bisexuals can only be attracted to partners within the gender binary. It’s time to bust some myths about bisexuality.
For this episode of the Sex and Psychology Podcast, I interviewed Zachary Zane, a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He has a sex advice column at Men’s Health titled “Sexplain It” and his work has been published in Rolling Stone, The Washington Post, GQ, Playboy, and more. He also has a weekly newsletter, titled BOYSLUT, where he writes erotic essays.
In this episode, we talk all things bisexuality. We also discuss the taboos around sex toys for men and answer sex questions submitted by my Instagram followers. Things you’ll learn include:
What does it really mean to be bisexual?What’s the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality?What are the most common things people (and popular media portrayals) get wrong about bisexuality?How can bisexual people better navigate relationships in the face of bisexual stigma?How are bisexuals viewed within the LGBTQ+ community, and how can we increase bisexual acceptance?How do we break the taboo around sex toys for men? For men who are new to using sex toys, where’s a good place to start?Is simultaneous orgasm a realistic goal during sex?How can you tell if someone is flirting versus just being friendly?Why is pegging so popular?To learn more about Zach and his work, check out his website here, where you can subscribe to his newsletter and keep up with his latest writings.
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Marriage is hard. And, in many ways, it’s harder today than it was in the past because what we’re asking of our partners now is so dramatically different than it was before. Whereas marriage used to be about meeting basic survival needs, it’s become more about self-actualization. And so if we want to understand how to make the institution of marriage better, we have to look at it in the context of our ever-changing needs and expectations. That’s why this episode of the podcast is all about the science of marriage and how to cultivate happier and healthier marriages.
I interviewed Dr. Eli Finkel, a professor at Northwestern University, with appointments in the psychology department and the Kellogg School of Management. He is also the author of one of my favorite books, The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work.
Some of the topics we explore in this episode include:
How and why have our expectations for marriage changed over the last century?How do we manage conflicting needs in our relationships, such as the need for excitement and surprise vs. the need for stability and security?Can opening up a monogamous marriage help to save it?How has the pandemic shaped marriage and relationships, for better or for worse?How can we make marriage better? What can you do to keep it healthy and strong?Should we be asking less of our partners?How do you keep sex healthy and hot in a long-term relationship?To learn more about Eli and his work, visit his website at elifinkel.com and check out his book, The All-or-Nothing Marriage.
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