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In this episode of Hurt to Healing, Pandora is joined by writer and filmmaker Rebecca Frayn, who opens up about her battle with chronic illness, debilitating anxiety, and the harrowing experience of Xanax withdrawal.
Rebecca shares how a severe health crisis triggered a cascade of physical and mental struggles, culminating in a full nervous system collapse during the pandemic. She speaks candidly about the reality of waking up with "a gun to the head" kind of fear, the quiet shame of high-functioning breakdowns, and the difficult decision to enter rehab for a short-term prescription addiction that turned into something far more gripping.
Together, Pandora and Rebecca explore:
What extreme anxiety really feels like behind closed doorsThe hidden risks of benzodiazepine dependency — even in short-term useThe power of honesty, vulnerability, and telling people: “I’m not okay”How regenerative farming and nature became a vital part of her recoveryNavigating eco-grief and finding hope in a world on fireThe daily rituals that helped her slowly rebuild her mental healthNow thriving after what she calls the most transformative year of her life, Rebecca offers a message of hope to anyone feeling like they can’t go on: Start small. Lay a single brick. And know that it all adds up.
This is a conversation about resilience, self-compassion, and the quiet power of starting over—at any age.
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Website: https://www.rebeccafrayn.com/
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This week, Pandora returns for a very personal solo episode, reflecting on themes of shame, self-worth, identity, and belonging. After a tough few weeks of physical pain and mental spiralling, she shares how reconnecting with her values — and stepping out of the victim mindset — has helped her find a little more hope.
Drawing on her lived experience with OCD and an eating disorder, she opens up about the difference between fitting in and belonging — and how so much of her life has been shaped by the struggle to feel understood. From childhood compulsions to navigating stigma, isolation, and shame, Pandora explores what it means to advocate for yourself and live in alignment with who you truly are.
In this episode, Pandora discusses:
How physical pain can intensify mental rumination and anxietyHer personal battle with OCD and the intense shame that often accompanies itWhy belonging is a human need, and why fitting in often isn’t the answerThe emotional toll of growing up misunderstood — and how healing begins with being seenCreating space for your quirks, needs, and values — and the courage it takes to do soShe also references:
Lucy Hale’s conversation on the Lewis Howes Podcast — on shame, addiction, and recoveryElizabeth Day’s book Friendaholic, exploring the purpose and evolution of friendshipsJohann Hari’s work on addiction and connectionOscar Wilde’s famous quote: “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”Plus — a reminder to catch this week’s powerful guest episode with Dr. Elizabeth Kilbey, author of Unplugged, on how social media and digital addiction are impacting children’s mental health — and how we can help: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/dr-elizabeth-kilbey-on-the-truth-about-children-tech/id1649515453?i=1000709086046
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In today’s episode of Healing 101, we sit down with former England rugby star, author, and mental health advocate James Haskell for a raw conversation about men’s mental health., James opens up about the psychological toll of elite performance, the silence that surrounds vulnerability in men’s sport, and the damaging myths around masculinity. He reflects on his own experiences with ADHD, self-doubt, and grief, while calling for a cultural shift where emotional honesty is not only accepted but encouraged.
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In today’s episode, I’m joined by the wonderful Dr. Elizabeth Kilbey — a clinical psychologist
and author you might recognise from the Channel 4 series The Secret Life of 4, 5 and 6 Year
Olds.
Off the back of Adolescence, the recent Netflix series that’s struck such a chord with so
many of us, I wanted to sit down with Elizabeth to explore how our children are really coping
in a world increasingly shaped by screens, social media, and pressure. We talk about
emotional resilience, why the latency years are so important, and how we as parents can
offer support without stepping into fear or guilt.
Elizabeth brings clarity and compassion to a subject that can feel overwhelming — and I
think many of you will find a lot of comfort and understanding in this conversation.
Find out more on Elizabeth:
Website: elizabethkilbey.com
Books: The 7 Secrets of Raising Happy Children and other titles available via Amazon
TV Appearances: The Secret Life of 4, 5 and 6 Year Olds on Channel 4
Instagram: @drelizabethkilbey
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In this solo episode, I open up about a recurring foot injury that's been impacting both my physical and emotional well-being. It's been a challenging week, and I wanted to share the mental rollercoaster I've been on—from frustration and disappointment to acceptance and reflection. I talk honestly about how this injury has triggered deeper emotions, especially around the themes of control, body image, and resilience. I also reflect on how hormones can drastically affect our mental state (something I’ve become increasingly aware of), and how this ties into my ongoing recovery journey from anorexia.
You'll hear about a few tough moments this week—like missing a train and feeling excluded by friends—and how those small setbacks can sometimes feel like big emotional blows. But I also explore how I’m learning to manage those responses with more self-compassion, letting go when I need to, and leaning into gratitude as a grounding tool.
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In this episode of Healing 101, I’m joined by psychotherapist and anxiety expert Joshua Fletcher to unpack the misunderstood and often isolating experience of health anxiety. With fears around illness on the rise post-pandemic, Josh explains how health anxiety mirrors OCD, why the drive for certainty keeps us stuck, and how we can retrain our brains to feel safe again. Drawing from both personal experience and clinical expertise, he shares practical tools for breaking the cycle of obsessive checking and reassurance-seeking, and reveals why the real path to healing lies in building distress tolerance, practicing self-compassion, and becoming your own greatest coping tool.
