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There’s an interesting paradox in modern relationships where, if there’s too much jealousy, that can cause a lot of problems. At the same time, though, if there isn’t enough jealousy, that can also lead to problems. So let’s talk about this complicated emotion. In today’s episode, we’re going to explore the good, bad, and ugly of jealousy, how to cope with this emotion in healthy ways, and things you can do to help a partner who might be especially prone to jealousy.
I am joined once again by Dr. Joli Hamilton, a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT Certified Sex Educator. Joli co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast and her academic research focuses on how jealousy impacts our most intimate relationships. Our previous conversation was all about creative monogamy, so be sure to listen to that episode as well.
Some of the topics we discuss today include:
How is jealousy different from other emotions, such as envy?What are some examples of the ways jealousy can benefit a relationship? How can jealousy harm a relationship?How can someone learn to manage jealousy in healthier ways?Is it possible to get rid of jealous feelings?Are there any strategies to help a partner better cope with jealousy?If you’re interested in practicing creative monogamy in your relationships, Joli has a free audio guide on bringing up the topic with a partner. She also offers a Jealousy MasterClass lecture. To learn more about these resources, visit jolihamilton.com
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Many of us have a mold for what romantic relationships “should” look like, and then we try to make our own relationships fit that. But, no matter how hard we try, sometimes it just doesn’t fit. And that’s because we’re going about relationships all wrong. Instead of building relationships on a set of things you think you’re “supposed” to do, we need to build them on the actual wants and needs of the partners. One way you can give your relationship a custom design is with the concept of “creative monogamy,” which is all about finding the right relationship style and structure that works for you.
I am joined today by Dr. Joli Hamilton, a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT Certified Sex Educator. Joli co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast and her academic research focuses on how jealousy impacts our most intimate relationships. Some of the topics we discuss include:
Why does monogamy seem to be so difficult for so many people?What is “creative monogamy” anyway?Where do you start when it comes to building a creatively monogamous relationship?For individuals who have developed a creative monogamy approach to their relationship, what might that look like?How often should people revisit their relationship agreements?How can someone in a monogamous relationship effectively communicate with their partner about wanting to change their relationship structure?If you’re interested in practicing creative monogamy in your relationships, Joli has a free audio guide on bringing up the topic with a partner. Be sure to check out that resource (and more!) over on jolihamilton.com
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It is hard to believe, but we recently reached episode number 200 of this podcast! So how do you celebrate 200 episodes of a sex show? I decided to put together a compilation of some of the most fascinating facts about sex we’ve discussed to date. One of my co-managing editors at Sex and Psychology, Olivia Adams, helped me to narrow down several segments that are well worth revisiting. Some of the topics we discuss in this episode include:
“Erotic self-focus” or the degree to which you turn yourself on, with guest Dr. Marta Meana (Episode 126)The growing number of men who are involuntarily celibate, with guest William Costello (Episode 133)What women are looking for in their affairs (and how they feel about them), with guest Susan Shapiro Barash (Episode 191)How religious values shape the way we interpret our own porn use, with guest Dr. Joshua Grubbs (Episode 186)The benefits of being single and how they change with age, with guest Dr. Yuthika Girme (Episode 174)In this show, I mentioned that there’s a guide for how to use this podcast as a companion teaching resource alongside my textbook, The Psychology of Human Sexuality. This resource is already up on the site, and you can access it here.
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There is undoubtedly a dark side to dick pics, such as when they’re sent without consent or used as a form of harassment. However, when shared consensually, there’s a positive side worth acknowledging. This is the second part in a 2-part series on the psychology of dick pics. In the last episode, we talked all about the dominant (and negative) narratives we hear in the popular media about these photos. So, today, we’re going to talk about the rarely discussed positive side of consensual dick pics, as well as what makes for a good dick pic in the first place (hint: put a little effort into it!).
I am joined once again by Dr. Andrea Waling, a Senior Research Fellow at the Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health, and Society at La Trobe University. Her current research project, Men, Sex and Intimacy, explores how young, heterosexual men in Australia are navigating and negotiating intimacy, sex, sexual health and consent in wake of #MeToo politics. Her latest book is titled Exploring the Cultural Phenomenon of the Dick Pic.