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Website: School of Anxiety
Instagram: @anxietyjosh
LinkedIn: Joshua Fletcher
Linktree: All Resources & Contact
Podcast: Disordered
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In today’s episode of Hurt to Healing, we explore the powerful connection between our hormones, emotional health, and relationships with Dr. Emilia Vuorisalmi. A medical doctor and author, Emilia shares her deeply personal journey through heartbreak, love addiction, and burnout—and how those experiences led her to uncover the science of "love hormones" like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. Through her story, she reveals how inner healing, hormonal balance, and purposeful living can unlock not just better relationships, but a healthier, more grounded life.
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Website: docemilia.com
Instagram: @docemilia
Read The Healing Power of Hormones: https://a.co/d/4VywGTK
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This week, I talk about my recent family trip to Italy and how I navigated traveling and the difficulties that come with it -- especially concerning food, routine, and experiences.
I reflect on how "Old Pandora" would have travelled and how I'm able to take a step back and do things like not pack my yoga mat, not worry about the gelato flavours I wasn't able to try, and overcome the feelings of missing out on our final day on holiday. i also go into how my relationships with my family members have changed over the years, and a simple phrase my Mum said to me this week that made a big impact on me.
You'll hear about:
How breaking a routine, while difficult can open up life for new experiencesThe anxieties that come with the fear of missing out and how to navigate themHow if we look down the mountain to see how far we've come is more important than looking up at what we have yet to climbFinally, I talk about this week's episode with Zoe Blaskey and why I think it's important listening for new parents and those in the planning stage.
If you've ever struggles with personal anxieties and family dynamics while traveling, I hope you find this episode useful.
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In today’s episode of Healing 101, we’re joined by Jean Campbell—writer, speaker, and host of the podcast I’m Fine—for a deeply moving conversation about living with chronic pain. Jean shares how she’s learned to work with her pain rather than against it, offering insights into the emotional, physical, and mental strategies that help her navigate daily life. From low-impact movement and mindfulness to journaling and the power of community, Jean reminds us that healing isn’t about fixing—it’s about finding new ways to live well.
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Instagram: @jean_campbell
Podcast: https://www.if-podcast.com/
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In this episode of Hurt to Healing, I’m joined by Zoe Blaskey — founder of the Motherkind platform, host of the award-winning podcast, and author of Motherkind. Zoe shares her personal journey into motherhood, and how the challenges she faced inspired her to question societal expectations and support others navigating similar paths.
We talk about “matrescence” — the identity shift that happens when a woman becomes a mother — and the emotional, hormonal and relational changes that come with it. Zoe opens up about burnout, the inner critic, and why self-kindness is so essential in parenthood. Whether you're a mother or not, this is a conversation about compassion, identity, and healing that resonates far beyond motherhood.
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Website: www.motherkind.co
Instagram: @zoeblaskey
Podcast: The Motherkind Podcast on Spotify
Motherkind Book: https://amzn.eu/d/3r2NUyU
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This week, I’m opening up about some very real feelings I'm sitting with as I prepare for a family trip to Italy — and the challenges that come with stepping away from routine when you live with OCD and have a complicated relationship with control, food, and movement.
I reflect on how holidays, for me, have often triggered a lot of anxiety rather than rest, and how I’m trying to approach this trip differently: with more spontaneity, curiosity, and self-compassion. I also talk about the importance of embracing childlike joy, silliness, and imperfection in a world that constantly pressures us to be productive and goal-driven.
You'll hear about:
How my past patterns with holidays and control have looked — and how I’m trying to gently rewrite that narrativeThe concept of living life now, not as preparation for “real life” laterHow movement, spontaneity, and playful moments can be such powerful antidotes to heavy emotionsThe inner critic that creeps in when things feel unstructured — and how I'm learning to soften its voiceFinally, I share a little about last week's conversation with Emma Healey on overexercise, identity, and healing, and why it resonated so deeply with me.
If you've ever struggled with the pressure to get holidays "right," the need to control the uncontrollable, or simply allowing yourself to just be — I hope this episode reminds you that you're not alone.
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Welcome to Healing 101, where we dive deep into the foundations of mental wellbeing. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Phil Hopley—consultant psychiatrist and stress expert—to unpack one of the biggest challenges of modern life: chronic stress. Dr. Hopley explains how to recognise the early warning signs before burnout strikes, why our relationship with stress matters more than the stress itself, and how small, daily resets can make a huge difference. From practical tools for busy parents to the vital roles of sleep, hydration, and boundaries, this is an empowering guide to building resilience in a world that rarely slows down.
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In this episode of Hurt to Healing, Pandora sits down with Emma Healey, acclaimed author and journalist, to explore the complex relationship between exercise, body image, and control. Emma shares her deeply personal experience with exercise addiction, discussing how what started as a routine for health and fitness slowly became an all-consuming compulsion. She opens up about the psychological and physical toll it took on her body, relationships, and sense of self, as well as the difficult journey toward finding balance. Together, they examine the fine line between dedication and obsession, and how societal messages about fitness and achievement can fuel unhealthy behaviours.
Emma also discusses her latest novel, Sweat, which delves into power dynamics in relationships, control, and the pressures placed on women’s bodies. She and Pandora explore the parallels between disordered exercise habits and coercive relationships, how toxic fitness culture can be a form of self-punishment, and the importance of listening to your body with kindness. If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship with exercise, body image, or the pressure to always do more, this conversation is a must-listen.
Buy Sweat: https://amzn.eu/d/faaAWg0
Emma's Website: https://www.emmahealey.co.uk/
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In this solo episode, I open up about something deeply personal—my relationship with my brother, and the wider dynamics within my family. For a long time, I found certain behaviours hard to understand or accept, but recently, I’ve started to view them through a different lens.
I share how gaining perspective on my own coping mechanisms—and recognising where they come from—has helped me see my family’s responses in a new light. I talk about how we all carry our own childhood experiences into adulthood, often unconsciously, and how that shapes the way we love, communicate, and sometimes clash.
This episode is also about embracing who you are, unapologetically. I talk about learning to accept my own quirks and how that self-acceptance has quietly transformed my relationships—especially with my brother. It hasn’t been a dramatic overnight shift, but a gradual, very real one.
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In this episode of Healing 101, I’m joined by the brilliant Dr. Chuks to explore the powerful connection between anxiety, stress, and disordered eating. We unpack how stress hormones like cortisol impact hunger, why early life experiences shape our eating patterns, and how guilt and shame can trap us in unhealthy cycles. Dr. Chuks shares practical advice for building a more compassionate, mindful relationship with food—and with ourselves.
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Today, I’m joined by former England rugby player, best-selling author, podcaster and media personality, James Haskell. Known for his larger-than-life presence both on and off the field, James has been on a journey of self-discovery, navigating the highs and lows of professional sport, dealing with ADHD, and embracing new challenges after retiring from rugby.
In this conversation, James opens up about his childhood, how his ADHD diagnosis shaped his early years, and the impact of professional rugby on his mental and physical well-being. We explore his experience with therapy, the lessons he’s learned about self-discipline and confidence, and how he continues to push himself beyond his comfort zone—whether that’s in fitness, music, or public speaking. This episode is an honest and inspiring look at the importance of self-acceptance, and how we can all keep evolving, no matter what life throws our way.
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Instagram: @jameshaskell
Website: https://jameshaskell.co.uk/
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In this solo episode, I open up about what it really feels like to slow down - not by choice, but by necessity - and how it's been forcing me to confront old fears, routines, and the way I measure my worth. I share how an injury has made me rethink productivity, presence, and the masks we wear to seem like we're doing fine when we're not. It's a vulnerable one, but I hope it reminds you that wherever you are right now is exactly where you're meant to be.
I also talk about learning to trust myself again, the beauty in spontaneity, and how we can all rewrite our stories no matter what stage of life we're in. From dealing with anxiety to finding comfort in simple rituals, this episode is a gentle reminder that change is possible, slowing down is powerful, and your energy - and your story - are entirely yours to reclaim.
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Jessica Clarke is a model, entrepreneur, and co-founder of the wellness brand Mother Made. Born and raised in New Zealand with strong Māori roots, Jessica grew up surrounded by holistic healing, a deep connection to nature, and a family who believed in the body’s ability to restore itself.
In this episode of Healing 101, Jessica shares how her own experiences with burnout and imbalance led her to reconnect with those early teachings—and ultimately launch a brand focused on the power of functional mushrooms. We talk about the realities of healing behind the scenes of the fashion industry, the importance of listening to your body, and how ancient wisdom is helping shape a new approach to modern wellness.
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In today's episode, I sit down with Dr. Chuks to explore the deeply layered world of eating disorders - how they often begin, what fuels them, and why they can be so difficult to detect and treat. We talk about the connection between stress and disordered eating around major life events, the dangerous expectations placed on our bodies before weddings and holidays, and how social media and comparison can quietly chip away at our sense of self. I share some of my own experiences navigating anorexia, the crossover between restriction and bingeing, and the importance of recognising emotional triggers.
Whether you're personally affected, supporting someone who is, or just curious to understand this often misunderstood illness a bit better—this conversation holds space for honesty, reflection, and healing.
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In this week’s solo episode, I open up about something deeply personal - navigating another stress injury and the emotional spiral it triggered. I reflect on the long-term effects of an eating disorder, the lessons I’ve had to learn (and re-learn), and the importance of catching ourselves before we fall too far down a familiar rabbit hole. From stress fractures and stubborn inner critics to spontaneous lunches and surprising friendships, I try to make sense of what it means to find softness in setbacks. I talk about shame, healing, and the very human urge to control everything - even when we know we can’t. There’s some Adam Grant wisdom, a sprinkle of Maria Shriver, and a few thoughts about letting life surprise you. And, yes, I do circle back to the bizarre comfort of knowing that sometimes, we really are exactly where we’re meant to be.
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