Some of the questions we discuss in this episode include:
What does it mean to think about dick pics reparatively?How can dick pics be an avenue to intimacy?What do women say are the qualities of a good dick pic?How can dick pics help men construct a positive sense of self?If you’re thinking about sending a dick pic to someone, what do you need to know?To learn more, check out Andrea’s website and stay connected on Twitter and Linkedin. You can also read our review of her most recent book here.
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If you ask any sex educator, researcher, or therapist what the most common question they receive is, they’re probably going to have a very quick answer. People ask us a LOT of sex questions—and the same ones have a tendency of popping up over and over again. So let’s talk about some of the most common things that people ask us about!
I am joined once again by Danielle Bezalel, also known as DB. She holds a degree in public health from Columbia University and is the creator, executive producer, and host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast.
Some of the questions we answer in this episode include:
Does penis size really matter?How much is “too much” when it comes to masturbation?What are some healthy ways to share your sexual interests with a partner?Does “body count” matter? Should we care about the number of people our partners have had sex with?If you’ve never had an orgasm before or are not sure if you’ve had one, what do you need to know?To stay connected, you can check out DB’s website, and find her on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok. You can also sign up for DB’s workshop “Building a Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand” here.
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Whenever an older female celebrity dates a younger guy, it tends to make the news. These women, often referred to as “cougars” or “MILFS,” have long had their relationships subject to scrutiny and stigma. However, the narrative around them has shifted, and nowadays, they’re frequently celebrated in the media. Case in point: the recent arrival of the popular reality series MILF Manor, a show in which a group of middle-aged moms date each other’s sons. In today’s show, we’re going to dive into why so many older women are into younger guys, what their relationships are like, and do a little analysis of MILF Manor.
My guest today is Ashley Weller, a Human Sexuality and Health Psychology Professor at Chapman University in Southern California. She hosts a podcast called What’s Your Position that tackles issues surrounding sexuality, relationships, life, and love from a comedic yet educational point of view.
Some of the topics we explore include:
How common are age-gap relationships?Why might an older heterosexual woman want to date a significantly younger guy?Is MILF Manor a sign of progress, or is it feeding stereotypes around women and aging?We also explore the dynamics between moms and their sons on the show, the unrealistic beauty standards older women are held to, and why a show that was designed to facilitate sexual and romantic connections struggled to produce matches.You can find Ashley on Instagram and check out her Linktree to stay connected.
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Forrest Andrews joins me on the show today to discuss how prostate massage can lead to powerful 'Super' orgasms AND improve your man's health. If you are squeamish or nervous at the idea of exploring your man's backdoor, then you'll love this episode as Forrest explains everything you need to know, from hygiene to why your man may just adore it.
Show Highlights
1.35 - Learn how Forrest started working for a sex toy company.
5.55 - Learn exactly what the prostate is and where to find it.
7.25 - Why prostate massage does NOT make your man gay.
11.15 - Why prostate orgasms (aka the Super 'O') are STRONGER than regular orgasms.
13.45 - How to suggest prostate play to your man.
17.10 - Vital things you must consider before you try any anal play with your man (these also apply to you).
19.15 - The reason why prostate play and anal sex can be painful and how to make it pleasurable for your man.
21.55 - One last thing to properly prepare your man (this also applies to you if you enjoy anal sex).
24.30 - The positions that make prostate play easiest (side lying, doggy style, lying on your back).
27.45 - We discuss why some people do and some people don't experience the Super 'O' AND how to train yourself to experience it.
34.05 - What happens between your ears is the most important part to having an orgasm, whether you are a man OR a woman. Forrest explains why.
36.40 - Women don't have a prostate gland. Instead, they have something else that leads to powerful orgasms AND squirting. Forrest explains why.
Show Notes
The sites mentioned by Forrest
Visit the Aneros website here: https://www.aneros.com/
Visit the Anereos wiki here: http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page
Visit the Aneros forum here: https://www.aneros.com/community/
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How important is humor in love and dating? In that same vein how harmful can humor in the wrong way at the wrong time be in a romantic connection? To explore this question, Shan sits with the hilarious Hannah Berner of Giggly Squad and Berning in Hell podcasts and Bravo’s Summer House, and Hannah reveals all the fun parts of being in love with a comedian…and what happens when the joke goes too far. Shan also gets some expert insight from Dr. Helen Fisher, PhD, and finally, find out why Shan’s husband Jared never laughs at her jokes.
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Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.
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In Episode 42, Dr. Justin Lehmiller returns to talk with Dr. Zhana and Joe about sexual fantasies and what they say about us!Most people have sexual fantasies, and some fantasies are not as rare as you might think. What do our fantasies mean? Should we act on them and if so how? Dr. Justin Lehmiller talks about his new book https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/justin-j-lehmiller/tell-me-what-you-want/9780738234977/ (Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.) Listen to find out which are the most common sexual fantasies, how our fantasies differ according to our age, gender and political beliefs, as well as the ways we can normalize sexual fantasies and potentially make them realities. About our Guesthttps://scienceofsexpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/G84A8173.jpg ()Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist, Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, and author of the new book Tell Me What You Want. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator and a prolific scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date. Dr. Lehmiller’s research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011 and he is a popular freelance writer, penning columns and op-eds for major publications, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Psychology Today, and New York Magazine. He has been named one of http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/5-sexperts-you-need-follow-twitter (5 “Sexperts” You Need to Follow on Twitter) by Men’s Health, and is a go-to expert on sex for several major media outlets.Visit his https://www.lehmiller.com/ (website). Or follow him on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ (@justinjlehmiller) or on twitter https://twitter.com/JustinLehmiller (@JustinLehmiller.)Don’t miss this week’s foreplay…A new study shows that it takes just a third of a second to realize you are attracted to someone and only a quarter of a second to recognize a person’s gender. Spotting attractiveness and gender so quickly could better increase our chances of finding a mate. We associate attractiveness with intelligence and better health which helps us make snap judgments about potential mates. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-6197557/amp/Falling-love-takes-just-second.html (Click here) to find out more.Before Next Time…Remember to like The Science of Sex Podcast on https://www.facebook.com/ScienceofSexPodcast/ (Facebook), https://twitter.com/ScienceofSexPod (Twitter), and check out our http://scienceofsexpodcast.com/ (website at scienceofsexpodcast.com!)Check out Dr. Zhana at a comedy variety show Wednesday October 3rd at 8 pm! http://www.fnlbk.com/events/2018/10/3/the-fine-show (Click here for more details.)For more in-person sex science, check out Dr. Zhana at the Touchpoint Town Hall on October 15th, for her seminar on How to Be In An Open Relationship. See the event live at the Assemblage, or listen in on the Touchpoint Podcast. https://howtobeopen.splashthat.com/ (RSVP here to reserve your ticket for this free event!)Check out Dr. Zhana’s next Sex Science Social: Debunking Sex Myths That Ruin Lives, on October 18th. She will be discussing some common myths that get pushed around that can be detrimental to relationships! https://sexmyths.eventbrite.com/?aff=podcast (Click here to reserve your tickets for the event!)Remember to submit comments, questions, and everything in between on our https://scienceofsexpodcast.com/contact/ (Get in Touch Page)!Do you love The Science of Sex Podcast and all the work Dr. Zhana does? Support her by becoming a monthly https://www.patreon.com/drzhana (Patreon Supporter)!Facebook Twitter Google+PinterestLinkedIn29Shares
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Horniness (AKA being sexually aroused) is a special state of body and mind. It’s a state during which we are much more likely to make risky decisions, not just about our sexual health, but about other things too. What else can make us forgo condoms, or lead us to believe our partners are not as risky as they may be?Our guest this week, Dr. Shayna Sparling, has been getting people sexually aroused in the lab (for research only!) and then tracking how this affects their thinking and decision-making. It’s a fascinating episode with some good take-home messages about sexual health. (Also, a glimpse into Dr. Zhana’s personal life and how she navigates using or not using condoms with new partners.)About our Guesthttps://scienceofsexpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/36269286_10156043797568558_4824109014918889472_o-1.jpg ()Dr. Shayna Sparling is a postdoctoral research fellow based at Ryerson University in Toronto and the National Team Manager for the Engage Study – a multi-site national study on the sexual health of gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men. She has a PhD in Applied Social Psychology, with a focus in Community Psychology and in Health Psychology. Her research focuses on sexual health decision making and condom negotiation and the factors that can affect these two processes, including sexual arousal, relationship motivation, interpersonal power, and partner familiarity.To read Dr. Sparling’s papers yourself, go https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1579888 (here), https://www.utpjournals.press/doi/abs/10.3138/cjhs.252-A1 (here), https://www.utpjournals.press/doi/abs/10.3138/cjhs.243-A2 (here), and https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Shayna_Skakoon-Sparling/publication/301649232_The_Impact_of_Sexual_Arousal_on_Elements_of_Sexual_Decision_Making_Sexual_Self-Restraint_Motivational_State_and_Self-Control/links/5b1eaaaa458515270fc456ae/The-Impact-of-Sexual-Arousal-on-Elements-of-Sexual-Decision-Making-Sexual-Self-Restraint-Motivational-State-and-Self-Control.pdf (here). Before Next Time…Remember to like The Science of Sex Podcast on https://www.facebook.com/ScienceofSexPodcast/ (Facebook), https://twitter.com/ScienceofSexPod (Twitter), and https://www.instagram.com/scienceofsexpodcast/ (Instagram)!Dr. Zhana and Episode #56 guest, Kenneth Play, recently put together the world’s largest and most comprehensive survey on squirting – head on to http://squirtingsurvey.com (squirtingsurvey.com) and take it! Anyone regardless of gender or squirting experience can take it!!Are you in Boston? Come see Dr. Zhana talk about building safe and healthy open relationships at the Good Vibrations store in Brookline on Wed, 3/27. More info and tickets https://www.eventbrite.com/e/playing-it-safer-navigating-sexual-health-and-difficult-emotions-in-open-relationships-tickets-55996306460 (here).Remember to submit comments, questions, and everything in between on our Get in Touch Page!Do you love The Science of Sex Podcast and all the work Dr. Zhana does? Support her by becoming a monthly https://www.patreon.com/drzhana (Patreon Supporter)!Facebook Twitter Google+PinterestLinkedIn72Shares
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Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, teacher, and consultant. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Rache; about writing erotic stories, reading vs. watching, and whose voices are missing from popular erotica. You can read about Rachel on her website at RachelKramerBussel.com, and find her latest anthology "Coming soon: Women's Orgasm Erotica". Bryde reads the profane four-letter-words and Jeremie puts them to good use. Bryde reads the BBC article "How the Joy Of Sex Was Illustrated" and for further listening on the topic (The Joy Of Sex), check out the review on "By The Book" podcast. Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's aftercare!
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When people think about what their sex lives will look like as they get older, they usually don’t see much to look forward to. They tend to think about problems that might arise and how sex may become more challenging. However, this line of thinking is all wrong. Sex can actually get better with age. In fact, many seniors report that they’re having the best sex of their lives! And many of the tools and strategies that they’re using can be helpful at any age for reigniting passion, improving sexual communication, and having more pleasurable sex than ever before. So today we’re going to be exploring tips for better sex no matter where you are in your life.
My guest is Joan Price, a self-described advocate for ageless sexuality. Joan is the author of four books about senior sex, including the award-winning Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex. She is a popular public speaker and sex educator who has been expanding our minds about sex and aging since 2005. Some of the topics we explore in this show include:
How (and why) sex can get better with age.How to start healthy conversations about sex, whether you’re in a new or long-term relationship.How to talk about sex with your doctor or healthcare provider.How redefining sex can open the door to more pleasure.What to do when the old ways of approaching sex just aren’t working for you anymore.Why sex toys are an essential component of satisfying sex, especially as we get older.How you can set yourself up for having great sex for your entire life.Check it out! To learn more about Joan, visit joanprice.com and be sure to check out all of her amazing books, including Naked at Our Age.
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This week's episode is your sign to start edging out of your comfort zone. It includes some research, recent personal examples, and encouragement for you!
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Our news cycle has been filled with countless examples of male sexual misconduct, from sexual assault, to harassment, to just general creepiness across virtually every profession and social sphere. With the exception of our groper-in-chief, this has professionally hurt pretty much all of these men, and while we seem to be doing better at holding the perpetrators of these crimes accountable, we are still having trouble identifying why these acts of sexual misconduct are so widespread. To help us explore this question, we interviewed someone who’s been studying male sexual aggression for almost four decades: Dr. Neil Malamuth at UCLA.About Our GuestDr. Malamuth is an interdisciplinary social scientist who’s most famous in psychology circles for developing the so-called Confluence Model of male sexual aggression, which takes a more comprehensive approach toward identifying the various factors (including personality traits, attitudes and values, past experiences, opportunity) and the synergistic way in which they come together to form the “perfect storm” for sexual violence.It’s an absolutely fascinating conversation that was SO good, that we decided to keep it going for longer than usual and skip our usual Afterglow segment.Don’t Miss This Week’s Foreplay…In a victory for expecting parents, the New York State Paid Family Leave Law (PFL) will go into effect on January 1st, requiring virtually all private employers in New York to provide paid family leave benefits to eligible employees. The US is the only developed country in the world that doesn’t have federally mandated paid parental leave, with devastating consequences for maternal and infant mortality, health, and development. This NY state law is the most comprehensive in the country thus far. Read full article https://www.ny.gov/new-york-state-paid-family-leave/paid-family-leave-information-employees#eligibility (here).The Metropolitan Museum of Art has decided to not remove a painting that has caused some controversy, lately. The painting, called “Thérèse Dreaming” (1938), depicts a young girl in a suggestive pose in which her underwear is visible. An online petition calling to remove the painting received 8,000 signatures, citing the current climate around sexual misconduct as grounds for removal. Read article discussed https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/04/arts/met-museum-balthus-painting-girl.html?smid=pl-share (here).Facebook Twitter Google+PinterestLinkedIn4Shares
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In this episode, Shan interviews comedian Ashley Hesseltine from the "Girls Gotta Eat" Podcast. You could argue that this episode is about women getting off with men partners without giving anything sexual in return, you could also argue it’s about the validity of blue balls, or that we’re here to discuss dating in a post me-too era. But what it really boils down to is rewriting sexual and romantic scripts, especially for singles. How do you end an intimate encounter where you want to end it...and have it be okay?
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There is so much great and life changing information about sex and love, but let’s say what you’re all thinking...it’s dry as f*ck! Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram will teach you what you really want to know about intimacy - from porn and orgasms to marriage and divorce - so you can be your own relationship expert.
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As half of the magic act Penn and Teller, Penn Jillette enjoys challenging his audiences with the unconventional. In stating his personal credo, Jillette finds liberation in believing there is no God
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Welcome to episode 264 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can give a killer blowjob, incorporating play into great oral sex, and understanding that you can still get an STI just through oral sex.
Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.
She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them.
In this episode, you will hear:
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Welcome to episode 268 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ashley Manta to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs, techniques you can use to stimulate testicles and looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”.
Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson.
She is the host of Elevated Intimacy podcast and her online course portal, Elevated Intimacy Academy, provides self-paced sex education. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She also offers an online sex magick, embodiment, and empowerment intensive called Activating Your Cosmic Pussy. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian.In this episode, you will hear:
Ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs How sexting can help in the sexual build up Why it’s important to have lube Looking at some of the best lubes on the market The importance of having respect for yourself and your partner Understanding your partners boundaries Techniques you can use to play with and stimulate testicles Ways you can stimulate the foreskin Looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket” How you can build excitement for yourself as a giver Looking at other male pleasure products to further enhance a handjobFind Ashley Manta Online
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